Lets admit it... 95% of women are HORRiBLE conversationalists...

[MexicanKingpin]

i would rather talk to a female and chat with her while i'm checking that ass out
then to have some small talk with one of my homeboys.

 

[SpittinThatKnowledge]

They're lucky we need those holes

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Most women wanna talk about reality tv,random stuff. If you asked a woman point blank "Do you think Congress will improve when they rejoin in January and what do you think are there main goals for the next session". She wont respond. Now if you ask her "Whats your favorite episode of Love&Hip Hop"..watch her excitement.she will talk your ears off. This is how some of you cats get placed in the nice guy,friend zone.Your conversation will put you in that zone.Then she will be telliin you about the guys who trying to get with her.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

That's why women want men with swag. Most women aren't into anything. All they are into is looking good, shopping and going to the club to turn guys down. They like men who are into things like sports, music, motorcycles, and having overall great charisma because SWAGG=SPOTLIGHT. Women want a man who can bring attention to them. Why? Because most women can't get that type of attention themselves.

/thread

 

[Obama Era Survivor]

a lot of generalizations on here

 

[Gallo]

Most women wanna talk about reality tv,random stuff. If you asked a woman point blank "Do you think Congress will improve when they rejoin in January and what do you think are there main goals for the next session". She wont respond. Now if you ask her "Whats your favorite episode of Love&Hip Hop"..watch her excitement.she will talk your ears off. This is how some of you cats get placed in the nice guy,friend zone.Your conversation will put you in that zone.Then she will be telliin you about the guys who trying to get with her.

Why would you want to talk to her about either topic? Both topic suck and I don't want to talk about either. When I talk to broads it is about their lives and mines. Where do you hang out? Whachu doing? Whats going on next week? Well i'm doing this? Oh never been there, its similar to whatever? Oh I remember I was here I got this story that happened. You flirt and keep it relevant to whatever it is you're doing in your lives and if she is lame then you tell her your war stories, she will be impressed. Building intimacy and a connection is the point. Not to talk about the latest news and television shows. And the girls you're conversing should know the deal. If not, then control the conversation.

 

[Sierra Mist]

As opposed to me being a member on this site and coming to my own conclusions... What these neggas eat don't make me shyt. Again you're a male masquerading as a female, point blank period. Coco Loco, that's who the fukk I am. Deal with it or utilize the ignore feature either way no fukks will be given.


Good day Sir.

How am I masquerading as a woman? I've said I was a man you dumb bytch. Because my name is Sierra Mist? Yeah. You're so intelligent. If you actually read my posts you'd know I'm not masquerading as a woman. Maybe you should learn how to read. Crazy how so many aliases are getting bold now that reps are gone. Oh you hate me?

Wait who are you again??

I said.... Who are you?

Two posts about me and I didn't even know you existed.

 

[Wild self]

Most women wanna talk about reality tv,random stuff. If you asked a woman point blank "Do you think Congress will improve when they rejoin in January and what do you think are there main goals for the next session". She wont respond. Now if you ask her "Whats your favorite episode of Love&Hip Hop"..watch her excitement.she will talk your ears off. This is how some of you cats get placed in the nice guy,friend zone.Your conversation will put you in that zone.Then she will be telliin you about the guys who trying to get with her.

Yep. Best to joke on her and keep convos short and entertaining. That's my way of not being in the friend zone.

In your experiences, how you come to women and not be placed in that friend zone? Need to learn another avenue.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Why would you want to talk to her about either topic? Both topic suck and I don't want to talk back either. When I talk to broads it is about their lives and mines. Where do you hang out? Whachu doing? Whats going on next week? Well i'm doing this? Oh never been there, its similar to whatever? Oh I remember I was here I got this story that happened. You keep it relevant to whatever it is you're doing in your lives and if she is lame then you tell her your war stories, she will be impressed. Building intimacy and a connection is the point. Not to talk about the latest news and television shows. And the girls you're conversing should know the deal. If not control the conversation.

I was being sarcastic bruh I know how to control convo.I get the info I wanna know and keep it moving.All I care about is when we gonna chill andm aybe a few details "Does she believe in God", "you got a job" and thats really it. I care more about what a woman does then what she says at times

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yep. Best to joke on her and keep convos short and entertaining. That's my way of not being in the friend zone.

In your experiences, how you come to women and not be placed in that friend zone? Need to learn another avenue.

Gotta be honest with them.It depends on you as a person. What works for me,might not work for you.Hard to explain but honesty is best thing.Women can tell a front.Just be you.If you a jokey joke type cat be that.If you a smooth,laid back dude be that. Just dont think hard with women.Control the convo too.All that game stuff is wack imo. Yes 1st impression matters.Women know within first few seconds if you worth the time,the more you stall the worst.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

They're lucky we need those holes

Change women to people... and I'd agree...

Keep it as is... and acknowledge that you are projecting your lack of conversational skills and generally boring meaningless existence... on the women you fail to form a connection with....

It ish what it ish- Biggavells

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Yes.

(Q: have you actually asked 'most' of the men you've been with if they like talking to you, thus giving you the license to state your last post? Did you believe them? Cos if so I have a bridge to sell you)

Most of the men I've been with?

Most men become interested in me based on us talking first and even if nothing comes from it, they still want to be friends because they like my personality.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Most of the men I've been with?

Most men become interested in me based on us talking first and even if nothing comes from it, they still want to be friends because they like my personality.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

A lot of it is just connection. Some women I ain't got a doggone thing to talk about. Others that share similar interests, the conversations can be as long as we want it. Men got to stop trying to make women into your homeboys and talk about things like science, politics and that kind of stuff. Save that for your potnas.

False. It depends on the person. My BF talks to me about everything because I have an interest in pretty much everything. I read all day when I'm not working.

I had to stop talking to a guy once because he was so damn boring. I guess he was like the men on this site, thinking women like to talk about nothing so why attempt to participate in the conversation.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You all are pathetic. Does your momma like you?