Life aint fair. Rip

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your little man is on the other side
screaming at you to get up and keep
living for his siblings,his mama and yourself.
death is only final for the living.
he's around you man.
say his name everyday.
(as long as you speak my name i shall live forever)
I'm here for you my dude.
suicide would destroy your family.
it's not gonna be easy but keep pushing.
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So sorry to read this bro.
Sometimes, we do good and bad things happen, you can't make sense of it or try to place blame on your self or anyone else.
The only advice I can give is fornboth you and your wife to seek therpay together...raw truth is it will probably get way worse before it gets better but your other kids need you too. Now probably more than they ever will.

I know you say you and God aint right but if you believe.. You know death in this life is not the end. Probably the last thing you want to hear I know.

Do your best to hang with your other kids, they will have a lot of pain and confusion too, esp the older one, yall can talk through it together.
 

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DAMN IS THIS POST REAL?

THATS A CRAZY STRETCH.

RIP TO YOUR SON.

AS A NEW FATHER
I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND
WHAT YOU MEAN.

MY LIFE IS ALL ABOUT
THE LIL GUY NOW.
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Its pretty shytty to ask if his post is real. Either give your condolences and leave it at that or say nothing at all.

Rip to your son OP. Stay strong for your other kids.
 

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Sorry to hear that breh, no onensh9uld have to go through that.

Be strong for your remaining kids and your wife, and let the rest of you life be a memorial to your son's life.
 

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Rip to your son.

I know it's hard but eventually you do have to start saying his name again instead of acting like he never existed.

When I was in high school my cousin who lived with us from the time he was born died unexpectedly from an asthma attack at 8 years old. I was a sophomore and it was the worst thing in my life til this day. One thing that help me get thru it was embracing his memory and keeping his name alive I always think about how great he was as a person n speak highly of him. It's hard but time will eventually help you heal just make sure you keep his name alive in some way.
 
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I feel the state you're in right now and I know that post is a cry for help. You don't reach out to people on an impulse like this if your subconscious wasn't screaming for help, and I was there recently because I lost somebody close, but I couldn't imagine it being my son. We here breh, so just talk. Talk any time you need, at any point to anybody you can trust and who will listen, and don't worry about being an inconvenience because we care and we'd rather you talk our ears off than keep it in, because it might be one of the few things that can help you. Letting those feelings out whenever you feel the need will help, even if no advice is being offered in return, believe me. Don't suffer in silence please. We're here for you.
 
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