Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

[Wildhundreds]

A woman prefer a guy who can get OTHER women. That's how they know he's worth it.

This is gospel. Don't let a woman tell you otherwise.

 

[King Poetic]

all of u are confused.....

like i been saying STOPPED using the words NICE or GOOD GUY... thugs/ex-cons could be nice and good guys for that particular woman or women they get love from

u can't put words like Nice and Good with RESPONSIBLE, HONEST OR FAITHFUL WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIP that shyt is totally different

since i'm black and only deal with black women, it's true on a overall basis of what she said when it comes to dating or wanting to be with a guy in our community especially AMONG YOUNGER WOMEN AND AFTER A WHILE WHEN SHE GET OLDER AND NO RESPONSIBLE, HONEST OR FAITHFUL GUY WANTS THEM, JUST LIKE THE WOMAN IN THE VIDEO THEY EITHER FALL BACK TO fukkING WITH LOSERS OR GOD BECOME THEIR MAN IN TERMS F THE CHURCH

 

[Lamar Givens]

I actually have never seen this before. Ever.


I have seen, experienced men who claim they're good because they dont cheat or beat and think they should be treated as gods because of it.

No quality woman leaves a good man for a bum. However, women do need to be emotionally cared for and it doesnt matter how good a man thinks he is, if you are not filling her emotional tank, some women will choose to go to the man that makes her feel good. Ive seen that happen alot and I dont always agree with it. At the end of the day tho, a person has to whats best for them.

It’s real and it happens a lot more than women think or are honest to acknowledge.

A former classmate and good friend of mine is in the process now of getting a divorce.

His wife of 4 years cheated on him multiple times in the marriage with men who were in no comparison to my friend.

He’s an eductaed breh who also works with familes of children who are in the system.

I’ve seen him turn down women that were attracted to him that were WAY MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN HIS WIFE.

The men she chose to cheat on him with were absolute scum bags.

She finally told my friend that she did not want to be married and he needed to find a good (saved) girl because she thought she was ready for marriage but realized she still wanted to fu** around.

Breh couldn’t even get the divorced finalized last week because when the judge asked her if she was pregnant she said yes and the baby is not even my brehs child.

Now he has to wait for the biological father to sign the paperwork from the judge to legitimize the true paternity of the father.

“Some” of these females out hear are messed up.

Also I see demonic crap like this everyday as a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Women cheat on good men for some of the dumbest reasons and vice versa.

Sexual attraction/lust is more powerful than people think, especially if a person has not learned how to control their sexual desire when in a committed relationship.

My breh legitimately had multiple women who are his co workers that wanted to fight his wife.

And you know what their reason was?

They legitimately said, “As hard as it is for a woman to find a good man, and she has one, she is GOING TO DO YOU LIKE THIS!!!

“I’m sorry ***** but your wife is a dumb **** who needs her a** whipped for doing you like this.”

 

[DaRealness]

Look, some or most women wouldn't know a good man if he was 20 feet tall and flashing lights, BUT a lot of men try too hard and it's a sign of desperation or at best something they think they're "supposed" to do.

Doing too much too soon reeks of insecurity, plus you don't even know if the woman is even worth it.

You shouldn't put ANYONE on a pedestal and I was just saying to my friend the other day that if any woman tried to put me on a pedestal I'd put her straight or just walk away. You don't meet their expectations then they just switch or bounce. Nah, you're not gonna make me feel like I have these ridiculous high standards to live up to when I'm flawed like anyone else.

 

[DaRealness]

It’s real and it happens a lot more than women think or are honest to acknowledge.

A former classmate and good friend of mine is in the process now of getting a divorce.

His wife of 4 years cheated on him multiple times in the marriage with men who were in no comparison to my friend.

He’s an eductaed breh who also works with familes of children who are in the system.

I’ve seen him turn down women that were attracted to him that were WAY MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN HIS WIFE.

The men she chose to cheat on him with were absolute scum bags.

She finally told my friend that she did not want to be married and he needed to find a good (saved) girl because she thought she was ready for marriage but realized she still wanted to fu** around.

Breh couldn’t even get the divorced finalized last week because when the judge asked her if she was pregnant she said yes and the baby is not even my brehs child.

Now he has to wait for the biological father to sign the paperwork from the judge to legitimize the true paternity of the father.

“Some” of these females out hear are messed up.

Also I see demonic crap like this everyday as a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Women cheat on good men for some of the dumbest reasons and vice versa.

Sexual attraction/lust is more powerful than people think, especially if a person has not learned how to control their sexual desire when in a committed relationship.

My breh legitimately had multiple women who are his co workers that wanted to fight his wife.

And you know what their reason was?

They legitimately said, “As hard as it is for a woman to find a good man, and she has one, she is GOING TO DO YOU LIKE THIS!!!

“I’m sorry ***** but your wife is a dumb **** who needs her a** whipped for doing you like this.”

Then once she sees how much other women want him, she'll probably try and crawl back. Things like this are why I long ago stopped taking any broad seriously with the "there's no good men left" bullshyt.

I hope breh is serious in pursuing the divorce.

 

[ORDER_66]

Some women get turned on and loved being treated like shyt...

it's sad but it's fukking true they have way too many issues...

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Look, some or most women wouldn't know a good man if he was 20 feet tall and flashing lights, BUT a lot of men try too hard and it's a sign of desperation or at best something they think they're "supposed" to do.

Doing too much too soon reeks of insecurity, plus you don't even know if the woman is even worth it.

You shouldn't put ANYONE on a pedestal and I was just saying to my friend the other day that if any woman tried to put me on a pedestal I'd put her straight or just walk away. You don't meet their expectations then they just switch or bounce. Nah, you're gonna make feel like I have these ridiculous high standards to live up to when I'm flawed like anyone else.

She was actually relatively nice
Told your boy ey I'm a ho and the baby ain't yours
Go be free nikka

 

[CinnaSlim]

I say that too. [I don’t want to be put on a pedestal]
It’s basically like when you have a sick puppy who follows you around. They’re needy. They see you as a drug that will make them happy and solve all their personal issues. You shouldnt put the responsibility of your happiness on someone else. You need to have your own self-esteem. At the end of the day, I’m human just like you. I’m not a perfect angel, your idealized version of a women. Some people fall in love with the idea or potential and not the person.

However, that is not to say I don’t want to be with someone who finds value in me, but they are with me because we appreciate and enjoy each other’s company. We are not two incomplete people looking for someone to complete us but we are 2 complete people in a mutually beneficial relationship. Basically a supplement to someone’s life and not a complement, we make each other’s life better.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Then once she sees how much other women want him, she'll probably try and crawl back. Things like this are why I long ago stopped taking any broad seriously with the "there's no good men left" bullshyt.

I hope breh is serious in pursuing the divorce.

He is.

At first in the beginning he was willing to work it out.

I was like

I was glad when he finally saw the light.

Once he found out she was pregnant it sealed it for him and he is doing everything possible to make sure she gets those papers in to the judge asap.

In the beginning I did everything in my power to try and make him feel like a worthless simp for wanting to take her back.

Breh was using excuses like, “I’m working too much, maybe It’s my fault for not trusting her more when she wants to “leave” for the weekend and be with her “girlfriends.”

As soon as breh bought a house she started spending the night at another nikkas house and lying saying it was her homegirls uncles spot and they were just friends hanging out

Now keep in mind the reason he was working crazy hours was to get enough bread to buy a house because she was tired of renting.

The stuff my buddy went through with this whore almost had me believe he was going to be GMB for LIFE!!!

If it wasn’t for his faith and the sexy fine women on his job that encouraged him that his soon to be ex-wife is bat shyt crazy I don’t know where my friend would be emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

 

[The M.I.C.]

A lot of females are just not comfortable with that type of attention coming out of the gate tbh.

A woman who's gone through the motions or is just naturally cautious is gonna to try scan through you for ulterior motives especially when a nikka come through riding on a horse, looking like he came out of Camelot...you working on shaky ground without realizing it.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

This nikka.

What in the c00ntastic shyt is this

 

[meth68]

I hear you and while what you said sounds nice what about the women who has a good guy but leaves him or cheats on him for a no good thug who would borrow her car, probably end up in jail every six months or leave her knocked up and pregnant usually lacking any sense of genuine responsibility. I've seen the story very well and I'm sure you have too What about that? What say you?

 

[Guvnor]

I think people resent being put on a pedestal because they will fall short of the idealistic 'them'...their partner needs to be realistic but acknowledge their great qualities.

That makes sense, so essentially your saying be real and not a simp going too hard I can respect that.

I actually have never seen this before. Ever.

I have seen, experienced men who claim they're good because they dont cheat or beat and think they should be treated as gods because of it.

No quality woman leaves a good man for a bum. However, women do need to be emotionally cared for and it doesnt matter how good a man thinks he is, if you are not filling her emotional tank, some women will choose to go to the man that makes her feel good. Ive seen that happen alot and I dont always agree with it. At the end of the day tho, a person has to whats best for them.

Well I guess I might knwo a few low quality women cause I've seen it. Happened to my uncle matter fact but that's another scenario. My uncle had a very good job but due to his job he was always traveling. I'll leave it at that.

Though you bring a good point about a women having emotions and having to have her needs met in that way. That still has led many women to end up settling for no good clowns when they had a quote unquote good guy who cared for them though. They end up leaving the good guy for some street nikka or bum who will borrow their car and probably cheat on them too lol.

 

[Ol’Otis]

why this broad's youtube vlog look like it was filmed by a documentary film maker?

Like one of them HBO documentaries

 

[Ol’Otis]

Women love bad boys tho