At least you're being upfront about it. I don't want to hear that colorism shyt from some woman who won't date a broke, small dikked, manlet. Difference is men are told to get their weight up when they're lacking in one of the three areas I listed.Cool.

I agree.Nah, they still black women at the end of the day. They shouldn't be put on a pedestal though.
Im not taking as nothing but comedy. Its like a bum telling me my house isn't shyt. That's ok but that wind chill about -10 outchea better bundle up homeboy. That's what it feels like to me so no I don't care just think its funny. Well since you think white men are he man and got the power you should take it up with them and use the smilies too and see how far you get.Breh, you are the one taking it as diss, spite, shade or anything else negative.If a breh was to tell me I have no power in this society I wouldn't take it as a diss because he would be right.
It's better for black women take up their issues with those who have the power to change things.
Unless you are suggesting that black men do have the power to change things but have decided to be followers instead of leaders.![]()
I wish people would stop acting like lightskin preference is just a male thing.

Breh, you are the one taking it as diss, spite, shade or anything else negative.If a breh was to tell me I have no power in this society I wouldn't take it as a diss because he would be right.
It's better for black women take up their issues with those who have the power to change things.
Unless you are suggesting that black men do have the power to change things but have decided to be followers instead of leaders.![]()
instead, y'all promote bedding the race that decided the more european blood you have, the better you areBold is so true. If a dude was to complain and use the same excuses some black women use they laugh a dude out the building and tell him to be a man. That's whats funny we all have to deal with something but as we can tell chicks because most don't force them to ever "man" up have been failed. We have to or else while most of them can just sit here whining when guarantee most of them have "preferences" themselves. Its always an excuse to why there's are valid but men's nah we were programmed.At least you're being upfront about it. I don't want to hear that colorism shyt from some woman who won't date a brright, small dikked, manlet. Difference is men are told to get their weight up when they're lacking in one of the three areas I listed.
I've had all kinds of white and asian friends come to me depressed or crying that they cannot attract a woman. All these whiteboys shooting up schools because they cannot get laid. I've had plenty of suburban black friends who came to me complaining that they cannot attract you very same black women who complain about colorism because they aren't hyper masculine enough. Yet y'all want to make documentaries and write books on "Skin" color preferences? Y'all women need to learn to suck it up and get over it like y'all tell men about their insecurities. This is why people do not take modern day women seriously.
I can't wait until black men fully take back their media(we already took back black talk radio with black u-streamers and black Youtubers) so we can shut y'all hoes up for good. You never hear asian, Indian, or hispanic women complaining about colorism even though its 20x as savage in their communities. So shutup PLEASE![]()
But didn't you infer in your past post that the black male was suppose to lead the community......black women have had over 40 yrs to take things up with those with the power to change things and they haventinstead, y'all promote bedding the race that decided the more european blood you have, the better you are
There's nothing silly when she confirms what many posters themselves say...black men are powerless when it comes to what black women endure but as soon as a black woman ok y'all powerless so why am I wasting my time now it's an insult.The point is if somebody has more of something you look silly trying to even use that as something to talk about no matter how you try to frame it.
But didn't you infer in your past post that the black male was suppose to lead the community......
If black men are the leaders isn't some it their responsibility?

Honestly, I mainly noticed men doing this.
I never really noticed this shyt from women growing up...... I barely heard about it from tv n shyt. and i grew up in the blackest city.
So you mean to tell me.............. that some of my conquest were only a success because of Features
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But didn't you infer in your past post that the black male was suppose to lead the community......
If black men are the leaders isn't some it their responsibility?
WHY not? She made good points...my approach is just different.black women have had over 40 yrs to take it up with those in power to change things and they haventinstead, y'all promote bedding the race that decided the more european blood you have, the better you are
and why does @Yup keep cosigning you when her canadian ass is doing the exact opposite of your advice
No woman escapes accountability of anything black women take on more than their fair share.i've always said that male leadership isn't intrinsic, this is a scape goat y'all push to avoid any type of female accountability. if the boys aren't being raised by leaders, and given the tools and knowledge to lead -- where do the leadership qualities materialize from? y'all sound stupid with this shyt