Lesson to all men: Listen to Safaree (Nicki Minaj's ex) tell you what happens when you don't lead

[KinksandCoils]

7 mins in. He sound like a beta male .he keep sucking his damn teeth

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Its the analogy of the situation.

Don't front out here like you don't know women with more money/power/resources than their male counterparts who aren't low-key disrespecting them or trying to hold their status over their men in subtle and nuanced ways that end up in visible power struggles.

My fukcin marriage fell victim to this. I was paying the mortgage but after that I was almost tapped out. She made more than me and was always wanting to travel. She took me on a couple of nice azz trips but ultimately she wanted someone who could take her on a nice azz trip. My everyday grinding wasn't enough to keep her attention.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Is that nikka eating a dikk sized jolly rancher?

Grape jolly ranchers

 

[3rdWorld]

Her music is already declining since dumping the breh..same predicament as Alicia Keys. Never drop the original man ladies.

 

[Theraflu]

he's a "nobody", and "no one cares about him".. yet- you dedicated almost an hour of your day listening to him speak.. and, gonna spend countless more hours talking about him..

what a fukkin clown..

Where you been

 

[Colicat]

My fukcin marriage fell victim to this. I was paying the mortgage but after that I was almost tapped out. She made more than me and was always wanting to travel. She took me on a couple of nice azz trips but ultimately she wanted someone who could take her on a nice azz trip. My everyday grinding wasn't enough to keep her attention.

... ....Sorry breh... What changed to make her feel that way?

 

[Ghost Utmost]

... ....Sorry breh... What changed to make her feel that way?

I think she was just very short sighted. The love affair and the dream wedding was all she could see early on. Life just happened to us after a few years of day by day living. I am sure she imagined she could love me making $30K and her making $80K but eventually I just didn't fit in with the jet set.

5 years or so on I got me a much better JO and could afford some of the extras I couldn't back then.. I guess she couldn't see that far ahead.

Mind you: I am just extrapolating. She told me that she wasn't excited about us anymore. I told her that that's the natural result of knowing someone so well. They can't surprise you. I don't think she'll ever be happy just finding somewhere to sit still, but she don't understand that "it" isn't "out there" so she keeps searching.

 

[hustlemania]

Where you been

just been workin a lot..

congratulations on your marriage, breh.. and, Happy New Year to you & the wifey..

 

[Paisley Darts]

Besides sucking his teeth he handled himself well.

He wasn't on some female shyt and aired all her dirty laundry. He seems to be holding her down somewhat.

Sounds like Nikki started feeling herself and stopped respecting him as a man.

I applaud dude for not sacrificing his morals & manhood for the fortune and fame.

 

[UserNameless]

I think she was just very short sighted. The love affair and the dream wedding was all she could see early on. Life just happened to us after a few years of day by day living. I am sure she imagined she could love me making $30K and her making $80K but eventually I just didn't fit in with the jet set.

5 years or so on I got me a much better JO and could afford some of the extras I couldn't back then.. I guess she couldn't see that far ahead.

Mind you: I am just extrapolating. She told me that she wasn't excited about us anymore. I told her that that's the natural result of knowing someone so well. They can't surprise you. I don't think she'll ever be happy just finding somewhere to sit still, but she don't understand that "it" isn't "out there" so she keeps searching.

tough to read man... You'll bounce back no doubt and to you for taking the marriage step.

But was she jetsetting before the marriage?

I just ask this because I'm always leery of jetsetting women... like overly jetsetting. Used to deal with this one chick like that and I just straight up asked her, "do you feel comfortable being at home at all?" And she said, "No. I just get restless and anxious. Can't do it."

'd her a$$ right afterward. She still ain't married. Now if I made more dough than her and worked on her psyche, it might have settled her down a tad. But generally I'm toward consistent jetsetters. And usually them.

Dudes need to always have something that they are moving to....that's not connected to their woman.

In fact, dudes should have a purpose that is more important than their woman. Women invest in men who have something for them to invest in. If a dude is only worried about her, then she'll just keep investing in herself.

But if dude has the goal of A and he believes in A. He works to achieve A. He sells the dream of one day having A. He lets her know how her life will be better by having A. Then, she will become just as committed to A and she will invest in A because she wants to see her man happy and she believes that A will mean a better life for the both of them.

All this is assuming that dude isn't a lame or a nerd or cupcake.

Sell her the dream to keep her on the team.

Peace

Yall better peep game.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

tough to read man... You'll bounce back no doubt and to you for taking the marriage step.

But was she jetsetting before the marriage?

I just ask this because I'm always leery of jetsetting women... like overly jetsetting. Used to deal with this one chick like that and I just straight up asked her, "do you feel comfortable being at home at all?" And she said, "No. I just get restless and anxious. Can't do it."

'd her a$$ right afterward. She still ain't married. Now if I made more dough than her and worked on her psyche, it might have settled her down a tad. But generally I'm toward consistent jetsetters. And usually them.



Yall better peep game.

Yeah... she was always on the go before us. She turned me on to traveling. It didn't occur to me that it would be any sort of issue. In retrospect it is indicative of her restless mind.

 

[Colicat]

tough to read man... You'll bounce back no doubt and to you for taking the marriage step.

But was she jetsetting before the marriage?

I just ask this because I'm always leery of jetsetting women... like overly jetsetting. Used to deal with this one chick like that and I just straight up asked her, "do you feel comfortable being at home at all?" And she said, "No. I just get restless and anxious. Can't do it."

'd her a$$ right afterward. She still ain't married. Now if I made more dough than her and worked on her psyche, it might have settled her down a tad. But generally I'm toward consistent jetsetters. And usually them.



Yall better peep game.

Yeah... she was always on the go before us. She turned me on to traveling. It didn't occur to me that it would be any sort of issue. In retrospect it is indicative of her restless mind.

I travel frequently.... And when I am not traveling, I am a homebody... Appreciating new cultural experiences Doesn't mean ones mind is restless....

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I travel frequently.... And when I am not traveling, I am a homebody... Appreciating new cultural experiences Doesn't mean ones mind is restless....

What's your sign? (No-seventies-pick-up-line) She was a water sign and she certainly flowed in each direction.

 

[UserNameless]

I travel frequently.... And when I am not traveling, I am a homebody... Appreciating new cultural experiences Doesn't mean ones mind is restless....

You're balanced.

 

[muse]

So you mean to tell me cats out there have time to listen to 45 minute interviews about... entertainers?

Did anybody post cliffnotes yet? Seriously, please