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That's why I said nikkas *THINK* they got a good faithful girl. Because she put on GREAT front around you. Her friends put on a front around you. Her mama, daddy, brother, sister, aunts, cousins,and gma put on a front around you. It's no signs that tell you she really a thot. None at all.

Young whipper-snapper...:smh:
There's always signs my man. Otherwise...the chick your dealing w/ is too fast for you to spot em (ex. maybe a city chick vs a country boi).
Cardi and an Offset...:bryan:

You live and you learn. Hopefully you didn't invest a significant amount of time into the situation. Being off the porch faster than someone, and what you were exposed to, makes a difference. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Even in what you said, if a female is moving too perfectly around me 24/7...I'm automatically :mjpls: ( and that's a potential hint)...

She can't be illustrating her true self. Your lady is usually a reflection of yourself and I know I'm flawed at times. How does she move around others or other men? How about her homegirls? You can learn a lot about a female in the company they keep too. I check all boxes...(HW) :unimpressed:

Now just because her bestie Brittany is a slore, doesn't mean your GF has to be one, but best believe they have similar traits and personalities. They weren't rippin and runnin for years...prior to meetin you...and your GF was the 100% angel she portrays to be now no matter what she leads you to believe. It doesn't add up...:hula:

A female will always say too much...give an off-brand opinion on something...or some subtle hint into their capabilities (flirtatious, too touchy-feely, too emotional/vulnerable, etc). It's up to you, whether your sharp enough to spot shyt or too simpy to dismiss it....:sas1:
 
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A to Z shyt...he’s not implying that you shun physical attraction entirely just that it’s not @ the forefront of the relationship/connection
I seriously wrote require more. Lol. :mjlol:

People are argumentative for the sake of it.
 

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So Tarana Burke had everything in a woman you ever wanted and she was go care take of you for the rest of your life with millions you still wouldn't marry and start a family and have kid's with her and be faithful to her?

nikka don’t ask me stupid questions...you in here w/ some clown ass scenarios about tarana burke and rihanna and w/e else fukk shyt
 

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I got married 13 years ago and still am...I do not regret it but at the same time if I could go back I wouldn't get married...:yeshrug:

Take it from someone that has a great marriage (in comparison to all the people around me that's married)...dont do it...its boring asf...in a way I'm cool with that but I feel so limited. I love and hate it at the same time. Its confusing
Thanks for keeping it 100 with this statement.
 

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Would you honor them? If Rihanna and Lori Harvey wanted to give you some head and have a 3some with you and threw you a few thousands of dollars on top of that would you do it? If your wife would never find out?
:ufdup: No. I've only tried to wife one chick & wouldn't cheat. Alicia Keys might tempt me though :noah:. I was with my BM around 12 years & refused to marry her.

I'm not religious, I'm spiritual. If I swear vows before my God, I'm a man of my word. I can't be bought, I'm not a slave.
 

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Young whipper-snapper...:smh:
There's always signs my man. Otherwise...maybe the chick is too fast for u to spot em. Even in what u said...if a female is movin too perfectly 24/7...I'm automatically :mjpls:
because she can't be illustrating herself. Your lady is usually a reflection of yourself and I know I'm flawed at times. How about her homegirls? You can learn a lot about a female in the company they keep too...:unimpressed:

Now just because her bestie Brittany is a slore...doesn't mean your GF has to be...but best believe they have similar traits and personalities. They weren't rippin and runnin for years...prior to meetin you...and your GF was the 100% angel she portrays to be now...:mjlol:

A female will always say too much...give an off-brand opinion on something...or some subtle hint into their capabilities (flirtatious, too touchy-feely, too emotional/vulnerable, etc). It's up to you whether your not sharp enough or too simpy to catch it....:sas1:

So you saying if you was a player it's no way you could fool a girl into thinking you one of the good ones who tired of playing games and you turning in your player card for her and you only want to be with her and if you and her don't work then you give up on relationships? You wouldn't be able to convince her?
 

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:yeshrug: Wheather I would or wouldn't doesn't refute what I said..

You probably would do it. And it would be hard to resist. And women deal with situations like that daily and it's hard for them to resist a nikka too that she think fine and spitting game at her saying all the right sht. 9 times outta 10 she go fck him and 9 times outta 10 you won't ever find out about it
 

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Would you honor them? If Rihanna and Lori Harvey wanted to give you some head and have a 3some with you and threw you a few thousands of dollars on top of that would you do it? If your wife would never find out?
While we here. How important do you consider the vows if you take them?
 

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You probably would do it. And it would be hard to resist. And women deal with situations like that daily and it's hard for them to resist a nikka too that she think fine and spitting game at her saying all the right sht. 9 times outta 10 she go fck him and 9 times outta 10 you won't ever find out about it

Okay so.. selfish nikkas with no self control and discipline like I said
 
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