"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

[Blackking]

what does any of that have to do with what i typed? i agree it takes men because the women are fulla shyt. they bytch and bark about equality but wont do whats necessary to build a prosperous community. that doesnt change the fact that men are not born leaders.

what it has to deal with is.......


we need a community feeling with the men...... we can't only raise our sons, we need to help out other young men because like you said.............. leadership isn't always born into a nikka.

We will either take charge or sit around and complain about the women who shouldn't even have had to do all the shyt and be put into these positions in the First fukking place.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I wish people would stop acting like lightskin preference is just a male thing.

Facts and Ive experienced that shyt first hand. I've heard a lot of crazy comments come out of dark women's mouths directed at me and my older brother.

My older brother is super light with loose curls & green eyes and sometimes RANDOM women would come up to him and say they'd make pretty babies together.

 

[christinasade]

i didn't say a woman can teach a man to be a man, i'm saying its stupid to expect leadership qualities from males that werent taught or given the tools to be leaders. this is where you go to the "well if nikkas would raise their kids" defense, and i tell you it starts with the women choosing a partner that has already demonstrated leadership qualities before she decides to get pregnant by him

But if black dudes already DONT HAVE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES LIKE YOU SAID then wouldn't it be fair

To assume, her options were incredibly slim. Which means the probability of her choosing

A leader was slim to none. Like, say there's 10 orange marbles and 4 purple marbles probability

Of me choosing a purple marble is very slim.

But of course, a woman still has a choice I guess.

 

[christinasade]

Facts and Ive experienced that shyt first hand. I've heard a lot of crazy comments come out of dark women's mouths directed at me and my older brother.

My older brother is super light with loose curls & green eyes and sometimes RANDOM women would come up to him and say they'd make pretty babies together.

What did they say t you? And honesty would be great.

 

[marcuz]

But if black dudes already DONT HAVE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES LIKE YOU SAID then wouldn't it be fair

To assume, her options were incredibly slim. Which means the probability of her choosing

A leader was slim to none. Like, say there's 10 orange marbles and 4 purple marbles probability

Of me choosing a purple marble is very slim.

But of course, a woman still has a choice I guess.

so whats your solution? keep popping out numerous unwanted children that dont have the resources or know how to lead? get a cat instead, we dont need anymore of what black women are currently producing

 

[_Anghellic_]

Now I know 1000% you are a white boy.


Mannn get the fukk out of here.

Exactly I caught that too. He/she saying that shyt was a dead giveaway.

 

[filial_piety]

whats stopping black women from taking the argument to white men? is it because there's a conflict of interest when you're trying to push for the "Swirl" movement. isn't part of the agenda pretending that black males have all this power to oppress black women

 

[philmonroe]

There's nothing silly when she confirms what many posters themselves say...black men are powerless when it comes to what black women endure but as soon as a black woman ok y'all powerless so why am I wasting my time now it's an insult.

You just want to go back and forth for no reason. I and I'll assume most others can't be insulted by somebody that has less of something period. It don't matter how true it is or anything so stop making seem like I'm insulted when I've been telling you all this time its just stupid mentioning something you don't have the upper hand in.

Breh if you'd rather have black women yelling at you for colorism that's fine. I just think they would be better suited taking it up with the white man. But I don't want to hear you complain when they do.
And it more comparable to a homeless man with a cardboard box and a homeless man without one.

I don't care who they yell at cause one I don't really experience this shyt offline so I can easily just do that and not worry about this. I said go take it up with the white man and report back how it goes. Why would I complain when I haven't done so once in my life about who they date? Whatever comparison I make is the best one fukk your comparison.

 

[Yup]

Exactly I caught that too. He/she saying that shyt was a dead giveaway.

like no one knows about the youtube black women bashing fests festering that site. But ya I am white for pointing it out...

 

[Yup]

Exactly I caught that too. He/she saying that shyt was a dead giveaway.

like no one knows about the youtube black women bashing fests festering that site. But ya I am white for pointing it out...

 

[TMNT4000]

It about listening to negativity.
You have no reason to get mad when black women say "black men aint shyt" because its not as if the media is going to news report on why "black men aint shyt."
Just as black women have no reason to take the negatively that many black men spew seriously.
The black men who spew this negatively are just recycling the things they've learned from white supremacy, so its best to reserve your energy for
told it is just not sugarcoated to make y'all feel good. Amd it had beem said by y'all many times in this thread. White men control everything...so let's lay the eggs were they lay

If ya'll switch position with black men, how would ya'll fix colorism against white supremacy?

There was a huge thread on it in The Coliseum, IIRC.
Guys pretty much gave them both their blessing.
You wouldn't have heard because you joined two years after the fact.
I'll look for it later on.

Edit:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/dirk-married-in-traditional-kenyan-wedding.27120/


48 people dapped the OP, majority of whom are black men.
You wouldn't see that kind of reception concerning the opposite sex marrying interracially from any other demographic on planet Earth, and that includes black women.
Thread was overwhelmingly positive.

Back than nikkas didn't give a fukk, if that news came out today, it will be a different reaction.

 

[marcuz]

can any black woman in this thread provide their solution to the colorism issue? and try to respond understanding we're not rappers or entertainers.

 

[Yup]

Women are just the incubators of the male sperm....sp y'all need to stop impregnating

 

[Killer Instinct]

Back than nikkas didn't give a fukk, if that news came out today, it will be a different reaction.

Nah.
These topics have been scattered and going on since I first found SOHH in 2008.
Contrary to the agenda, black men don't care half as much about "the swirl" as black women want them to, which is why they have to go harder than any other group of women to incite a reaction.

 

[Yup]

You just want to go back and forth for no reason. I and I'll assume most others can't be insulted by somebody that has less of something period. It don't matter how true it is or anything so stop making seem like I'm insulted when I've been telling you all this time its just stupid mentioning something you don't have the upper hand in.

I don't care who they yell at cause one I don't really experience this shyt offline so I can easily just do that and not worry about this. I said go take it up with the white man and report back how it goes. Why would I complain when I haven't done so once in my life about who they date? Whatever comparison I make is the best one fukk your comparison.

Because you frame your argument wrongly. My intention isn't hurt feelings is ti tell the truth. I ain't trying to bruise male ego. Black men.are powerless in this society and as a result it trickles down to black women. That's a fact.