"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

We all would like to hear the answer. I hope that they finally woman up and share.

lol they don't have answers because they're ignorant and only know how to express their emotions and opinions.

 

[Yup]

you're the cancer. You're doing NOTHING for us. Little girl do you even have natural hair? do you even wear your natural face? do you dress like a proud "black" woman? no. You complain about black men instead of changing yourself and your sisters. You little girls are not fooling anyone, you're confused, have no self identity, so you want to blame us for the lack of value you add to the world

I am doing much more than sitting om a site claiming colorism is a figment of rejected dark blacks who can't get a date. Then in the same vein complain about white men keeping me down.

 

[AntiVenom]

lol they don't have answers because they're ignorant and only know how to express their emotions and opinions.

Not saying i disagree with this sentence. Its got alot of truth to it.

But they wont say it because the real issue at the core and what this is largely about is in regards to the dating preferences of a portion of black men. They'll never admit that.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Hey say what you like...I couldn't careless...I think what he said was on point...and I'd dap it 10 more times if he wrote it 10 more times...you'll have to get over it.

Looked like you were talking to yourself so I'm assuming you're addressing one of the LSA birds or white males pretending to be black women that I've put on ignore.
Don't know why guys even still entertain the obvious trolls.

I say they need to woman up and deal with their own issues and weaknesses. Thats no one's problem other than their own.

That's pretty much what it comes down to.
Light and dark men hear the same thing from women "preferring," dark skin or light skin.
Difference is men are taught the world isn't fair and you will never shame people who don't like you for whatever superficial reason into liking you.
They somehow still manage to find a mate and feel good about themselves without multiple corny documentaries.
And don't get it twisted, this is about and has always been based and centered around who does or doesn't want to fukk them.
Sex.
This crying about employment and commercials is a smokescreen so they ultimately can complain about who doesn't want to sleep with them.
Nevermind the thirsty nikkas they need laws to protect them from.
"12 men in this library.
2 don't desire to climb between my legs because they don't like dark skin.

"

Those two men then forever plague their mind.
Nevermind that these are the same women who wouldn't hesitate to tell those two men they're too short or that she doesn't mess with "light brights."
They've truly bought into the concept of being queens and demand affection.
May as well put a gun to people's head and demand they tell you you're beautiful if you're that pressed about having one less dikk to hop on and ride.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The funny thing is men over all don't care about if you are light or darkskin, if you are sexy or pretty then thats all that matters. Somehow black men don't want sisters because they are black? I think this is just something women really fight with. I live in the south around most of the population of black folks in the US. I travel back and forth between Georgia and Louisiana yearly. I can assure you black women, you don't have anything to worry about...brothers still love there sisters.


I only see this kinda talk on the internet, a brother will take a white girl or light skin girl sure, but who wouldn't? Most men aren't gonna pass up free sex and add to the fact its probably something uncommon or maybe even new for them yeah they gonna take it. That's just men in general tho.


I have homies that aren't attracted to lightskin or white women but I've never personally run across a black male that was like "I'm not into black chicks"

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

I am doing much more than sitting om a site claiming colorism is a figment of rejected dark blacks who can't get a date. Then in the same vein complain about white men keeping me down.

yea you can't answer about the fake hair, face, nails and clothing because you don't even uphold your culture. You want to be valued as a black woman but you don't even value what makes you black. You're not doing ANYTHING productive for our community. You need to check yourself before you come at any man. Go take the weaves and wigs back, put the chemicals down and start dressing like a "black" woman. Until then shut the fukk up about being loved as a black woman.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

These little girls want to doll themselves up like white women and other races everyday and then wonder why black men just choose to get the real thing. You little girls are fake. Don't go to the korean store to get your chemicals this week if you want some respect.

 

[Yup]

Colorism effects men too. Darkskinned Black men make $6000.00 a year less than a light skinned man. They are also more like to be sentenced to longer jail times in court. Now let me
ask you this young lady; How do we go about ENDING colorism for good? I'm all ears.

Acknowledging that it exist and it is perpertrated by blacks is the first step and stop using whites as a copout. Fair representation of black people not putting biracial women as the definition of black beauty.
Ostracising the behavior of men and women who play favorites and place kids in color hierarchy. I stand by what I preach...I don't just talk about this stuff online and live my life differently in the real world.

 

[Canon]

lol they don't have answers because they're ignorant and only know how to express their emotions and opinions.

they just want to us to endlessly discuss and browbeat us with this shyt

basically women shyt

 

[AntiVenom]

That's pretty much what it comes down to.
Light and dark men hear the same thing from women "preferring," dark skin or light skin.
Difference is men are taught the world isn't fair and you will never shame people who don't like you for whatever superficial reason into liking you.
They somehow still manage to find a mate and feel good about themselves without multiple corny documentaries.
And don't get it twisted, this is about and has always been based and centered around who does or doesn't want to fukk them.
Sex.
This crying about employment and commercials is a smokescreen so they ultimately can complain about who doesn't want to sleep with them.
Nevermind the thirsty nikkas they need laws to protect them from.
"12 men in this library.
2 don't desire to climb between my legs because they don't like dark skin.

"

Nevermind that these are the same women who wouldn't hesitate to tell those two men they're too short or that she doesn't mess with "light brights."
They've truly bought into the concept of being queens and demand affection.
May as well put a gun to people's head and demand they tell them they're beautiful if you're that pressed about having one less dikk to hop on and ride.

Im seeing alot of black men waking up to this. Its giving me hope.

Difference is men are taught the world isn't fair and you will never shame people who don't like you for whatever superficial reason into liking you.

We need to teach women this very same lesson. We need to teach them that their bytching and whining will fall on deaf ears. Most importantly we need to just stop caring. We'll keep getting thrown under the bus until we stop coddling them and force them to accept this fact....just like we have to accept it ourselves.

And yeah most of us in here knew this was about being chosen from the moment we saw the thread title. That tends to be 90% of what this shyt boils down to. Men have preferrences just like women have prefferences. They need to stop bytching about it and WOMAN UP. No one owes them dates or relationships. Focus on individuals that are interested. Embrace it and move the fukk on.

There are no kings or queens. Respect has to be earned and given... no one is owed shyt and no one is obligated to them. The sooner we accept this the better.

 

[Yup]

yea you can't answer about the fake hair, face, nails and clothing because you don't even uphold your culture. You want to be valued as a black woman but you don't even value what makes you black. You're not doing ANYTHING productive for our community. You need to check yourself before you come at any man. Go take the weaves and wigs back, put the chemicals down and start dressing like a "black" woman. Until then shut the fukk up about being loved as a black woman.

I talk about this all the time especially the fake hair. Many blacl women are making conceded effort to embrace their natural beauty and it shows.
Some of them same women have ben mocked by black men...as much as y'all complain about weaves many you all still like the look of the. Stop your bs.

 

[Yup]

yea you can't answer about the fake hair, face, nails and clothing because you don't even uphold your culture. You want to be valued as a black woman but you don't even value what makes you black. You're not doing ANYTHING productive for our community. You need to check yourself before you come at any man. Go take the weaves and wigs back, put the chemicals down and start dressing like a "black" woman. Until then shut the fukk up about being loved as a black woman.

Lol...are you talking to me or your ex girlfriend?

 

[Zero]

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[ReadOneBookAWeek]

I talk about this all the time especially the fake hair. Many blacl women are making conceded effort to embrace their natural beauty and it shows.
Some of them same women have ben mocked by black men...as much as y'all complain about weaves many you all still like the look of the. Stop your bs.

lol there it goes. Take responsibility for yourself. Trying to blame black men yet again for YOUR FAULTS AS WOMEN. Like i said you don't even value YOURSELVES and what makes you unique as "black" women yet you want us too?

 

[Yup]

Im seeing alot of black men waking up to this. Its giving me hope.

Difference is men are taught the world isn't fair and you will never shame people who don't like you for whatever superficial reason into liking you.

We need to teach women this very same lesson. We need to teach them that their bytching and whining will fall on deaf ears. Most importantly we need to just stop caring. We'll keep getting thrown under the bus until we stop coddling them and force them to accept this fact....just like we have to accept it ourselves.

And yeah most of us in here knew this was about being chosen from the moment we saw the thread title. That tends to be 90% of what this shyt boils down to. Men have preferrences just like women have prefferences. They need to stop bytching about it and WOMAN UP. No one owes them dates or relationships. Focus on individuals that are interested. Embrace it and move the fukk on.

If black men had accepted that the world isnt fair . They would have made self - sufficient communities by now.