"Living at home over 21 " offends half of Facebook

[hatealot]

facts, have to take out a loan just to pay for rent SMH

You just gave me the chills.

I remember I had to pull a loan on my 401k because I got garnished and I was in the red every month without it. Thank God I had access to my 401k with vested funds.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Where is the Coli braintrust on this. Thread is revealing.

 

[hatealot]

I’m not asking my momma permission to have company and waiting for her to leave to have sex with my girlfriend.

My moms let me have all the females I wanted until about 22ish. After that she said enough is enough.

When I started harboring my girl in the crib tryna hide the pregnancy and she throwing up. My moms paid for the abortion and she said it's time to grow up. You can't be having kids while still living in my house.

My moms looking at my girl nasty, shawty scared to goto the kitchen to get food. Moms sucking her teeth when she see her in the kitchen .

My moms it VERY uncomfortable for me to bring females home once I was getting closer to my mid 20s.

I remember I got into a argument with her like, what you want me to be some gay nikka?!?

She snapped back . NO! I want you to be a man and get the fukk out my house.

Sidebar- I was getting arrested every weekend and they actually put a restraining order on me that I couldn't come back In the complex.

Looking back and having my moms in housing court bout to get her evicted because of me.

 

[Jean Jacket]

You just gave me the chills.

I remember I had to pull a loan on my 401k because I got garnished and I was in the red every month without it. Thank God I had access to my 401k with vested funds.

When I was struggling, I was on overdraft faithfully by 50% of my deposit every 2 weeks.


Worked 2 jobs in my 20s and got my shyt together. Definitely can relate.

 

[hatealot]

When I was struggling, I was on overdraft faithfully by 50% of my deposit every 2 weeks.


Worked 2 jobs in my 20s and got my shyt together. Definitely can relate.

Yo bro. That shyt out things in perspective real quick. When I finally learned that my decisions can lead to me being homeless , it changed my whole outlook. When you don't got mommy safety net around no more. Life hit different.

That's something that you can't teach. You have to feel it and have it bare on you. This is why I'm 50/50 on leaving kids to stay home. Let them stay home with a purpose but once they start reaching a certain age, they are poisoning the well and preventing the reality check they need to grow up

 

[Jean Jacket]

Yo bro. That shyt out things in perspective real quick. When I finally learned that my decisions can lead to me being homeless , it changed my whole outlook. When you don't got mommy safety net around no more. Life hit different

More the wiser.

That lesson is worth more than people know.

Fail early and often and when it matters you're ahead of the game.

A lotta trust fund coddled cats won't get it till they got too much skin in the game.

 

[Big Boss]

My cousin had over 50k saved up when he finally left home at 27. It’s a good move if you’re smart with money.

Facts

 

[vino]

My doors will always be open to my children no matter their age. If they’re on hard times and need to assistance i’m there period to help them. Im paying for whatever I can while they’re actively working on their degree or business.

 

[Music Fiend]

You cant say any person is a loser if they live at home at a certain age.

Some are, but some are working in real careers and make decent money. They just are overwhelmed by either student debt, house expenses, etc.

I think more ppl should do adult stints for at least a year between 25 - 31 to get ahead in life. Especially in a pandemic where ppl arent just moving round like they were.

 

[Alvin]

I got out by 19 and got a roommate and my first apartment.

My cousin whose the same age stayed at home through college and even after he graduated.

After a rough spell I was sleeping on my moms couch for 9 months at 24, until I could get a different job and save up, find a new roommate etc.

At 25, my cousin moved out and straight into a condo that he bought. He’s never known what rent is or had roommates.

My sister in law and her husband did the same thing as my cousin, almost identical actually, and the first place they moved out to in their mid 20’s was a condo they bought together….they have never known rent or roommates.

Eventually I got it all worked out and turned into a responsible, bill paying homeowner….but I also know that I got a little lucky as I stumbled into some things that helped me find a career, let alone the role my sex and my race played in making it as easy as possible to move up.

If I could chose it for my son, I’d have him stay home through college, start a real job and start saving for that down payment and skip that renting life if possible. I’m the two example I saw first hand, it certainly looked easier than what I did lol.

you a white man?

 

[Listen]

you a white man?

Yup.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Never leaving

 

[Alvin]

All Black people (FBA's sadly)....these be mf's who can't fund a significant car repair when it arises. If the situation permits than people need to stay with their parents as long a possible. People moving away from those types of living situations with less than 5 racks saved up are headed into a cycle of desperation. When I worked at my first accounting job theer was a 28 year old "Hapa" (half Asian half wyte) who lived at home with his proud "Irish" dad and mom. That dude was so calm when he let our young judgmental asses know that he has over 20k saved up, and that he planned on moving straight into a house...

LMAO have never heard this term before.