Lets admit it... 95% of women are HORRiBLE conversationalists...

[john goodman]

Change women to people... and I'd agree...

Keep it as is... and acknowledge that you are projecting your lack of conversational skills and generally boring meaningless existence... on the women you fail to form a connection with....

It ish what it ish- Biggavells

I'm a great conversationalist... It's how I make a living breh... I can't say I agree with your post

 

[#1 pick]

I'm a great conversationalist... It's how I make a living breh... I can't say I agree with your post

I am a horrible conversationalist and it's how I make some of my living.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You all are pathetic. Does your momma like you?

I just think its cute that you think these dudes consider you a "friend". Youre a future fukk, and they are too lame to know when to fold + walk away

I'm a great conversationalist... It's how I make a living breh... I can't say I agree with your post

Great conversationalists can make great convo with everybody... the fact that you can't make good convo with most of the women you meet... speaks to your inability to execute... not some deficiency in women

There are some women I can have great convo with... some I can't... lot of it just comes down to the people involved and how they connect. So chicks you have shyt convos with are def having great convos with other dudes. Which means youre not as good of a conversationalist... as you claim to be. Esp considering how much more women love to talk than men.

 

[Gallo]

Great conversationalists can make great convo with everybody... the fact that you can't make good convo with most of the women you meet... speaks to your inability to execute... not some deficiency in women

There are some women I can have great convo with... some I can't... lot of it just comes down to the people involved and how they connect. So chicks you have shyt convos with are def having great convos with other dudes. Which means youre not as good of a conversationalist... as you claim to be. Esp considering how much more women love to talk than men.

Brilliant post my friend.

 

[Sad Bunny]

You've conversed with every woman on earth.

because I mean that's the only way you could come up with that stat.

Didnt you know, Coli posters create their own statistics

i need to drop that COli statistics thread sooner or later

 

[#1 pick]

Jay-z - Momma Loves Me - YouTube

I just think its cute that you think these dudes consider you a "friend". Youre a future fukk, and they are too lame to know when to fold + walk away

Great conversationalists can make great convo with everybody... the fact that you can't make good convo with most of the women you meet... speaks to your inability to execute... not some deficiency in women

There are some women I can have great convo with... some I can't... lot of it just comes down to the people involved and how they connect. So chicks you have shyt convos with are def having great convos with other dudes. Which means youre not as good of a conversationalist... as you claim to be. Esp considering how much more women love to talk than men.

John is in the same boat as me. Phenom with selling and pitching ideas, great charisma, and carries an presence about himself BUT... you don't listen well, you are too selfish, and you are out of touch to what are a woman's needs aside from sex.

If you didn't have money, looks, or extreme levels of confidence, you would be in serious trouble.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

How you know, you dont talk to none of em. :bama:

lol



but females I converse are

one or two i actually genuinely try to converse with and it's sometimes


then again i've been told i don't even make sense sometimes but she gets it

 

[john goodman]

Jay-z - Momma Loves Me - YouTube

I just think its cute that you think these dudes consider you a "friend". Youre a future fukk, and they are too lame to know when to fold + walk away

Great conversationalists can make great convo with everybody... the fact that you can't make good convo with most of the women you meet... speaks to your inability to execute... not some deficiency in women

There are some women I can have great convo with... some I can't... lot of it just comes down to the people involved and how they connect. So chicks you have shyt convos with are def having great convos with other dudes. Which means youre not as good of a conversationalist... as you claim to be. Esp considering how much more women love to talk than men.

I can talk to anyone doesn't mean I find them engaging/interesting

 

[The Message]

I hate talking on the phone - whether it's one of the homies or a female. There should be a point or purpose to the phone call, otherwise I'm ready to put a bullet between my eyes. lol With a female, the first call is just to get a feel for her personality and to schedule a time to meet up in person a few days later. I'm not spending more than 15 minutes on the phone, good convo or not. I'd rather kick it and talk in person.

 

[#1 pick]

I can talk to anyone doesn't mean I find them engaging/interesting

That's a copout. You know they communicate different and always has. It's rare when you meet a girl just like the boys and she's normally a hoe.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

John is in the same boat as me. Phenom with selling and pitching ideas, great charisma, and carries an presence about himself BUT... you don't listen well, you are too selfish, and you are out of touch to what are a woman's needs aside from sex.

If you didn't have money, looks, or extreme levels of confidence, you would be in serious trouble.

Exactly. I am not even immune from this, I generally write people off before I even speak to them

Good conversationalists genuinely go into each new encounter/convo w/an open mind and the intention to foster dialogue.... not just to judge people

I can talk to anyone doesn't mean I find them engaging/interesting

More projections. Its not your fault you can't make good convo, theyre not interesting enough. Doesn't that mean you're not interesting either? Because it only takes one interesting person to make an interesting convo.

 

[#1 pick]

Exactly. I am not even immune from this, I generally write people off before I even speak to them

Good conversationalists genuinely go into each new encounter/convo w/an open mind and the intention to foster dialogue.... not just to judge people



More projections. Its not your fault you can't make good convo, theyre not interesting enough. Doesn't that mean you're not interesting either? Because it only takes one interesting person to make an interesting convo.

That's generally what I've always done.

If you only deal with women at a bar, club, internet, after 11pm at night. You probably gonna have weak convo skills with women.

While great convo generally ain't gonna get her naked, it will make everything last a lot longer and she will start to crush on you. Overly touching you, playing with her hair or just being overaggressive and she will offer you the cat. That's if she wasn't doing that off top.

John, can you get a girl who ain't feeling you much initially? Not one who thinks you look good, got it together, those are easy. I am talking convincing someone to like you who doesn't initially like you.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I'll say this much: The one woman I met that I had crazy chemistry with and could have five-hour conversations with was probably the best relationship I'd ever had. I fukked it up really badly, though.

Never again. Can't make that mistake again. The older I get, the less fukk ups I run into.

Hold onto the chicks you find that can actually talk to you. Those women will catch you off guard in the best possible way.

Another thing: If you're running into uninteresting girls, try a different venue. I'm more into girls at lounges then club rats.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Bars/lounges/public places to meet girls... too much of a gamble. If your social circle is good and you are a well connected person you should have a good selection of eligible women just in your social circle

I mean if just sex is the goal, then conversation isn't important, unless you can't even get through a convo w/a jumpoff. If convo's an issue then its prob about more than sex, which begs the question why you are looking for anything even remotely serious from a stranger. No TLR dude but its a gamble, chicks are crazy, I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't previously vetted by people I trust or that I didn't know anything about

Bottom line though, real talk, real spit, one hundred thousand million, successful people don't make excuses, blame everyone else for their problems and then wait for those same people to solve em. So for all the dudes complaining about women but not doing shyt to elevate or better themselves.... you generally get what you deserve/put out

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

grown men defending the female side with gifs relating to females