there is plenty ignorance in the community breh
Sad to see and I'll admit because of the cats I'm around I don't see no shyt like this at all. People might have preferences but acting like these dudes hell naw man.
So instead of addressing we all say its not me....so whatever. But y'sll talk all that slick mouth
Colorism is not new age bull.
You and the poster below don't get it and I guess y'all thought y'all was up on new shyt. The new age shyt isn't colorism and if y'all honestly was paying attention to what I typed y'all would know that. The new age stuff was how now everybody has to be coddled. You feel bad adult baby let me make you feel better. That stuff when I was growing up was like

shyt happens. Now they got specials, shaming tactics the works. That's what I meant by new age but it was in the sentence I typed so I don't know how either one of y'all got I was talking about colorism.

my nikka this has been going on since slavery. The white supremacists played us against each other.
The sad part is that we still do it in 2015
My dude like I said above my statement wasn't about colorism. At least if you going to use

at least be right in your understanding of what I was saying. I clearly put what I was talking about regarding new age stuff right after I said that phrase.
Lmfao im bitter for pointing out the truth?
Yall really need to come up wiyh some new tag lines.
Just because i dont sugarcoat mt message doeant mean im bitter hun.
I font have an issue with Blaack mrn in real life but im not going to pretend all black men act like my boyfriend And my father.
I am one of the lucky ones.
You want to kep trying to make it seem like im ugly when i bet i look better than your girl and i bet my man look better you.
Its Black women who are 10x better looking than i am who have said these things. Famus black women have been talking about this for decades. You all want to make everything about "preference" and desirability. Just because you dont want to date a darkwomen doesnt mean you have the right to talk shyt about them.
I never said all black mean act the same.
But the ones that do need to be held accountable.
You are bitter and its not a tag line to shut you down because ill will gladly reply to you. You haven't been out if pocket but just like you going to not "sugarcoat" your message I'm not either. That's what it looks like but don't play any victim card because if you was a dude I'd say the same shyt so have your girlfriends on here hype you up but I'm consistent towards everybody. I don't know if your ugly or not and even if you were not like you'd willingly be like yep its me ugly ass posting. I'm pretty sure you look better than my girl since I don't have one but girls I mess with I don't know. As far as your dude looking better than me Ye shrug. I'm doing my thing why would/should I care if he looks better than me or not? Well hold them black men accountable then.
Go sister go and its always about "preference" and desirability but you want it to be about something else. Its not unless you dating nothing but dudes in that doc and if you think that's most black dudes you're lost. I don't know dudes like,that but apparently you and these other black women do and y'all pissed. Me its eh just like if a girl said I'm too dark for her I'm not about to cry about it shyt happens. If she didn't choose me over white supremacy reasons or whatever else in her mind great for me that I don't have to deal with that shyt. The thing is somebody that I like always does and that's who I focus on. Maybe some women wouldn't feel like this if they were more proactive in selecting their mates not just sitting there waiting for the best of who comes up to them. Maybe that's why I don't care if I get turned down for whatever reason cause I know its plenty that are down with me so why be concerned.
I agree but im sick of Black men trivializing the experience of Black women and making light of issues.
When its all said and Done yall are hypocrites because when these women start to date non Black men or talk about what they PREFER yall get in yall feelings.
Your on a majority male site trying to strong arm dudes into your way of thinking when obviously most don't see it your way. Its just not going to work and call out the dudes that are hypocrites cause many myself included said go date other races. I'll always say do it as long as you don't shyt on blacks be free. Also your not that sick you keep coming in here to debate on something that after this is over won't change many if any minds.