Lettuce discuss - date fell through: who was in the wrong?

[Canon]

But the woman also trippin too because if you don't know if a date is still happening don't be passive. Say hello and ask. All this "not wanting to appear desperate" stuff is dumb. Communicate.

And that last message from the chick is some podcast shyt. "You supposed to be so excited the day of for our date you can't wait to text me!" unrealistic ass shyt.

yeah but she listened to some dumb bytch on Tik Tok and regurgitated that nonsense back in a text

he won off not having to deal with her alone

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

He should have spoken to her the day of, and confirmed earlier. She’s right to assume the date wasn’t still on if she hadn’t heard from him. And let’s be real. You DO contact the women you’re excited about, and treat them better.



We keep telling women to be more selective, and stop choosing the wrong man.

With that said, this is why dating from APPS is a bad idea. You most likely aren’t going to be excited about someone you’ve never met before. He could be going on 2-3 dates a week. What’s so special about her? She could be a catfish, and so could he. You’re taking that risk. But for a woman you met in person, and talked to on the phone a few times, if you’re not excited, she’s probably not the one.

 

[CP3.]

I hate entitled bytches like this so much. She'll still be single in about 20 years time and still won't have the self awareness to know why.