Living Apart Together (LAT) relationships. I'm seriously considering this...

[Diondon]

I never understood why boyfriend/girlfriend status so quick to move in together

 

[69 others]

So you live apart and meetup to fukk and hang out. Sounds like a fukk buddy situation

 

[Carlton Banks]

Because times change? Divorce is at an all time high with your standard marriage, maybe something like this is needed

That's what I'm saying .. we don't live in traditional times anymore. There's plenty of women who are down for this kind of arrangement now. Plenty of people who say this works better. You guys get a chance to miss each other and it keeps the relationship hot.

 

[Stir Fry]

You share that girl

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You share that girl

Yeah because women don't cheat when ya'll living under the same roof

 

[darealvelle]

Unless you plan on marrying her or can’t afford to stay on your own, I would suggest you move out and get your own spot again. Your never going to achieve the mental space you just decribed otherwise. And if it becomes a big issue or problem with her, you may need to end the relationship.

 

[Mowgli]

That's y'all business just don't suggest it to anyone else

 

[Son Goku]

I’m going thru the same thing OP.

Her place is nice but she’s got me slowly moving my things in and whenever we get into it I’m quick to tell her that I’m going back to my crib.

Her place isn’t big enough for me to have the solitude when I want it but when I try to leave she asks if I’m going there to cheat or if I’m breaking up with her.

You know it’s crazy when you sit on the toilet for an hour just to get some peace.

 

[feelosofer]

Some of you guys are in very toxic relationship dynamics.

 

[Uitomy]

I know where this thread is going

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

It seems that you want more of a FWB situation with your lady then an actual relationship . IDK how this is going to work but you have to be honest with yourself and tell her the truth even if means hurting or losing her at the end. Can't be miserable in a relationship just to appeal to the image of what society portraits on what you should do.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Because times change? Divorce is at an all time high with your standard marriage, maybe something like this is needed

Huh? Think you misread what I wrote.

 

[International Playa]

I can live with a woman, aslong as I get my space to watch sports, play video games, hit the gym, work on my goals etc

 

[keon]

my wife moved back in with me temporarily after being seperated for 3 years..we're basically just friends tho (no sex) and its been fine with me..she's moving back out in a few wks to live closer to her job but we will still hang out/visit each other on our off days..

and truthfully if we ever did decide to get back together (which i doubt), we couldnt ever live together again..i enjoy my space too much & she will get too clingy if i start back fukking her

 

[The Radiant One]

my wife moved back in with me temporarily after being seperated for 3 years..we're basically just friends tho (no sex) and its been fine with me..she's moving back out in a few wks to live closer to her job but we will still hang out/visit each other on our off days..

and truthfully if we ever did decide to get back together (which i doubt), we couldnt ever live together again..i enjoy my space too much & she will get too clingy if i start back fukking her

I hope you guys are divorced….