Lesson to all men: Listen to Safaree (Nicki Minaj's ex) tell you what happens when you don't lead

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I have known her since I was 14. We lived together 7 years. If you're keeping secrets after that amount of time you might be a psycho.




Well breh, you obviously ain't that interesting. no offense. :yeshrug:


if a woman stays with me 7 years and learns everything about me, then she's mine for life.... :shaq:

I keep things fresh and exciting.











































I think... :mjcry:
 

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:wow: true, everybody can't handle that type of woman, breh.

I'm a jetsetter myself in the sense of I'm always making moves, HUGE moves.... and my woman gotta be able to keep up

I would never want a chick that is a homebody and just wants to be a housewife....

I'm not saying she gotta be making Beyonce moves, but I want her to have goals in her life and something she's working towards


but my stuff will always be greater than the chick's I deal with....

I can't get into no Safaree situation where no matter what moves I make, they'll always be overshadowed by the woman I'm with

I'm too proud a man for that. :yeshrug:

Luckily, I'm one of those brehs that's consistently moving up, so my odds of being in that type of situation are slim to none... :whew:

Real post... which leads me to this question...

Check out the underlined. I've been wondering if niccas are expecting too much ...

Is it not enough that a female of interest has shown that she can be a good mother, domestic caretaker and decent partner/spouse? Or should niccas expect more as what you're alluding to?

thoughts?
 
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Real post... which leads me to this question...

Check out the underlined. I've been wondering if niccas are expecting too much ...

Is it not enough that a female of interest has shown that she can be a good mother, domestic caretaker and decent partner/spouse? Or should niccas expect more as what you're alluding to?

thoughts?




I can only speak for myself, breh. I'm not trying to tell anybody else what they should expect, because you have to do what works for you.

Some brehs are cool with having their future wife be a domestic caretaker and a good mother...

I personally need more than that.

I'm that type of man that @mcdivit85 was speaking on. I have a goal of A and any woman I talk to, I sell her my goal of A and let her know the benefits that A will have to both our lives.

For me to achieve my goal of A, I need a woman that can HELP me. I need somebody that I know if I can't trust nobody else, I can trust her and she has my back.

But I'm that guy that's shooting for the stars.... every man isn't like that, and THAT'S OKAY.

Everybody's not meant to be the same.

Some brehs are hungrier than others.... and I'm definitely hungry - and not even for money really.

My goals are more of a social change type of thing, that will result in money over the long term... and I'm actually starting to see some of those benefits right now.

And a lot of these goals and aspirations and life decisions that I've made result in me not being able to talk to her when she wants to talk, I can't always be there when she wants me to be there....

My relationship isn't gonna be the conventional relationship because of who I am (speaking of social status) and what I do (speaking of my role in life).

And I need a woman that has her own goals in life for several reasons.

My life does not revolve around her.... not even close.... and the only way I feel she would really understand why, is if she has her own life with her own moves to make, that doesn't completely revolve around me.

The statement that I made earlier in this thread, I feel, is not only true for men. It's true for women too:

I tell women all the time the same thing I tell men. If she's out here looking for a man to make her happy, then she's looking for the wrong thing.

A man can't make her happy. The only thing a man should be able to do is enhance the happiness that she already has and or help her to make a pathway in her life to achieve that happiness.

The whole premise of this thread that @Napoleon started is that a man can't be with a woman that's got a higher social, monetary etc etc status than he does.

I agree with that.... but by that same token, I need my woman to have some type of status along with me.

I need her to have an identity that isn't built around me.

I want her to have her own life.... otherwise, if it's all about ME, then she's gonna be sitting up thinking about me all day, thinking about how I'm not there all the time,thinking about how I didn't do this that she asked me to do, thinking about this, thinking about that...

and I don't know about y'all.... but in my experience, when a woman has too much free time to sit up and THINK too much (meaning her mind is just racing and racing), then that creates problems. :russ:

I don't want my woman thinking too much (about a bunch of nothing) and creating an unnecessary headache for me...

an idle mind is the devil's playground. :whew:



so yes, when I'm out making my moves, I want her to have something fulfilling in her life that she can make moves doing.

I don't want a woman to worship the ground I work on.

I want her to appreciate me, I want her to follow my lead, I want her to be a part of my team, and I want her to be loyal, trustworthy and a good and wonderful mother to my children...

but I do not, and I repeat DO NOT NEED NOR WANT a woman that worships me.

Worship God.

Just be there for me.

I don't want no female simps over here. :scusthov:
 

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I can only speak for myself, breh. I'm not trying to tell anybody else what they should expect, because you have to do what works for you.

Some brehs are cool with having their future wife be a domestic caretaker and a good mother...

I personally need more than that.

I'm that type of man that @mcdivit85 was speaking on. I have a goal of A and any woman I talk to, I sell her my goal of A and let her know the benefits that A will have to both our lives.

For me to achieve my goal of A, I need a woman that can HELP me. I need somebody that I know if I can't trust nobody else, I can trust her and she has my back.

But I'm that guy that's shooting for the stars.... every man isn't like that, and THAT'S OKAY.

Everybody's not meant to be the same.

Some brehs are hungrier than others.... and I'm definitely hungry - and not even for money really.

My goals are more of a social change type of thing, that will result in money over the long term... and I'm actually starting to see some of those benefits right now.

And a lot of these goals and aspirations and life decisions that I've made result in me not being able to talk to her when she wants to talk, I can't always be there when she wants me to be there....

My relationship isn't gonna be the conventional relationship because of who I am (speaking of social status) and what I do (speaking of my role in life).

And I need a woman that has her own goals in life for several reasons.

My life does not revolve around her.... not even close.... and the only way I feel she would really understand why, is if she has her own life with her own moves to make, that doesn't completely revolve around me.

The statement that I made earlier in this thread, I feel, is not only true for men. It's true for women too:

I tell women all the time the same thing I tell men. If she's out here looking for a man to make her happy, then she's looking for the wrong thing.

A man can't make her happy. The only thing a man should be able to do is enhance the happiness that she already has and or help her to make a pathway in her life to achieve that happiness.

The whole premise of this thread that @Napoleon started is that a man can't be with a woman that's got a higher social, monetary etc etc status than he does.

I agree with that.... but by that same token, I need my woman to have some type of status along with me.

I need her to have an identity that isn't built around me.

I want her to have her own life.... otherwise, if it's all about ME, then she's gonna be sitting up thinking about me all day, thinking about how I'm not there all the time,thinking about how I didn't do this that she asked me to do, thinking about this, thinking about that...

and I don't know about y'all.... but in my experience, when a woman has too much free time to sit up and THINK too much (meaning her mind is just racing and racing), then that creates problems. :russ:

I don't want my woman thinking too much (about a bunch of nothing) and creating an unnecessary headache for me...

an idle mind is the devil's playground. :whew:



so yes, when I'm out making my moves, I want her to have something fulfilling in her life that she can make moves doing.

I don't want a woman to worship the ground I work on.

I want her to appreciate me, I want her to follow my lead, I want her to be a part of my team, and I want her to be loyal, trustworthy and a good and wonderful mother to my children...

but I do not, and I repeat DO NOT NEED NOR WANT a woman that worships me.

Worship God.

Just be there for me.

I don't want no female simps over here. :scusthov:

Youre on fire bro... but do you find it tough to find that?
 

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I listened to a few of this niqqas tracks. He does "sound like Nikki" even down to doing the weird/aggressive-ish/whiny-ish vocal thing when they get hype. So does he sound like Nikki or did he father her style?

The MAIN thing that always baffled me was : why is she on some "bytches are my sons" "Suck my dikc" shyt so regularly. This seems to explain that.
 
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