I think the solution is fairly obvious and simple...
Every black man must find every black woman attractive...no matter how dark or light, skinny, fat, skinny...bad attitude or not...that way, they can never accuse you of being "colorstruck."
That way, you will elevate their self esteem regardless of whether you truly find them attractive or not since your physical preferences are the microcosm that defines their self-worth.
EVERYBODY wins at that point...and unless that course of action takes place...you will never be able to convince anyone (or even most of them) that you find a woman attractive because she isn't dark.
I don't care what anyone says...black men are critisized the harshest for what they find attractive.
You'll ever be able to make any of them happy, unless you make ALL of them happy.
Otherwise, look for this thread to pop up in another 3 months![]()
You have no dog in this fight. I dont know why you insert yourself in this discussion.
I think the solution is fairly obvious and simple...
The whole topic is bullshyt. You don't tackle white supremacy with a bullshyt documentary about dark skinned black people vs light skinned black people. People who actually have matured don't dwell on that so called "issue" of colorism anymore. And we know damn well that most of the complaints about light vs dark always center about dating and relationships.


Just stop.
