This thread again?
Is this a new one or a different one?
Look. Yes, women can date you in spite of your looks. This doesn't mean they don't care about looks entirely - it just means a woman can look past it.
Most of the times, women are attracted to an athletic looking physique. Whether its a swimmer body, Wide receiver body, boxer body, etc. Having a physique like that will never turn off a woman. Overwhelming majority will like your physique if you look like that.
Women say they don't like or care about muscles. But we see women who say that to not appear shallow, or women who say it but change their mind as they get older. The amount of straight women who ACTUALLY don't like muscles is like 0.5% of the US population at best.
As a guy, you're still better off getting some muscle. It will only help you.