Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

[#1 pick]

I think women feel that way because so called good guys think women supposed 2 fall all over them just cuz they r so called good guys when they usually don't have any charisma besides that to make them the better choice. They act like they're gods n we should worship them just for being well mannered men. Its like they wanna b praised for doing the right thing.

There are good guys and there are "good guys". One is not the other. I am a good guy aka simp. I been seen by some I've dated as a good guy, a "good guy", an a$$hole, a fukkboy, or a great man. Every women ain't for every man and every man ain't for every woman.

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

lies. being a good guy reduces sex appeal
the girl in the video is speaking the truth

True, that chivalry shyt is wack as fukk and women read it as you being too passive in bed instead of fukking the shyt outta her. It all depends on the woman though. I'm not a beta male, my girl can hold her own.

 

[Gold]

Can't get hoes if you aint hard on hoes

 

[staticshock]

sooooo basically all this is for brehs pursuing females or trying to get to know them.

Cause im a good man and I been with my chick for damn near 5 years now.

 

[Ohene]

She said a good guy WITH SEX APPEAL

She says clearly just being a good guy is not enough. People also just have to click.

What is ‘sex appeal’ differs per person, but you can be a good person but with confidence and swag.

and im saying theres a negative correlation between the two dummy

 

[Biscayne]

Be a good guy to the woman that wants you, is attracted to you and appreciates you. If she does not reciprocate she may not be that into you.

COMMON SENSE!!!!

All women aren't the same, there isn't a definite way to treat women that guarantees getting what you want out of them.

A lot of this is about attractiveness anyway. When a dude they find attractive is nice to them the rules change, there's no such thing as being too nice when the dude is attractive. It's the same for this dumbass idea of treating women like trash leads to them desiring you, not really if you still don't have the desired qualities they're looking for. A dude that's unattractive treating them like trash is just going to be an unattractive dikkhead in their eyes. It's not like that treat women like trash technique is the secret cheat code to getting women.

Women change up their rules and standards all the time depending on who they're talking to. It's pointless to try to figure out.

COMMON SENSE!!!!

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

here's the thing about that "pedestal" shyt. It's possible for "the right dude" to come along and put a woman on a pedestal, sure. So maybe she'll eat it up. But it's unlikely to work out that way because if he's the "right dude" then he is probably a man with options.

A man with options isn't putting a regular old female on a pedestal.

Think about it. That pedestal shyt don't work no matter which side u are on. Nobody is worth to be placed on a pedestal. That means one partner is being presented an unequal amount of attention. Relationships don't work that way. "The right dude" isn't going to do it. The lame af dude will do it.. but he's someone she don't want!

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I actually have never seen this before. Ever.

I have seen, experienced men who claim they're good because they dont cheat or beat and think they should be treated as gods because of it.

No quality woman leaves a good man for a bum. However, women do need to be emotionally cared for and it doesnt matter how good a man thinks he is, if you are not filling her emotional tank, some women will choose to go to the man that makes her feel good. Ive seen that happen alot and I dont always agree with it. At the end of the day tho, a person has to whats best for them.

'good' is subjective as hell....

the problem is that men think logically and women make too many of their decisions based off of emotion. so to a man's way of thinking: if he's not beating or cheating, she should love him....but it's not that simple with how women think

ive learned, to not take too seriously what women tend to say....ive seen some supposedly smart women make horrible decisions with men.....

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

No. Met in college. In the band together.

Got married after college. 22, same age.

Married at 22

What did you expect? A woman doesn't even know how her p*ssy works at 22

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Why nikkas get a kick out of treating women like shyt?

because as crazy as it seems.....it works

not all the time but enough that cats see results

ive learned that trying to understand why women do what they do is a waste of brain power

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

'good' is subjective as hell....

the problem is that men think logically and women make too many of their decisions based off of emotion. so to a man's way of thinking: if he's not beating or cheating, she should love him....but it's not that simple with how women think

ive learned, to not take too seriously what women tend to say....ive seen some supposedly smart women make horrible decisions with men.....

Men do not think logically. Think of all the men who fight, kill, do drugs, beat women and kids... men are just as emotional as women, we just express it in different ways.

There are clear and obvious ways to become more attractive to women; yet many men, irrationally, refuse to pursue them, and instead blame women's "irrationality" and grand conspiracies spanning society. What's logical about that?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Lot of gospel in here
But social media has a lot to do with the frustration
Nikkas wit no hoes see chix complaining that they wish they nikka would do this this and this
And then they go I would do it tho
And masturbate into their tissue or the toilet
Like you're literally forced to see hoes complaining about shyt they don't mean

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

These are generalizations but Future when they are relevant. Russ Wilson when they are desperate. Circumstances change shyt. I'm not women hating, men are far more desperate than women.

i think they want future when they are young and russ when they get a little age on them

and i agree about men being desperate

if men only realized how much power they actually hold in the dating game.....

yea women have almost endless options especially when they are young...but in then end they almost all want to be in relationships....and men control who he wants to entertain on that level....

its a dirty game but its the only one there is

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

its a dirty game but its the only one there is

everyone got an expiration date. Luckily for us the way society operates, males have the advantage later in life. But the thing that I find funny on here is that some dudes think when they are 30 everything is going to change.

That's not how it works. A lot of guys who were that dude in high school fall off quick as fukk

but that don't mean if u wasn't shyt then somehow you magically will be when u are 30. If u haven't learned anything about how to deal with women in your younger years, being 30+ won't help u.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

everyone got an expiration date. Luckily for us the way society operates, males have the advantage later in life. But the thing that I find funny on here is that some dudes think when they are 30 everything is going to change.

That's not how it works. A lot of guys who were that dude in high school fall off quick as fukk

but that don't mean if u wasn't shyt then somehow you magically will be when u are 30. If u haven't learned anything about how to deal with women in your younger years, being 30+ won't help u.

yep....

i was a late bloomer with women....made a lot of mistakes.....

my only advice to men is to pay attention to what women do not what they say...