"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

kayslay

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A lot nikka. Don't be mad cause you need others to validate you. Seems quite unbelievable to you that somebody could be like that huh? Sucks for you.
I dont need anyone to validate me tf?
I have no issue with my skintone.
My thing is you are being dishonest.
Yall talk all this BS but then when a darskin women dates outside her race yall want to call the BedWs and shyt.
 

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You must not pay attention to life.
Men arent as direct with how they feel as women are we both know this.:comeon:
I guess #midnightboyz #lightskinnikkasbelike #darskinnikkasbelike dont exist?:usure:
you referenced el debarge and how men had a problem with his skin tone

like i said i have never ever heard a convo with nikkas talking about other dudes skin tone besides a dumb joke
 

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I watched the full documentary & there were some things I definently could have done with out.

-The idiot who tried to imply that lighter girls somehow endure more sexual abuse.I'm surprised they didn't edit that out.

-Nya Lee who talked about the incidident of her getting stabbed.WTF?How does she know for a fact,those girls stabbed her all because she was "light skin?"& I feel like that's how many of these narratives of darker girls picking on lighter girls go.The lighter girl in this situation assumes the darker girl said something to her or "picked," on her because she is light,when it could have been for ANY reason.Nya Lee clearly has an attitude and she had the nerve to blame her life threatening incident on her being light?This assumption that a darker girl doesn't like a lighter girl because she is light is complete bull sh*t.Unless the darker girl explicitly implied the dislike for the lighter girl by saying commentary regarding her skin tone,you can't not assume the lighter girl got picked on simply because she was light.This mentality feeds into the idea that if a darker skin girl dislikes a light skin girl it has to be because of jealousy right?Because why wouldn't the darker skin girl be jealous?*rolls eyes.

-Many of the black men in this documentary had white or non-black wives. :mjlol: Yet,you trying to school people on this topic?I found it incredibly ironic.

-The implication that dark skin girls will put up with "sh*t," based on that black man's movie date example.I hate when black men say things like that.Like Dark skin girls are somehow "tougher," & "rougher," & ready to work.


-& I died when that comedian compared women who bleached their skin to Naked sphynx cats.A picture of a Sphynx cat shows up as he is talking & the picture dramatically gets bigger. :dead:
 

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There are black men who bleach. I can see it now:
Dark skin men being teased for being too dark, getting a longer prison sentence, bleaching.
Light skin men being seen as soft and not manly enough or black enough.
They want to pretend it doesnt effect them because they dont want o be vulnerable and discuss theyre feelings.
Black men internalized and project theyre isses with colorism onro Black women, Black women internalize and try to change their appearance.
 
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