Your mom died on christmas ? 
Losing a parent?
- Thread starter Albert Williams
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It's one of those thing you can never prepare for
lost my pops over 10 years ago. think about him everyday. prolly brings me to tears maybe once a year.
as time goes on, the pain gets easier. but it will never go away.
also she will always be in your dreams/nightmares. the worse is when you are dreaming....and they are in your dream...but you know its just a dream...and you know you will wake up soon...and you know when you wake up, they will be dead again.
This right here sounds real as hell. I dunno what imma do when that day comes
jesus man...lost my pops over 10 years ago. think about him everyday. prolly brings me to tears maybe once a year.
as time goes on, the pain gets easier. but it will never go away.
also she will always be in your dreams/nightmares. the worse is when you are dreaming....and they are in your dream...but you know its just a dream...and you know you will wake up soon...and you know when you wake up, they will be dead again.
Wear rubbers. Don't drink too much.
It's alright.
It's alright.
HollowPoints2
Don Makaveli.
Sorry for your loss bro but can you describe the pain so those of us who haven't lost a parent can emotionally prepare for it ?
mom died of pancreatic cancer today....
when does the pain end?....
If any of you have lost a parent, how did you deal with it?
theres no way to describe it. its a pain you've never felt before. the emotional pain is so bad you start to feel it physically. you start to feel it in your bones. i had this pain in my stomach...felt like someone ripped my intestines out. i imagine its something similar to what a junkie feels like going thru detox.
Albert Williams
Rookie
well for me... i feel really numb and sick like I'm gonna throw up and i feel unreal, i feel kind of out of my body if that makes sense. My concentration is a little off and it's like i lost my soul if that explains it.
Basically a really sad in shock feeling. I'm been really dizzy, even before my mom's death.
It doesn't feel good at all. That's why i ask when will the pain end. I would hate to live the rest of my life feeling this way.
If i can't keep myself distracted, i just crumble literally like breakdown with weakness, tears, and different types of pains.
Deadpool1986
Cook with a Mouth
It doesn't and I'm still trying to deal with it.mom died of pancreatic cancer today....
when does the pain end?....
If any of you have lost a parent, how did you deal with it?
Dragonfly Jones
Siiiiiiiilence Punk!!
lifes a bytch
the only way to prepare for a parents death is to be emotionally detached from all human beings including them, then their death will be easier to accept
however if ur a normal human being with emotions and feelings its pretty much going to be one of the worst things you'll probably ever have to deal with.
I choose to be emotionally detached
Sorry for ur lost breh, hope ur straight (obviously ur not but I honestly don't know what else to say in these situations, it sucks)
the only way to prepare for a parents death is to be emotionally detached from all human beings including them, then their death will be easier to accept
however if ur a normal human being with emotions and feelings its pretty much going to be one of the worst things you'll probably ever have to deal with.
I choose to be emotionally detached
Sorry for ur lost breh, hope ur straight (obviously ur not but I honestly don't know what else to say in these situations, it sucks)
I haven't lost a parent yet, but my grandma died making Tamales on Christmas eve... well sort of 6 years ago.
Quick story short: She had a brain tumor, docs told her no stress. Cousin Eloy got caught with heroin in his room, and she went insane. Next thing you know the tumor pops and drops onto the floor, just dead, not even breathing. We were able to stop the bleeding but like 11 days laters it ruptured, and we couldn't stop it so we had to say goodbye.
Christmas got hard the first few years, but we always treat her like she was still in our hearts and always around us. Keep the memories fresh, because it heals faster by remembrance rather trying to erase them out of your life.
Quick story short: She had a brain tumor, docs told her no stress. Cousin Eloy got caught with heroin in his room, and she went insane. Next thing you know the tumor pops and drops onto the floor, just dead, not even breathing. We were able to stop the bleeding but like 11 days laters it ruptured, and we couldn't stop it so we had to say goodbye.
Christmas got hard the first few years, but we always treat her like she was still in our hearts and always around us. Keep the memories fresh, because it heals faster by remembrance rather trying to erase them out of your life.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
I didn't lose my step pop on Xmas, but I did lose him on the 13th of December...it's always a little rougher this time of year.