Children need/want to see a healthy/loving relationship just as much as they need both parents in their lives. People who 'stay together for the kids' almost never work out. A woman needs to finds a loving partner that would cherish her and that is a good father. Both elements are essential!!
Look what this girl posted on IG
- Thread starter O.iatlhawksfan
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I will say this..,I think that there are a lot of black women that are very jaded about relationships. There's caution and then there's expecting the worse at all times. This to me, is a product of single parent (fatherlessness) culture.
The way I see non-black women view relationships on average is very different from the black girls I grew up around unless their parents are married. I myself am the product of divorced parents, so I include myself in the category.
So dusty nikkas in here are mad because they don't want to be told they can't go raw cause they aint trying to wife their girls? So you want children out of wedlock that you can't pay for, all to get a nut? 
You can have kids without being married. Marriage license isn't going to make a bad marriage good and vice versa. As for busting raw. That's retarded. I aint trying to mess up my kid's life just for an hour of pleasure.So dusty nikkas in here are mad because they don't want to be told they can't go raw cause they aint trying to wife their girls? So you want children out of wedlock that you can't pay for, all to get a nut?
She is sort of right, but this ain't the old days, a man has more to worry about when it comes to marriage then a woman, so a lot of men are put off from marriage. We have to worry about her leaving because she isn't happy, and she may still get something from leaving me(no fault divorce). If we have children, she will most likely get them, and now I have to pay for them, and that goes by what I make. That means if I'm making good money, they will be awarded more then they need, and that means the mother will be using most of the money.
If I miss a payment, she can call for my arrest. That may mess up my future money because if I miss days, I can get fired. Now I may be in a worse situation from the accrued debt, and it will be hard to get out of it because I still have to pay off my other debt. All of this just for some in house p*ssy
I think for me I want marriage, but I'm aware it isn't in my favor if shyt goes wrong, so I have to have all my pieces in play, so she can't fukk my whole life up after being with her for only 10 years. For some people its even less time they were together, and the guy is paying for it the rest of his life. If women want to get married more, they have to be honest with themselves, and see its cause of them being foul, and using the court system, is why a lot of men aren't marrying them, its not because they are giving the milk for free. For some losers its like that, but for men like me, the milk for free is a good thing, if the shyt taste good. I might bring you in the house
. What I look like waiting on her to show me her sides until we get married? What if she sucks, now I'm stuck
. That shyt is for suckers.
If I miss a payment, she can call for my arrest. That may mess up my future money because if I miss days, I can get fired. Now I may be in a worse situation from the accrued debt, and it will be hard to get out of it because I still have to pay off my other debt. All of this just for some in house p*ssy
I think for me I want marriage, but I'm aware it isn't in my favor if shyt goes wrong, so I have to have all my pieces in play, so she can't fukk my whole life up after being with her for only 10 years. For some people its even less time they were together, and the guy is paying for it the rest of his life. If women want to get married more, they have to be honest with themselves, and see its cause of them being foul, and using the court system, is why a lot of men aren't marrying them, its not because they are giving the milk for free. For some losers its like that, but for men like me, the milk for free is a good thing, if the shyt taste good. I might bring you in the house
. What I look like waiting on her to show me her sides until we get married? What if she sucks, now I'm stuck. That shyt is for suckers.Music Fiend
Superstar
Fear. I hate that.True
So out of fear what if I never give u a title? I dont wanna get played or hurt neither.
What if I didn't spend any $$$ on you because I don't wanna invest to be hurt. I'm afraid of commitment. So if ur not giving up any at all because you are afraid and have to be sure I'm there for you then I guess we can both be afraid and not date at all.
P.S. I love how women act like they dont want the d or can live without it.
Sure you can have children before marriage but if I can avoid not having a baby mama then I will.
You'll always have a baby mama if you got kids. No kids. no problem.
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Have you ever had a girl said "it's a date" in a non condescending tone? These chicks aren't really trying to date. Honestly, most of these women are seriously into smashing and grabbing whatever they can gather.
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Women outlive men. They can afford to wait you out. That's what men fail to grasp.this doesn't make sense...
if someone isn't husband/wife material, why are you wasting your time?
TrapHouse Rock
All Star
same quotes that have been around for years and it's not going to change shyt..
so has anybody tried those new baconator fries from wendy'sshyt is good as fukk
Wish it was baked with cheese on top instead of this cheese sauce looking shyt. I know why they gotta do it that way, but
why cant things just be how I want em to be
O.iatlhawksfan
Devoted Joel Embiid hater
They stole that idea from Rally's fully loaded fries. They don't have rally fries thoWish it was baked with cheese on top instead of this cheese sauce looking shyt. I know why they gotta do it that way, but