I told my husband I now use they and them pronouns after 15 years together. We are both learning how to not misgender me.
Amanda Elend realized they're bisexual and nonbinary just before turning 40. They were surprised when they one day accidentally misgendered themself.

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I told my husband I now use they and them pronouns after 15 years together. We are both learning how to not misgender me.
Amanda ElendMar 14, 2023, 3:21 PM
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Amanda Elend came out just before turning 40. Adam Elend
- Just before I turned 40, I told my husband of 15 years that I'm bisexual and nonbinary.
- I told my kids and everyone in my life, but people sometimes misgender me by mistake.
- When I accidentally misgendered myself, I realized this was all a journey and we're growing.