Let's keep it all the way funky... After time & time again you see marriages fail why...

[Maddmike]

I got married 13 years ago and still am...I do not regret it but at the same time if I could go back I wouldn't get married...

Take it from someone that has a great marriage (in comparison to all the people around me that's married)...dont do it...its boring asf...in a way I'm cool with that but I feel so limited. I love and hate it at the same time. Its confusing

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Because either one of them is cheating or both of them is.

Especially if they think they'll never get caught and their partner won't ever find out.

It's hard for a man to turn down a fine ass thick girl with ass that's choosing and want to fck him.

And it's hard for a woman to turn down a dude that's her type that's choosing and saying all the right sht and got everything together.

Plus the marriage will probably end up boring after a while. Then one or the other will have single friends that's living their best life being single. Partying having fun meeting different people doing whatever they want when they want. They go want to start living that life.

And a million other things

I just started talking to a woman in her 30s, actually 30 even who’s living that life and now wants something serious. Don’t believe the hype.

 

[Sad Bunny]

I got married 13 years ago and still am...I do not regret it but at the same time if I could go back I wouldn't get married...

Take it from someone that has a great marriage (in comparison to all the people around me that's married)...dont do it...its boring asf...in a way I'm cool with that but I feel so limited. I love and hate it at the same time. Its confusing

Grass isn't greener.

Hows it boring?

My wife and I travel often do date nights and dinner. It isn't boring to me.

Single life was fun but those lonely nights and weekends were lonely and boring as hell.

 

[Sad Bunny]

I just started talking to a woman in her 30s, actually 30 even who’s living that life and now wants something serious. Don’t believe the hype.

This.

All the single people want to be married.

And married people want to be single.

I prefer being with one woman. And I'm fine with that. The single life doesn't allure me anymore.

Although I do miss not feeling "tied down" because it's more of a hassle to break up and the stakes feel higher.

But I guess the same could be said for a long term relationship too.

My friend is recently divorced and hes talking to like 3 or 4 new females but they're all status to me.

If I become single...I'm aiming for the top or I'll remain single

 

[Shameonyou]

The percentages aren’t in your favor getting in relationships or marriage women these days aren’t worthy of building family with truth hurts

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

As someone who sees lots of failing or unhappy marriages, from what I know of each, none of them should have gotten married in the first place. The minority of couples I know that are actually happy did it for the right reasons.

I'd actually like to be married at some point but if it doesn't happen that is OK by me too. I'm not going to marry someone who doesn't add value or creates more headache than benefit.

But really most people don't want to die alone either way. GMB isn't about never getting married, it's about getting married to the wrong person

Almost happened to me once. Choose wisely brehs

This. When it comes to marriage or a serious relationship no one wants to have the serious conversations prior to it growing into anything.

From my experiences and observations, it centers around physical attraction. Dudes want to have sex with a woman so they purposely evade certain topics, and women do so as well and then...after the novelty of a brand new sex partner wears off they realize they don’t like the person much.

Questions like kids and/or wanting kids, career goals, their childhoods, interests, income, desired lifestyles, business, investment, legacy, etcetera rarely come up. Then persons have various ties instead of being truly single. For instance, having that one person in the wing that you have sex with in between relationships is an insincere way to build a relationship on, ironically, it’s prevalent.

From my various conversations, women are the biggest culprits of this. Doing it with dudes they know there’s no future with but are giving away their most precious gift for nothing. Back then it was underground but now it’s applauded.

I’m single and truly single. I learned a lot from the last woman I talked to. It ain’t work out but it wasn’t led by sex. Not being motivated by lust is powerful. You can ask the serious and real questions off top and know who you’re dealing with. If it ain’t what you want, no love lost plus I’m transitioning into not spending money either. Cheap and free dates or sharing a drink or two. Dinner dates are exclusive for serious relationships and homegirls that I know and would like my company somewhere cheap.

Being extravagant and unnecessary are over for. Plus, I can tell a woman off top and know what it is.

 

[Maddmike]

Grass isn't greener.

Hows it boring?

My wife and I travel often do date nights and dinner. It isn't boring to me.

Single life was fun but those lonely nights and weekends were lonely and boring as hell.

Mainly cause I'm a loner type of guy...I place a high value on my alone time...my wife hates it but she respects it...

Also I'm spontaneous asf...I could literally be sitting on couch and a second later say I want to go sky diving and go. My wife would have to plan something like that for weeks...but I wouldn't do it because she doesnt want me to do certain things without her...I know it sounds silly but understand that I'm scraficing a major personality trait to please my wife....but that's cool and I understand that...she makes scrafices also...that's why we have a great marriage...like I said, its love/hate thing with me...also take note that we are 100% opposites except when it comes to money

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

This.

All the single people want to he married.

And married people want to be single.

I prefer being with one woman. And I'm fine with that. The single life doesn't allure me anymore.

Although I do miss not feeling "tired down" because it's more of a hassle to break up and the stakes feel higher.

But I guess the same could be said for a long term relationship too.

My friend is recently divorced and hes talking to like 3 or 4 new females but they're all status to me.

If I become single...I'm aiming for the top or I'll remain single

Preach. When one takes a long step back and fully analyze the market out there, most aren’t popping much but their vagina.

Honestly, us men should want more and require more from women.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Mainly cause I'm a loner type of guy...I place a high value on my alone time...my wife hates it but she respects it...

Also I'm spontaneous asf...I could literally be sitting on couch and a second later say I want to go sky diving and go. My wife would have to plan something like that for weeks...but I wouldn't do it because she doesnt want me to do certain things without her...I know it sounds silly but understand that I'm scraficing a major personality trait to please my wife....but that's cool and I understand that...she makes scrafices also...that's why we have a great marriage...like I said, its love/hate thing with me...also take note that we are 100% opposites except when it comes to money

Ok that makes sense then lol

My wife and I are similar

We like to travel. Go to movies. Try new restaurants. etc....

She's more relaxed then I am

I am more anxious and shyt.

And we both just tell each other when we want alone time as well.

Communication >>>

 

[CashmoneyHotBoy]

I just started talking to a woman in her 30s, actually 30 even who’s living that life and now wants something serious. Don’t believe the hype.

Don't fall for it. You think if she was alone with Chris Brown in his bedroom she wouldn't do nothing?

 

[CashmoneyHotBoy]

Preach. When one takes a long step back and fully analyze the market out there, most aren’t popping much but their vagina.

Honestly, us men should want more and require more from women.

Like what?

 

[CashmoneyHotBoy]

This.

All the single people want to be married.

And married people want to be single.

I prefer being with one woman. And I'm fine with that. The single life doesn't allure me anymore.

Although I do miss not feeling "tied down" because it's more of a hassle to break up and the stakes feel higher.

But I guess the same could be said for a long term relationship too.

My friend is recently divorced and hes talking to like 3 or 4 new females but they're all status to me.

If I become single...I'm aiming for the top or I'll remain single

I'm single and i don't want to get married. I feel like all the single people having fun living they best life enjoying being single doing what they want when they want with whoever they want with no strings attached. I feel like the married people stuck in a daily predictiable routine stressed out miserable and locked in some sht they can't get out of. I could be wrong but that's the way I see it

 

[Sad Bunny]

I'm single and i don't want to get married. I feel like all the single people having fun living they best life enjoying being single doing what they want when they want with whoever they want with no strings attached. I feel like the married people stuck in a daily predictiable routine stressed out miserable and locked in some sht they can't get out of. I could be wrong but that's the way I see it

You're wrong but that's fine.

Not all single people are living as you describe. Neither are all married people.

And anyone can fall into a miserable routine whether married or not lol

One married couple I know literally live in the city and go out all the time and go to shows and shyt.

Some married people may have open relationships or may be swingers.

Some may love having a house full of kids and shyt.

I know some single women that want to be married but they just can't find the right guy. I know others who love being single and that's fine. Same for men.

To each his own....I'm happy so I don't really even want to keep having this single vs married battle lol. It's too subjective.

but I was single in my prime and enjoyed it. But not I enjoy getting money and traveling and shyt. Prefer having a partner to share my experiences with. And I want a boy and a girl one day...I want a family

I do think people should wait until their 30s for marriage though lol

 

[Maddmike]

I'm single and i don't want to get married. I feel like all the single people having fun living they best life enjoying being single doing what they want when they want with whoever they want with no strings attached. I feel like the married people stuck in a daily predictiable routine stressed out miserable and locked in some sht they can't get out of. I could be wrong but that's the way I see it

Scraficing what you love is the only way to have a good marriage brah like @Lil Gator Reloaded said above communication is absolutely key. Saying the words "I dont like that shyt" and have a partner that respects that is what you are looking for....
Being on the same page with money is also mandatory....me and my wife are 100% on the same page with money matters

 

[Sad Bunny]

Scraficing what you love is the only way to have a good marriage brah like @Lil Gator Reloaded said above communication is absolutely key. Saying the words "I dont like that shyt" and have a partner that respects that is what you are looking for....
Being on the same page with money is also mandatory....me and my wife are 100% on the same page with money matters

I agree.
Money is the no. 1 reason for divorce so my wife and I make sure we save, minimize debt etc.
My wife isn't into video games but she will watch me play certain games and keep me company.
I don't like those girly J Lo movies but I go see them sometimes.

Compromise