Lets say you are actually able to get a girlfriend

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yeah, she lets it be known she's taken/in a serious relationship. She just doesn't show you off or say it's you.
I actually prefer that, especially if it's talk at work. They don't need to know shyt about who she's with.
 

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She's not easily impressed by most men. She wouldn't just fukk anyone in general. You know she has high standards.
Honestly might turn me off a lil bit..

I'm relatively simple, like to chill, make people laugh, act goofy. I'd feel she'd want too much of me if she got high standards like that, like we'd be bickering over some shyt she feel I'm not doing at her preferred standard.

Especially if this happens to be a chick who got like 10k followers on IG or something, that would be too much pressure for me to be dealing with. Knowing dudes all up in her DMs and shyt and I basically just got to "accept" it without even a pic showing she mine.
 

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Yes that was shade.

She's a private woman and doesn't like to be in people's mouths regarding her relationships and personal life. She doesn't tell her friends or family when you two have issues. She tells people she is in a relationship. But she doesn't tell people that it's you (like directly link you). She doesn't bring you around her friends because she doesn't fully trust her friends. You like (love) everything about her. She may tell her parents and introduce you to her parents/siblings but you're not all over her social media. She never talks about her relationship with you to her friends. She has been surrounded by messy people most of her life and felt invaded. Let's say that even this might be a temporary thing until she is 100 percent certain about you being in her life, so one day she may go public with you. But she's in no rush to just put everyone into your relationship. She's a flirt but not a ho. Men try to talk to her all the time but you know that she's picky so it takes a lot to impress her. She's not going to cheat on you with just anybody, if you have an inkling that she would ever cheat or step out.

Could you deal with a woman like this?

Yep, I could deal with her. On my own terms though.

I guess we'd be in a relationship but I wouldn't consider it serious. She seems half way committed and I would match that.
 

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I'm a woman and that sounds like the perfect woman to me. What's the problem exactly?
Dummy she's shielding him from people that will expose her for who she really is. She's hoping she can get him whipped before that time happens so when he meets her crazy family or slutty friends he's in to deep emotionally to turn back.

That's something a man would do to a female. :usure:
 

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Yep, I could deal with her. On my own terms though.

I guess we'd be in a relationship but I wouldn't consider it serious. She seems half way committed and I would match that.
It comes across half assed? Even though lets say you two have a perfect committed loving relationship besides that? You'd doubt her love for you? Even if she hugs on you, cooks for you, has your back when she stuff comes up all the time, etc?
 

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It comes across half assed? Even though lets say you two have a perfect committed loving relationship besides that? You'd doubt her love for you? Even if she hugs on you, cooks for you, has your back when she stuff comes up all the time, etc?
If she can't trust her friends then I can't trust her judgement of people. I'd wonder what other secret life she leading with her friends. These her old hoe friends she used to turn tricks or boost with?

Shorty aint no celeb, trying to keep me a secret. Nonsense.

But knowing me, it wouldn't even get that far. I'm a social person and don't keep "frenemies", I'm not that starved for companionship. I'd last all of a month before i bounced. That's just me though.
 

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If she can't trust her friends then I can't trust her judgement of people. I'd wonder what other secret life she leading with her friends. These her old hoe friends she used to turn tricks or boost with?

Shorty aint no celeb, trying to keep me a secret. Nonsense.

But knowing me, it wouldn't even get that far. I'm a social person and don't keep "frenemies", I'm not that starved for companionship. I'd last all of a month before i bounced. That's just me though.
lets say she's not a real celeb but internet famous.

Would that change your perception of it?
 

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Dummy she's shielding him from people that will expose her for who she really is. She's hoping she can get him whipped before that time happens so when he meets her crazy family or slutty friends he's in to deep emotionally to turn back.

That's something a man would do to a female. :usure:

Her friends are not going to rat her out. Time is the key. Most people tell on themselves by how they move.
 

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Sounds right to me :ehh: I don't really want to get to kno ya friends or family anyway. shyt I have my own friends and fam to kick it with so that's a perfect situation

My favorite type of relations is her do her and I do me while we meet in the middle somewhere and do us. I don't believe in that whole a couples lives needs to be 100% intertwined

I don't give a shyt about the flirtin either because I kno damn near all women will, some active some passive, with the right person depending on ya definition of flirting. Not sayin all will fukk but all will flirt unless
 
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