Looks like they got Jonah Hill up next on that Summer Jam screen.

[inndaskKy]

I've never seen a naked surfer, so I don't know what this comment even means.

But I'm sure you have seen surfers with full body suits.

 

[feelosofer]

Having a relationship fall apart is not an 'abusive' relationship. She's outing this dude for clout now.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

This is such a non story.

He’s an insecure, former fat kid and she’s a lame for posting this shyt years later as if he threatened her well being

Why any man going forward would date someone who discloses messages like this to the public is beyond me

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

A relationship ending is trauma now

This is Moriah Mills level clout chasey

 

[KidJSoul]

Dude was being condescending, he seems like the type that couldn't handle dating a hot woman without being paranoid/insecure

But based on what we've seen in the text, calling him a misogynistic narcissist seems a bit much. It's hard to fully tell if he was being abusive/controlling, or if he felt she was still being too provocative. Idk.

Although that part about the therapist telling her to always immediately disregard any guy that even talks to her is some type of way

Moral of the story, don't try to make someone something they aren't.

 

[Absolut]

Dude was being condescending, he seems like the type that couldn't handle dating a hot woman without being paranoid/insecure

But based on what we've seen in the text, calling him a misogynistic narcissist seems a bit much. It's hard to fully tell if he was being abusive/controlling, or if he felt she was still being too provocative. Idk.

Although that part about the therapist telling her to always immediately disregard any guy that even talks to her is some type of way

Moral of the story, don't try to make someone something they aren't.

She went back years and years and this was the absolute worst she could find talk about a complete nothingburger

 

[Piff Perkins]

And? If a man falls in love with a stripper and tells her she has to quit if there was going to be a serious relationship is that wrong? What attracts you to a person isn't always going to be what you want going forward. He communicated that and told her respectfully if she didn't agree it could end. What's the issue? Did he put a gun to her head forcing her to stay with him. Society is fukkin soft these days.

You're comparing a stripper to a surfer/swimmer? What else is she supposed to surf or swim in, in this country? And why wouldn't she continue to display pics of her surfing, since she is a...surf instructor.

He was insecure and a weirdo. He introduced his boundaries. She accepted them for awhile, and then bounced. He looks corny for being a cry baby. She looks corny for leaking this a month after the man had a baby.

 

[Stir Fry]

Man, that is one UGLY couple. Lol


Why’s she(?) making the creepy bush guy face?

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

When did Jonah Hill start looking like a mini slightly overweight Magnum T.A.?

 

[Dwight Howard]

You're comparing a stripper to a surfer/swimmer? What else is she supposed to surf or swim in, in this country? And why wouldn't she continue to display pics of her surfing, since she is a...surf instructor.

He was insecure and a weirdo. He introduced his boundaries. She accepted them for awhile, and then bounced. He looks corny for being a cry baby. She looks corny for leaking this a month after the man had a baby.

None of this literally matters, he's allowed to have his preferences whatever the hell they are and she is allowed to leave if she don't like it. You don't need to justify remaining in a relationship you don't want to be in, like let's be forreal here.

 

[Hostile]

When did dude start looking like a prowrestling jobber? Looks like he finna have a tune up match with Macho Man Randy Savage.

He looks like Gangrel

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I'm surprised they going after him. Notice how they saying "men" instead of "white men". When it was Jonathan majors we had all kinds of think pieces about "Black men" specifically.

 

[bigsausagepizzapapi]

Secret technique you can use in relationships when you're unhappy. LEAVE

 

[bnew]

The bolded is simply your presumption. And I think "completely different person" is putting extras on it.

Could you explain your definition of manipulation? Is any expression or enforcement of boundaries/standards considered manipulation? Is any attempt to change your partner's behavior manipulation? Once in a relationship with someone, are we simply stuck with who they are lest we be considered emotional abusers?

he had to pre-approve her friends(male or female), instructed her to delete social media posts, likely posts that existed long before they were in a relationship, approve of her attire which aesthetic he was familiar before getting into a relationship with her. not every attempt to change a partners behavior is manipulation since some behavior could be to prevent self-destruction or harm which doesn't apply based on the information provided.

 

[bnew]

A relationship ending is trauma now

This is Moriah Mills level clout chasey

not just now, since forever some people have literally killed themselves after a significant other have left them.

I guess the experience of a bond ending is traumatic enough for some individuals that they see life as no longer worth living.