I think people resent being put on a pedestal because they will fall short of the idealistic 'them'...their partner needs to be realistic but acknowledge their great qualities.
I hear you and while what you said sounds nice what about the women who has a good guy but leaves him or cheats on him for a no good thug who would borrow her car, probably end up in jail every six months or leave her knocked up and pregnant usually lacking any sense of genuine responsibility. I've seen the story very well and I'm sure you have tooWhat about that? What say you?
Women only respect like 3-4 things and being a good respectable person isn't one of them.
Muthafukkas father's and male relatives must of been beating the shyt and cursing the fukk outta y'all moms and female relatives to even state all that bullshyt above.
Women like men that treat them like shyt. Tell her to shut the fukk up every once and a while and her panties will soak.
Why nikkas get a kick out of treating women like shyt?

I think the problem is "good guys" assume that because theyre so-called good, they should be desired in the same way that they desire the women they go after.
Women want many things, we're no different than men in that regard. A good guy with sex appeal, financial stability, and a desire for a meaningful relationship is what most of us want. On top that, mofos gotta just click and there's no forcing that part.
Being the guy who will never beat her isnt enough to demand her attention. Just like being the girl who will always cook a good meal or give head or look pretty isnt enough to demand his love.

This.What works for me is being a jackass, but a lovable jackass.