Love at first sight

[twan83]

Fearless...

I ran both times, lol. Just too freaking overwhelming...like all your of your nerves/senses/etc. are set ablaze...all at once.

It is shyt is Insane 24/7 on my damn mind weak in knees I was like this is bullshyt that shyt happens only in the movies
I was living in a movie I was beyond saving nobody could tell me shyt and I knew they were right bout her and I did too but the overwhelming feeling was SKRONG but a slight misstep got me back too my senses tho

 

[Lady.Libra.]

When you experienced this "love" at first sight, what did the man look like? Do other women in your circle also find him attractive?

Both times, both men were very physically attractive but what set them apart from other men I've found attractive is that they were magnetic. It was overwhelming & I felt every single nerve in my body -

Just looking at & appreciating a good looking, sexy man is normally sufficient for me any other time.

I never told a soul because I didn't know what/why I felt so strongly.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

Both times, both men were very physically attractive but what set them apart from other men I've found attractive is that they were magnetic. It was overwhelming & I felt every single nerve in my body -

Just looking at & appreciating a good looking, sexy man is normally sufficient for me any other time.

I never told a soul because I didn't know what/why I felt so strongly.

I rest my case

Those men were only "magnetic" because of their looks.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

what do you look like ?

Well, let's see, I have 2 eyes, 2 ears, a nose...

Quit it, lol.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I rest my case

Those men were only "magnetic" because of their looks.

Am I on trial? LOL.

So predictable...why ask a question if you think you know all about my experiences & reactions .
It's right there in Black & White - Simply being attractive doesn't elicit THAT TYPE of reaction from me. Thank G-d...my nerves couldn't handle all that stimulus.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

That's a god damn (geddit) good point, like those people who say I never liked so and so from the start, or those you feel bad vibes from

Tho I'm still hesitant to cry love here cause it implies a depth of feeling/infatuation that I just can't imagine from a single look at a person

Moreso cause I've yet to see someone, man or woman, fall in love at first sight with someone ugly

All jokes aside, as much as people claim it's whats on the inside, looks do play a role

Then again maybe it's one of those gotta experience things to get it

LOL. Get right wit' Jesus.

No, but, seriously there are levels of love. It's possible to love (immense like) at first sight...vastly different from being in love, IMHO.

Think about this - If people could love inanimate objects/things - car, clothes, etc. then why not a person?

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Am I on trial? LOL.

So predictable...why ask a question if you think you know all about my experiences & reactions .
It's right there in Black & White - Simply being attractive doesn't elicit THAT TYPE of reaction from me. Thank G-d...my nerves couldn't handle all that stimulus.

He's just pointing out that if those men looked like this:

they would not have elicited that strong response from you.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

Am I on trial? LOL.

So predictable...why ask a question if you think you know all about my experiences & reactions .
It's right there in Black & White - Simply being attractive doesn't elicit THAT TYPE of reaction from me. Thank G-d...my nerves couldn't handle all that stimulus.

Maybe not, but it's still the primary reason you were stimulated. Would you have those same feelings for an average Joe? How about an ugly guy like me?

Women need to admit that they're just as shallow as men if not more so.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

He's just pointing out that if those men looked like this:

they would not have elicited that strong response from you.

I think he just likes to hear himself talk-type...eh.

Anyway, if being very attractive is the prerequisite to the type of feelings I experienced twice in my life then it would have happened much, much more frequently.

Is that pic real...?

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Maybe not, but it's still the primary reason you were stimulated. Would you have those same feelings for an average Joe? How about an ugly guy like me?

Women need to admit that they're just as shallow as men if not more so.

I could hang until the 'I'm ugly...' comment, omg.
I can't...

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

I could hang until the 'I'm ugly...' comment, omg.
I can't...

There's nothing wrong with saying you're ugly if you actually are. I'm not one of those good looking brehs who claims ugly for attention. You've seen my picture before.

Now, would you feel stimulated by an average or ugly guy?

 

[Lady.Libra.]

There's nothing wrong with saying you're ugly if you actually are. I'm not one of those good looking brehs who claims ugly for attention. You've seen my picture before.

Now, would you feel stimulated by an average or ugly guy?

I don't even recall seeing a picture of you...

Still, I just don't agree with the negative self-talk/insults. What does it ever accomplish? I'm not talking superficial stuff either - I'm being so serious RN.
Why self-inflict pain? There's more than enough people in the world waiting to tear you/your spirit down. Come on.

If & when it ever happens, I'll let you know.

 

[King Poetic]

no. this isn't a lifetime saturday night movie..

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

I don't even recall seeing a picture of you...

Still, I just don't agree with the negative self-talk/insults. What does it ever accomplish? I'm not talking superficial stuff either - I'm being so serious RN.
Why self-inflict pain? There's more than enough people in the world waiting to tear you/your spirit down. Come on.

If & when it ever happens, I'll let you know.

You and I both know it'll never happen.

And who cares whether or not my talk is negative? All that matters is that it's factual.

I don't believe it's possible for women to truly "love" an ugly dude, or even an average dude. And neither do you...

 

[Lady.Libra.]

You and I both know it'll never happen.

And who cares whether or not my talk is negative? All that matters is that it's factual.

I don't believe it's possible for women to truly "love" an ugly dude, or even an average dude. And neither do you...

Misdirected energy right there...

I believe & know it's possible and I don't gain anything by trying to convince you that I do. It's naive to believe that "ugly" people have never/will never know love...take a look around - all of those unions/relationships aren't bogus. Agree to disagree.