Let me ask you.. How does a woman 'win' to you males?
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Birdie
Banned
I never considered it "winning" being able to have sex with a woman regardless of how she looks. Winning for men and women is when you're able to find a suitable partner you can build with and produced children who will in the future become respectable members of society. Having a bunch of baby mamas or getting pregnant to live off of a man(or men) as well as the government is a lost not only for the individuals but for our race, which is why we've been losing for decades now.
Winning for men and women is when you're able to find a suitable partner you can build with and produced children who will in the future become respectable members of society. Having a bunch of baby mamas or getting pregnant to live off of a man(or men) as well as the government is a lost not only for the individuals but for our race, which is why we've been losing for decades now.
FukyourFort
All Star
Quick question from a recent experience with a male. If a nikka is winning when hes banging chick and getting money, how do you males personally think a woman is winning?
We were of course in an apartment with nikkas, a mixed setting and started talking about our homegirl whos courting a very big rapper (one of the rapper's fans brought it up).
Then these nikkas said she was a ho cuz she wasnt the only girl. We just looked at him like how is she not winning? This rapper has put her in plenty of great positions (no pun intended) to do what she wants to do (journalism), gave her exclusive shyt, PLUS she aint even sleep with the nikka yet. Hes sleeping w/ other chicks but not buying them anything. She getting all the gifts and avoiding the dikk.
The nikkas said she was playing herself cuz she got a bf. We werent paying a fukkboy no mind cuz the same bytch nikka almost shytted his pants when he found out the rapper gave her some exclusive sneaks and begged to see them/ their DM's.
Probably mad cuz he wanted to fukk him
Which makes me think, how does a woman 'win' to yall? To us young chicks at least in my circle if you good looking, got nikkas willing to bend over back for you (and they got money/great looks)...you envied in our circle. Thats all it takes to impress us by our friends. Obviously we late teens/early 20s college kids so nobody is mature thinking about the future like we should.
so thats winning to you huh? you and your friends get down like that too for famous nikkas?
"birds" of a feather.......
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
I was all with it until you said she had a dude.
Unless he knows about and cool with it then yeah, she winning more so because of him helping her to advance her career (and not just paying for it either. Giving her respectable work I guess).
It's different though.
To me, I think a woman is winning when she has a solid career/entrepreneurship , loving family, great/strong marriage, health, etc.
Even without all that, she's winning if she's being productive and knocking out her goals in life.
I think the same way for a guy really. I won't feel like I'm winning until I do the same. Career, financially, relationship wise, health, etc.
Unless he knows about and cool with it then yeah, she winning more so because of him helping her to advance her career (and not just paying for it either. Giving her respectable work I guess).
It's different though.
To me, I think a woman is winning when she has a solid career/entrepreneurship , loving family, great/strong marriage, health, etc.
Even without all that, she's winning if she's being productive and knocking out her goals in life.
I think the same way for a guy really. I won't feel like I'm winning until I do the same. Career, financially, relationship wise, health, etc.
I think winning is when you're at perfect ease with your spouse. When you can sleep with your significant other and feel safe. When you can not worry about living check to check. When you're in a position and wouldn't change a lot about it. That in my personal opinion is winning.
the bossman
Superstar
I mean I guess it's a win, but it's more of a short-term win and nothing to brag about. And let's be realistic, the fact she hasn't slept with him yet (if you truly believe that) probalby speaks more to how many women ol dude is dealing with as opposed to her game bein that tight. and how do you know he's not buying things for other chicks? because that's what he told her?Quick question from a recent experience with a male. If a nikka is winning when hes banging chick and getting money, how do you males personally think a woman is winning?
We were of course in an apartment with nikkas, a mixed setting and started talking about our homegirl whos courting a very big rapper (one of the rapper's fans brought it up).
Then these nikkas said she was a ho cuz she wasnt the only girl. We just looked at him like how is she not winning? This rapper has put her in plenty of great positions (no pun intended) to do what she wants to do (journalism), gave her exclusive shyt, PLUS she aint even sleep with the nikka yet. Hes sleeping w/ other chicks but not buying them anything. She getting all the gifts and avoiding the dikk.
The nikkas said she was playing herself cuz she got a bf. We werent paying a fukkboy no mind cuz the same bytch nikka almost shytted his pants when he found out the rapper gave her some exclusive sneaks and begged to see them/ their DM's.
Probably mad cuz he wanted to fukk him
Which makes me think, how does a woman 'win' to yall? To us young chicks at least in my circle if you good looking, got nikkas willing to bend over back for you (and they got money/great looks)...you envied in our circle. Thats all it takes to impress us by our friends. Obviously we late teens/early 20s college kids so nobody is mature thinking about the future like we should.
I call it short-term vs long-term because yall are in your prime right now and taking advantage (as you should) but 10 years from now, ol dude is most likely not gonna be checking for her like that. Any of these benefits you talking about all depend on ol dude, so it's not really a big deal and nothing to brag about. A long-term win is like the sista Monique Presley (Bill Cosby attorney). her resume is stupid long. started from the bottom and grind her way up. Everything she has and will have is based on her own work and not dependent on anybody else. that is long term
and banging a chick is not winning. that is some basic shyt
ultraflexed
Superstar
Winning for a man is the same as winning for women.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
ultraflexed
Superstar
Winning for a man is the same as winning for women.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
Thinks tricking on girls because you have it is cool.
Thinks having a sugar daddy is cool.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
Thinks tricking on girls because you have it is cool.
Thinks having a sugar daddy is cool.
ultraflexed
Superstar
Winning for a man is the same as winning for women.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
Thinks tricking on girls because you have it is cool.
Thinks having a sugar daddy is cool.
Which is:
Well educated/degree or good job or both
Own your own house
Humble/nice personality/chill or funny
Take care of responsibility
Looks nice, taken care of.
Awareness of how the world works in knows how to move in it.
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend that is the equivalent.
Nice build, handsome with brain and good job and self sufficient and looks towards the future
Nice azz an pretty with good job and self self sufficient and looks towards the future
Likes to vacation when home is taken care.
Know how to budget and live within means.
Willing to work and strategize to get what they what.
The hood Nikka an bit#h's version of winning.
Nice shoes and name brand clothes.
Nice car.
Nice jewelry perses.
Multiple hoez on deck to sleep with
Multiple Nikka's to buy you gift and sleep with.
Always going out, always at the bar or club
Plenty of cash on hand, little to non in the account.
Nice azz, t*ts but no brain lives day to day.
6 pack an muscles but no brain an lives day to day.
Thinks tricking on girls because you have it is cool.
Thinks having a sugar daddy is cool.
MalikReloaded
All Star
Loyal to her partner and sticks by him in the good times and the bad times. That's half the battle right there. A warm personality. A heart of gold. Classy. Elegant. Supportive. Not promiscuous. Not some former slut bag. Has her own goals and desires. Cooks. Cleans. Takes pride in being feminine, doesn't view it as being weak. Not vapid, shallow and materialistic. A good honest person.
I promise you most mature men would take a girl who is a 7 on the attractiveness scale who has these qualities over the girl who is a 10 but, has none of them.
Sometimes I come across women like this, and they stick out like a sore thumb. They're almost always wifed up.
I promise you most mature men would take a girl who is a 7 on the attractiveness scale who has these qualities over the girl who is a 10 but, has none of them.
Sometimes I come across women like this, and they stick out like a sore thumb. They're almost always wifed up.