Life of a Young Ugly Ass Nikka. (Testimony thread)

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzcL_1DMyOM

Watch the whole video if you like, my situation is similar to this guy (start @ 5:00), and how he gets rejected one after another.

Tbh I think it's because I'm black. I'm not dark dark, but a slightly lighter then milk chocolate, smh. (No self hate)
 

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When Man Gets Rejected by women in the Dating game MOST SEE! - YouTube

Watch the whole video if you like, my situation is similar to this guy (start @ 5:00), and how he gets rejected one after another.

Tbh I think it's because I'm black. I'm not dark dark, but a slightly lighter then milk chocolate, smh. (No self hate)
There are a lot of issues here after watching that clip.

Dude isn't really dressed well. He's also walking up to women who look like they're busy on their way somewhere. Women are far less receptive to letting men holla when they're on the move.

His game is awful. "Can we be friends"? What a clown...weak.

He's very forward. That can turn off a lot of women.

He also seems like a regular looking dude with a jacked hairline....many of the women gave him a 5.

If you're not a good lookign dude, you gotta know your lane and stick with it. Ugly dudes pull women by dressing well, appearing to have money or rubbing off on them somehow. So if you got no dough, and can't dress. You'll pull women through spending time with them and then finally making your move. Sorta like a co-worker or friend who didn't really find you attractive at first, but got to know you and are OPEN!

With all of this said, it could have been a bad day for him....you approach 30 women, you'll most likely turned down by most of them, even if you're a good looking dude.


Edit: dude in the video's saying lightskin nikkaz are back in style? :krs:
 

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There are a lot of issues here after watching that clip.

Dude isn't really dressed well. He's also walking up to women who look like they're busy on their way somewhere. Women are far less receptive to letting men holla when they're on the move.

His game is awful. "Can we be friends"? What a clown...weak.

He's very forward. That can turn off a lot of women.

He also seems like a regular looking dude with a jacked hairline....many of the women gave him a 5.

If you're not a good lookign dude, you gotta know your lane and stick with it. Ugly dudes pull women by dressing well, appearing to have money or rubbing off on them somehow. So if you got no dough, and can't dress. You'll pull women through spending time with them and then finally making your move. Sorta like a co-worker or friend who didn't really find you attractive at first, but got to know you and are OPEN!

With all of this said, it could have been a bad day for him....you approach 30 women, you'll most likely turned down by most of them, even if you're a good looking dude.


Edit: dude in the video's saying lightskin nikkaz are back in style? :krs:

this is true unless your a well known actor your pickup rate will be in the low percentage
 

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OP: Approach many girls daily, but be nonchalant about it and speak off the cuff when talking to them. Tell them to take your number, or ask for theirs. You're going to get rejected often, but if you do this alot, you will start pulling AND get over the fear of rejection.
this. last year i worked part time at Wal-Mart for 2 months. in that time i hollered at 13 chicks(coworkers and random shoppers). out of those 13 chicks i got 7 numbers(which obviously means i got rejected 6 times). out of the 7 chicks whose numbers i got i ended up smashing 4 of them. basicly what im tryna say is that A CLOSED MOUTH DONT GET FED!!! "rejection" aint shyt!! i used to be the shyest dude on the planet when it came to approaching females but ironically the best thing to happen to me was being rejected the 1st time i ever approached a female. you know why??: its because the rejection was'nt nearly as bad as i thought it would be. its not a crime to holler at a female and u not gon die. always remember: THE GUYS THAT GET THE MOST p*ssy ARE THE ONES WHO GET REJECTED THE MOST. if u never throw ur bait in the water you'll never catch anything
 

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Funny, there seems to be a correlation with fat average white girls that have made the boldest moves to me, when it comes to displaying interest.

Last month I went to the club with a couple of my friends, one of them had a change of plans and decided to chill with this girl I mentioned in another thread and two other girls joined along instead that were his co workers.

Anyways at the club, I was chilling on the couch and they came upstairs and spotted me, the fat one (go figure) she was lie "OMG there he is!" Asking me why I'm not dancing, I pulled her closer because she couldn't here me, not even hard, and this bytch literally fell in my lap:childplease: I decided to go back to the v.i.p. section where everyone was dancing the she proceeded to dance on me and trying to get me hard on purpose while feeling up her friends t*ts. Me trying to resist, I looked up in the air thinking of sad thoughts and math problems, after about 15 minutes she kissed me on my neck once and whispered in my ear "thank you."

I don't know about y'all, but most of the parties I been to before clubbing (19 & over), I would always look for the most decent bunch of girls with the fattest ass preferably in stretch pants. These girls would get a nikka hard with quickness:wow: then proceed to leave once they feel the tip:usure:

:deadrose:
 

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I'm trollin....
But just bein ugly isn't gonna stop u from gettin ass, I see fat ugly dudes with attractive girls all the time. Do u have a acne problem or somethin?
If u dress nice, smell nice and groom nice then add confidence with that u should have no problem pickin up gals
 

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Funny, there seems to be a correlation with fat average white girls that have made the boldest moves to me, when it comes to displaying interest.

Last month I went to the club with a couple of my friends, one of them had a change of plans and decided to chill with this girl I mentioned in another thread and two other girls joined along instead that were his co workers.

Anyways at the club, I was chilling on the couch and they came upstairs and spotted me, the fat one (go figure) she was lie "OMG there he is!" Asking me why I'm not dancing, I pulled her closer because she couldn't here me, not even hard, and this bytch literally fell in my lap:childplease: I decided to go back to the v.i.p. section where everyone was dancing the she proceeded to dance on me and trying to get me hard on purpose while feeling up her friends t*ts. Me trying to resist, I looked up in the air thinking of sad thoughts and math problems, after about 15 minutes she kissed me on my neck once and whispered in my ear "thank you."

I don't know about y'all, but most of the parties I been to before clubbing (19 & over), I would always look for the most decent bunch of girls with the fattest ass preferably in stretch pants. These girls would get a nikka hard with quickness:wow: then proceed to leave once they feel the tip:usure:

:russ:
 

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niccas got mad excuses, I know this one nikka who got hit in the face by a can of bush's baked beans by his girl. bytch threw it at him like she was on the mound, Tryin to walk this nicca. broke his nose,a bunch of his teeth, nig had baked beans in his throat and on his forehead and shyt.

Next week this nicca walkin up lookin like Martin after the Tommy Hearns fight like sup wit dem hoes my nicca, im tryin to tell dis nicca to throw in the towel, but he like :yeshrug:

This nicca ended up pullin this cute breezy, off the supreme confidence. :win:

Lead yourself, control your emotions, dont be thirsty, and its a wrap. Can't get p*ssy when toy act like one my nig.
 

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this. last year i worked part time at Wal-Mart for 2 months. in that time i hollered at 13 chicks(coworkers and random shoppers). out of those 13 chicks i got 7 numbers(which obviously means i got rejected 6 times). out of the 7 chicks whose numbers i got i ended up smashing 4 of them. basicly what im tryna say is that A CLOSED MOUTH DONT GET FED!!! "rejection" aint shyt!! i used to be the shyest dude on the planet when it came to approaching females but ironically the best thing to happen to me was being rejected the 1st time i ever approached a female. you know why??: its because the rejection was'nt nearly as bad as i thought it would be. its not a crime to holler at a female and u not gon die. always remember: THE GUYS THAT GET THE MOST p*ssy ARE THE ONES WHO GET REJECTED THE MOST. if u never throw ur bait in the water you'll never catch anything

I work at wal-mart. I would talk to the girls there, but they might report me, which is why I haven't done anything.

How did you do it? There is this one particular coworker that I am feeling for that I want to talk to seriously, and another 3 coworkers that I just want to smash.


Mannnnnnnnnnn the women that I see every time I'm on the floor, I want to talk to them. :deadrose:
 

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I'm trollin....
But just bein ugly isn't gonna stop u from gettin ass, I see fat ugly dudes with attractive girls all the time. Do u have a acne problem or somethin?
If u dress nice, smell nice and groom nice then add confidence with that u should have no problem pickin up gals

Never had a major issue with acne.
 
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