ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
you just said you favor dark skin over light skin. That's biased and hypocritical.
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ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
this thread sounds like confused black women complaining and telling black men to go and make the world perfect for them
filial_piety
Banned
Most men don't marry or reproduce out...so it's a moot point.
Most black women prefer to have light skin children, with loose curly hair...especially if they are girls.
Black mothers are the first agents in teaching young black women to hate themselves
Elle Driver
Veteran
Says a light skin breh lol.
AntiVenom
Bedwench & Armchair Militant Killer
I think the solution is fairly obvious and simple...
Every black man must find every black woman attractive...no matter how dark or light, skinny or fat, ...bad attitude or not...that way, they can never accuse you of being "colorstruck."
You'll elevate their self esteem regardless, because as well all know.. your physical preferences are the microcosm that defines their self-worth.
EVERYBODY wins at that point...and unless that course of action takes place...you will never be able to convince anyone (or even most of them) that you find a woman attractive because she isn't dark.
I don't care what anyone says...black men are critisized the harshest for what they find attractive.
You'll never be able to make any of them happy, unless you make ALL of them happy.
Otherwise, look for this thread to pop up in another 3 months
THERE YOU GO. Thats what this shyt is really about at its core. And I have to give them a big middle fukk you on that tip. We dont owe them that. Infact we need to check them when they start up that shyt because theyre allowed to have their preferences. They will learn to respect ours and shut the fukk up about it. Itll only happen though if we make it a point to shut them down when they start up with this nonsense each and every time. No one tells them shyt so we need to hit them hard when they try to do it to us.
Yes, a segment of black men prefer lighter skin. So the fukk what? They need to focus on the ones that prefer dark skin or are open to all skin types and stop this whining. Trust me these men are not in the minority. Most black men are not going to turn down an attractive woman....dark skin or otherwise. Thats a bullshyt ignorant ass myth that theyve created. WOMAN THE fukk UP and stop being pussies about this. No one is obligated to be attracted to you. They need to be adults and accept that not everyone will be.
Honestly I say fukk their self esteem.Thats an individual problem to solve....if they cant solve it on their own then they need to pay a psychiatrist and stop trying to obligate other people to save them from their insecurities.
All that bullshyt you said is flat out not true. Quit projecting your own insecurities on everyone else.
Most black women hated on Beyonce and Halle Berry until they got real popular and mainstream.
And white men said it's OK for black men to get with white women now?Just stop.
They make ignorant ass sweeping generalizations like this....and then have the BALLS to try to make demands from us. The very same men that theyve attacked.
Another reason why I refuse to take this shyt seriously. fukk THEM. Let em rot in their own self inflicted misery.
She did. See the hypocrisy? Its okay when THEY do it but if you do that to them....it suddenly becomes an issue that we need to "take responsibility for our part in it" and come to the rescue and stop other black men from having their own preferences. Take them seriously if you want to man.
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
If it wasn't for black men our communitites wouldnt even exist today. What do black women do besides complain and gripe about black men.
Elle Driver
Veteran
I didn't realize dark skin was favored in any community. Enlighten me.
AntiVenom
Bedwench & Armchair Militant Killer
Sums it up 100%.
They honestly think someone owes them this too.
Youve got no idea how much im laughing my ass off in here at them whining for this.
Dont worry she'll play dumb now that you called her out on the hypocrisy of having a preference lmao
christinasade
Banned
Oh but I thought it was the white mans fault and were not supposed to go at other black folk.
filial_piety
Banned
THERE YOU GO. Thats what this shyt is really about at its core. And I have to give them a big middle fukk you on that tip. We dont owe them that. Infact we need to check them when they start up that shyt because theyre allowed to have their preferences. They will learn to respect ours and shut the fukk up about it. Itll only happen though if we make it a point to shut them down when they start up with this nonsense each and every time. No one tells them shyt so we need to hit them hard when they try to do it to us.
Yes, a segment of black men prefer lighter skin. So the fukk what? They need to focus on the ones that prefer dark skin or are open to all skin types and stop this whining. Trust me these men are not in the minority. Most black men are not going to turn down an attractive woman....dark skin or otherwise. Thats a bullshyt ignorant ass myth that theyve created. WOMAN THE fukk UP and stop being pussies about this. No one is obligated to be attracted to you. They need to be adults and accept that not everyone will be.
Honestly I say fukk their self esteem.Thats an individual problem to solve....if they cant solve it on their own then they need to pay a psychiatrist and stop trying to obligate other people to save them from their insecurities.
They make ignorant ass sweeping generalizations like this....and then have the BALLS to try to make demands from us. The very same men that theyve attacked.
Another reason why I refuse to take this shyt seriously. fukk THEM. Let em rot in their own self inflicted misery.
She did. See the hypocrisy? Its okay when THEY do it but if you do that to them....it suddenly becomes an issue that we need to "take responsibility for our part in it" and come to the rescue and stop other black men from having their own preferences. Take them seriously if you want to man.
I agree....but for those black men who actually entertain the "colorstruck" argument....the only solution for them is find every and all black women attractive....it's their only way out.
What :smuggyralph:The person who hasn't done shyt to help her ebola stricken home country and called Africans "idiots" and "savages" is calling someone a c00n
AntiVenom
Bedwench & Armchair Militant Killer
They'd be stupid to try. WAYYYYYYY too much work. Not to mention no one is obligating black women to to the same. fukk that. I will fight against that bullshyt. Black male autonomy is the torch for social change that Im carrying.
Weve got to deal with too much bullshyt and character assassination attempts like this. Its time for it to end. Im very happy that more black men are waking up though. Thats positive change.
filial_piety
Banned
nope. Everyone is responsible for their own behaviorOh but I thought it was the white mans fault and were not supposed to go at other black folk.
