"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

[kayslay]

go run to white men but if you do don't ever ever ever talk about colorism again

and have fun raising kids you hate

Black women literally Begging yall to do better and treat them better and the only thing you have to say is go fukk a Cac?

 

[MayQueen]

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=764370&p=19250098&viewfull=1#post19250098

Is this you ?

LOL where'd you dig that up?

 

[kayslay]

a millennia

please tell me all these other women who weren't punching bags the last 1000 years? Biology placed yall there

I hold Black men to a higher standard.
Yall were not treating us like this pre-cac invasion.

 

[Canon]

Black women literally Begging yall to do better and treat them better and the only thing you have to say is go fukk a Cac?

In regards to colorism there is nothing you or I can do about another man or women's preference

I'm sorry but you want it to be one way

But it's the other way

 

[_Anghellic_]

LOL where'd you dig that up?

Saw it during the Ray Rice scandal. All the thumbs up that post got too I swear sometimes you have to take a break from that site. To hear Stormf**** rhetoric come from your own women is just

 

[kayslay]

I don't make it seem like anything that's the vibe you give off. I keep asking so hopefully you'll see how dumb it is to have them and I do what I like young lady. I also answered that question already. I told you I watched the show and wanted to speak on it and let's be honest do you really want a bunch of ass kissing responses? Welp if you did I can't help you there unless you agree which you don't. Again if adults have self esteem issues that's on them and why should anybody feel sorry for them? Unless your a kid and or if there is something physically wrong with you adults with self esteem issues getting done dirty. No different than a lot of other things people get made fun off and I'm sure your not putting the cape on for every form of self esteem issue so stop it.

Also stop with the black men stuff cause I do the same thing to dudes on here when they talking that bullshyt and if you don't believe me just check my post from yesterday to see I don't discriminate on here and IRL. I disagree with something I'll let you know and we can go from there. That's just how its done period. I accuse people not just women of being so cause being a betting man its rare you'll see a "dime" talking all this stuff. That's across the board though people something don't affect usually don't go as hard on that topic. I agree I do try to shyt this convo down because regardless of what you say this is mainly about dating and or lack thereof. People can say all this white supremacy blah, blah, blah but the real point is perceived desirability. If it wasn't the main arguments wouldn't been mostly about dating type stuff. You can disagree but I know what I see when these topics come up.

Im not goving off a vibe i just hate that dudes her are unfortunate followers not all just a few. So you coming in here being one of the first. To comment being Dismissive sets the tone of the conversation.

Im not capinfg for self loathing i actually agree with you. We just have different approaches.
I dont see how continuiin to tell people to get over it is going to benfit them. We al have different. Experiences do i try to refrain from judgement.
The continuing to push things under thevrug had not worked we have to address the mental scars.
Before we have a bunch of Chris B running around reeking havoc on our community.
Something that affects a few will affect us all in one shape or another.

 

[MayQueen]

Saw it during the Ray Rice scandal. All the thumbs up that post got too I swear sometimes you have to take a break from that site. To hear Stormf**** rhetoric come from your own women is just

You should come back, help mend bridges.

 

[kayslay]

In regards to colorism there is nothing you or I can do about another man or women's preference

I'm sorry but you want it to be one way

But it's the other way

I dont care about you or anyone elses preference what part f that do you not understand? As usual you all try to make this about darkskin women being jealous instead of addressing Black men who abuse and terrorize them

 

[AntiVenom]

imo

Saved for later "use"

I like all of them. I don't like the 2nd girl's hair though.

Oh oh the militants will come after me now.

You hate yourself! How dare you allow yourself as a black man to get turned on by something without another person's permission?

Don't worry, just give it time and they'll figure out a way to blame black men for it. That train is never late.

Of course. Were to blame for all of their insecurities and SELF esteem issues.

Man I'm tired of this new age bullshyt where everybody has to make you feel better about yourself. Make yourself feel better. Some people going to like you some aren't regardless of who, what you are. Better learn to cope cause asking other for sympathy hokes on you and anybody else looking/asking for it.

This show is interesting didn't know soo many black cats were on that stupid shyt. I saw a part awhile ago and was like these dudes don't rep me at all. Where they found these cats at

instead of all the bytching and whining Oprah would do well to have a documentary on people learning to love themselves. Because no one else is obligated to "make you feel better about yourself". fukk that noise.

A lot nikka. Don't be mad cause you need others to validate you. Seems quite unbelievable to you that somebody could be like that huh? Sucks for you.

Anyone who does this is a fukking weakling. They deserve to have their feelings crushed for it too. Sadly theyll never understand why they feel like shyt until they learn to stop caring what others think and validate themselves. Until that happens I have no sympathy for em.

Youll never see these whiners make a documentary about that though.

LOL, I had a feeling someone is gonna blame black men for this.

"Waaah! why wont yall obligate yourselves to make me feel bettah about muhself!" Thats what this shyt comes down to. fukk em.

 

[kayslay]

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You hate yourself! How dare you allow yourself as a black man to get turned on by something without another person's permission?



Of course. Were to blame for all of their insecurities and SELF esteem issues.



instead of all the bytching and whining Oprah would do well to have a documentary on people learning to love themselves. Because no one else is obligated to "make you feel better about yourself". fukk that noise.



Anyone who does this is a fukking weakling. They deserve to have their feelings crushed for it too. Sadly theyll never understand why they feel like shyt until they learn to stop caring what others think and validate themselves. Until that happens I have no sympathy for em.

Youll never see these whiners make a documentary about that though.



"Waaah! why wont yall obligate yourselves to make me feel bettah about muhself!" Thats what this shyt comes down to. fukk em.

Yall always trying to v turn shyt into a gender war.

 

[Raptor]

That African pride is a mf.
Who said you had an inferiority complex?
Are you speaking for yourself personally or for your people?
Because just a post ago you said the opposite.

What are you talking about. If your dating "trash white girls" just because they're white, then you have an inferiority complex. I'm Sure there are ethiopians who do have inferiority complex and date white women exclusively to get approval but but most are proud of their culture and find their women attractive.

 

[BlackFruitPunch]

nikka you just making shyt up.
White woman that actually marry black men are generally the types that are into (kinda extra into) being down with black folks. Now the White fathers on the other hand...

 

[AntiVenom]

i love lightskin women......and darkskin women......... and the caramel ones in between.

You hate yourself.

I've no plan on watching this, but that trailer above is laughable.

It disgust me that Oprah would air some shyt like this.

Why not use these resources to put together a project that actually mends perceived divides? She could easily come out with some programs that show black people of all shades, shapes, and sizes in a positive light.

Instead, she would rather air this divisive, tabloid-level garbage and get people arguing about shyt. This shyt looks gossipy at best.

Blacks need to learn to keep our shyt closer to our chest....we are constantly airing our dirty laundry.

Fix divides? Why would she do that when she knows that feeding into it is what makes the money? Thats what this is really about. Pity parties seem to make more cash than being proactive I guess.

Funniest thing is these will be the same chickenheads that claim black men have no power when it suits their argument.

They're cowards.
They would never talk white supremacy to white males online or off because they know they'd break them mentally and spiritually.
Black men are simply the easier target.
Easier to blame those who are supposedly brainwashed by an ideal than it is to address those whom created and supposedly crafted that ideal.
It's the equivalent of an athlete on a sports team afraid to confront the star player for chucking them out of a game.
Rather than say anything to Lebron about his turnovers, Bosh gets confrontational with Mario Chalmers, instead.
There's no risk in attacking the whipping boy.

Which is why I have such a hard time taking any of them seriously.

Hold up.

How the hell is this black mens fault?

Because were bad if we arent constantly falling at the floor kissing their feet and singing their praises when theyre too weak to build their own self esteem and are slaves to other people's validation. Their personal insecurities and inferiority complexes are completely the fault of all yew bad black menz. fukk taking responsibility and control over their own lives. YOU NEED TO SAVE THEM FROM THEMSELVES BM thats your obligation!

 

[AntiVenom]

Yall always trying to v turn shyt into a gender war.

The fukk up. You did that the moment you and your sistren started blaming us for your weakness and insecurity. Woman up and stop being such pussies. Either that or take responsibility and own the fact that youre weak and stop blaming others for it. Youre adults not children. No one has to coddle you and make you feel better about yourselves.

 

[BlackFruitPunch]

Expect men that can't even uplift our women and children economically to uplift you emotionally Brehettes. These nikkas keep telling you we don't control our own communities the white man does get a clue . Y'all lost the genetic lottery you got matched up with a group of men who don't control anything. We don't control our media. And nikkas can't be criticized without getting emotional and angry.