Look what this girl posted on IG

[KravenMorehead™]

Women feel entitled to marriage like men feel entitled to sex

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

They stole that idea from Rally's fully loaded fries. They don't have rally fries tho

Nobody fukking with Checker's/Rally's fries (lowkey Wendy's fries are straight considering the landscape of the game)

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Sure, why not

But....



I'm wouldn't marry a woman that I haven't known for at least 2 years and lived with for about the same amount of time That's her trial period

 

[Art Barr]

They stole that idea from Rally's fully loaded fries. They don't have rally fries tho

they can all take that bullshyt to hell, tho.


Art Barr

 

[ReggieFlare]

"A man just has to know you're capable of being a wife"

How will a man know this?

 

[Yup]

I fail to see what issue some posters have with what she posted. Y'all tell me the average guy does not distinguish a relationship with a girlfriend than he would with a wife? So you are saying it is the exact same? I call bs!!!

Men treat women differently based on their attraction but all of sudden a woman saying the same thing is a problem. We all treat people differently according to the type of relationship we have them friendship is not the same as romantic relationship.

A woman that isn't in a relationship that will lead to permanency but behaves like a wife is stupid. You can show someone you care for them without investing all your time and energy. I sense a lot of dishonest responses!!!!

But a lot of men will always try to get as much as possible from a relationship for the least amount of effort, so its not farfectch that yall respond like this. But from a female perspective what she says makes a lot of sense.

 

[Yup]

Fear. I hate that.

So out of fear what if I never give u a title? I dont wanna get played or hurt neither.

What if I didn't spend any $$$ on you because I don't wanna invest to be hurt. I'm afraid of commitment. So if ur not giving up any at all because you are afraid and have to be sure I'm there for you then I guess we can both be afraid and not date at all.

P.S. I love how women act like they dont want the d or can live without it.

fear is understandable...with the way that people treat relationships nowadays I am not surprised.

 

[Yup]

"A man just has to know you're capable of being a wife"

How will a man know this?

There are many ways to connect with your significant other...you can travel together/do activities together, that gives you an insight on how well you are able to communicate. This whole playing house and lets see where it leads us is the biggest con next to...I don't need a piece of paper to validate my relationship.

Parents no longer grooming their children for marriage has done far worse to the establishment.

 

[Yup]

You could marry a dude and he could still treat you like a ho. Stop putting so much power into a ring.

People are going to do what they are going to do regardless. Marriage to someone you claim to love is essential. You wouldn't make an arrangement or business decision on word alone, you'd sign a contract that holds both parties liable to that agreement but one of the biggest commitments in your life you expect a woman not to want to get married? People disobey the terms of their contracts all the time...it doesn't negate the purpose of it or render it meaningless!
Again a man that intends to be with a woman will have not a problem with marriage. Those that want a quick exit plan should they be bored, or find better are apt to say this. You need to up your con game...cause its played.

 

[Yup]

should "i love you" be exclusive to marriage then? i think that word is is abused. should loyalty be reserved for marriage? where do you draw the line? it sounds like something that can be manipulated when convenient.

So you are not loyal to your friends and family? Is your relationship with them the same as a romantic one?

 

[Grifter]

People are going to do what they are going to do regardless. Marriage to someone you claim to love is essential. You wouldn't make an arrangement or business decision on word alone, you'd sign a contract that holds both parties liable to that agreement but one of the biggest commitments in your life you expect a woman not to want to get married? People disobey the terms of their contracts all the time...it doesn't negate the purpose of it or render it meaningless!
Again a man that intends to be with a woman will have not a problem with marriage. Those that want a quick exit plan should they be bored, or find better are apt to say this. You need to up your con game...cause its played.

I don't have a con game cause I never want to get married, just doesn't hold any importance to me. Doubt a ring and title could make love someone even more than I already do. But do you.

 

[Yup]

I don't have a con game cause I never want to get married, just doesn't hold any importance to me. Doubt a ring and title could make love someone even more than I already do. But do you.

Figured

 

[Londilon]

You'll always have a baby mama if you got kids. No kids. no problem.

when you are married to the mother of your kids they are called a wife, not a baby mama.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

Women outlive men. They can afford to wait you out. That's what men fail to grasp.

what are you talking about? what did that have to do with anything breh... LOL

 

[bouncy]

I fail to see what issue some posters have with what she posted. Y'all tell me the average guy does not distinguish a relationship with a girlfriend than he would with a wife? So you are saying it is the exact same? I call bs!!!

Men treat women differently based on their attraction but all of sudden a woman saying the same thing is a problem. We all treat people differently according to the type of relationship we have them friendship is not the same as romantic relationship.

A woman that isn't in a relationship that will lead to permanency but behaves like a wife is stupid. You can show someone you care for them without investing all your time and energy. I sense a lot of dishonest responses!!!!

But a lot of men will always try to get as much as possible from a relationship for the least amount of effort, so its not farfectch that yall respond like this. But from a female perspective what she says makes a lot of sense.

It makes sense , but it isn't realistic for today's world, because what are husband benefits?

I understand why the older women who grew up in the '70's, and previously, would think being a husband has benefits, but I don't get that now. Back then the benefits were cooking, cleaning, and loyalty. Now, those things are not really done, or don't have to be done, by your wife. I know women who got married, and have other people doing those things. Or you can eat out, and hire a maid. It's not expensive as it once was. Loyalty can be had without marriage, and even then it isn't guaranteed anymore. So, I'm trying to figure out what are these husband benefits?

What I want is a friend to grow with because growth never stops, it just goes through different seasons. If I can't see that happening, I don't see marriage, just a good friend, not my best friend.