Long Distance Relationships

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I tried to be a patriot:salute:...but:manny:

And no I don't believe in it,i gotta talk to you everyday without the benefits of fukking:childplease:...ill end it on good terms,even help her pack up the uhaul up:mjlol:...now if I happened to get locked up that's a different situation:whoa:,i think id be willing to try to hold on to the beautiful bond that me and her have:why:
 

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My friend who's a music producer was in a long distance relationship all throughout college....probably for like 6 years. It worked for them because he made sure she flew out at least once a month if not more.....plus he spent most of his free time making beats so it was perfect. She went to a school in Ohio and we were in Philly. Ultimately they broke up a few years after college but I think it worked for that period of time.

All in all, as much as it could work if you put the work in, in reality it's stupid because you're pretty much denying yourself the freedom of kicking it with people close to you. You're pretty much passing up endless opportunities in your youth for someone who you probably won't spend the rest of your life with.
 

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My friend who's a music producer was in a long distance relationship all throughout college....probably for like 6 years. It worked for them because he made sure she flew out at least once a month if not more.....plus he spent most of his free time making beats so it was perfect. She went to a school in Ohio and we were in Philly. Ultimately they broke up a few years after college but I think it worked for that period of time.

All in all, as much as it could work if you put the work in, in reality it's stupid because you're pretty much denying yourself the freedom of kicking it with people close to you. You're pretty much passing up endless opportunities in your youth for someone who you probably won't spend the rest of your life with.


You do this in any relationship.
 

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I'm probably one of the biggest freaks, but I can go a couple weeks without smashing or seeing my girl..... Granted not everyone is like that. Meh I can see both sides.

That's cool but when you're in college and you living amongst the most women you'll ever live with in any period of your life, with plenty of free time, who are DTF and are open to new things you're robbing yourself of experiences unless you're willing to cheat.
 

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I tried one once when I was 20 with a 19 yr old girl. We talked and stayed close for almost 2 years and then she dipped out on me for some dude she fukked at a party, she told me she was imagining it was me. I told her :camby:, I was
hurt but more relieved than anything cause I could tell it wasn't going to work out, she was insecure that I wouldn't like her in person even though we talked almost everyday on skype and it was a 5 hour drive. So I was gettin impatient cause I wanted to see if it would really work. I never sent no money or no gifts so I didn't get played other than investing time. I think they would very rarely work and I will never try it again.
 

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Center self, inner self
Have you been in one?

Do you believe in them?

What's the key in order for them to actually work?

I find that people have such varying opinions on this topic...just curious what most of you think. I know people who have had great experiences (leading to marriage etc) and some bad ones as well (just like in regular relationships, of course).

I was in a four year long distance relationship. She lived in Texas and I live in Virginia. We were together from my junior year of high school to my junior year of college. We met on yahoo chat back in 2001 :mjpiccolo:. Anyways, I visited her and stayed with her many times over the years and vice versa. Eventually the distance got to us both: I got caught messing around with another girl (I didn't fukk the girl tho), and she got caught cheating on me. Most of it was my fault because after I cheated I didn't comfort her as much as I should. Anyway, we broke up my junior year of college, and I haven't seen her since :sadbron: She was my first love, and I lost my virginity to her. I'd do anything to talk to her again...unfortunately, I found out she's had 3 sons since the last time I talked to her :jbbwow2: The nikka she with is some 6'3" black dude. I know he's tearing her ass up :damn::damn:.

Long distance relationships work if you put the time and effort into it, but for some people it's just too much. I don't mind it, though; as long as I get to talk to her everyday and she assures me that nothing is going on with anyone else, then I'm straight.
 
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