"lower your standards" is not good advice to the the non-eating brehs

[Reginald Noble]

Idk breh, if you're truly at her level or especially above all the simp attention doesn't matter, and If you have to put in all that extra effort and she's playing games with you, you're not at the level you think you are. At best you're a 3rd stringer, getting "the honor" of taking her out when the starter and backup are busy.

Take it from a nikka who knows, ain't nothing like fukking a girl fresh off 250+ likes and all you had to do is free up a lil time. Then they start showing you all the thirst buckets, creeps, and weirdos in her comments and inbox. Its like a drug lol have you feeling like

The problem is that with many American females today this statement today is not accurate or consistent at all. There is no objective benchmark we can use to define an Alpha negro any longer.

In the late 70s/early 80s when my pops was coming up in the game the following meant you could get some booty fairly easily as an 18 year old to get a 6.5/10 rated Woman:

• Fresh Adidas/Converse
• Weed
• Cool ride
• A modicum of intelligence and wit
• Good looks
• Maybe a female friend for some social validation

Today as a 25 year old you need:

• Diamond rims
• Skyy condoms in Sky Condominiums ($100k+ value)
• Platinum Rolex
• Samsung Galaxy S3000 Omega Generation Phone (VR edition)
• 3000+ IG followers (as a Man, which is a tall order)
• Funnier than Kevin Hart
• Taller than
• Access to the hottest clubs/bottle services like
• Business credentials like
• Attitude like
• Reputation like
• Dress code like
• Soul like

I mean today you got hoes dissecting your lexicon and shyt, family heritage, homies/crew and handing out rankings and shyt all while bringing nothing to the table except a fat azz and some kids

Keep in mind that the above applies to 90% of nikkas. There is no 3rd tier. You're either on top or bottom.

 

[BigMan]

Sound Advice so far...

This could be one of those rare threads about getting women that is realistic and productive.

 

[Dark is the night]

You nikkas should be lowering your standards since uglier bytches are easier and less likely to stress your ass out

 

[HellRell804]

The problem is that with many American females today this statement today is not accurate or consistent at all. There is no objective benchmark we can use to define an Alpha negro any longer.

In the late 70s/early 80s when my pops was coming up in the game the following meant you could get some booty fairly easily as an 18 year old to get a 6.5/10 rated Woman:

• Fresh Adidas/Converse
• Weed
• Cool ride
• A modicum of intelligence and wit
• Good looks
• Maybe a female friend for some social validation

Today as a 25 year old you need:

• Diamond rims
• Skyy condoms in Sky Condominiums ($100k+ value)
• Platinum Rolex
• Samsung Galaxy S3000 Omega Generation Phone (VR edition)
• 3000+ IG followers (as a Man, which is a tall order)
• Funnier than Kevin Hart
• Taller than
• Access to the hottest clubs/bottle services like
• Business credentials like
• Attitude like
• Reputation like
• Dress code like
• Soul like

I mean today you got hoes dissecting your lexicon and shyt, family heritage, homies/crew and handing out rankings and shyt all while bringing nothing to the table except a fat azz and some kids

Keep in mind that the above applies to 90% of nikkas. There is no 3rd tier. You're either on top or bottom.

You're being too analytical about it. Which kinda hints to me that you're punching above your weight class. No man is ever going to be all things to all women even wealthy or famous brothers, but if you're trying to get with a girl and she's not showing you that good cooperation you either need to find out what she likes and become it, or bush her and move on to the next. I say just keep it moving. If you're driven, focused, and confident and she still gives you the run around, she's just not attracted to you.

When I say "good cooperation", a girl should basically be treating you like a simp treats women. Good morning texts for no reason, tries to find any excuse to be in your presence, does things for you to try to win your affection (especially cooking, if a girl offers to cook you a meal she's basically advertising herself as a gf/potential wife).

Trust me you'll understand when you reach that level. But for now, just take an honest assessment of where you are in life, your physical condition, your sense of style, and your ability to master conversation/be witty. If you're lacking in any of these areas fix it. There are tons of books/websites to help you on your journey.

The best part is, once you're on the path to self improvement and the spell of women is broken, you'll be surging with confidence and free to accomplish anything you feel like you want to do.

As far as the last part of your post, if a woman is analyzing you that hard, run!!!! She's approaching that age where she's looking to cash out and she's looking for the max payout. You'll get married, be happy for a few years, then devastated when you find out she's fukking a guy who turns her on in a primal way.

The reason the gap is so big between the top tier and everybody else is because most dudes don't try. Those 2nd tiers can get in the game with some effort. There is however a third tier, you know those guys when you see them. Outside of winning the lottery they're fukked

 

[Disclosure]

I disagree.

The worst advice is "just be yourself" because this is what women say to weed out weirdos. I think the main problem for alot of dudes on here is that they dont hide their power level and it probably shows.

 

[NoChillJones]

If you got game/a good mouth piece, you can generally pull any woman you want if your confidence is high. Most men don't have high confidence when it comes to approaching women, even the most secure man gets nervous when approaching a woman he is interested in, even if he never shows it. Yall talking about essentially having trinkets to attract a woman, but that means nothing if you have no game. Its not about lowering your standards. Some dudes just don't have game to pull any woman they want. Some women like men who are not sauve, its all about the woman and chemistry.

 

[FSP]

I disagree.

The worst advice is "just be yourself" because this is what women say to weed out weirdos. I think the main problem for alot of dudes on here is that they dont hide their power level and it probably shows.

I think you should be yourself, for yourself. Going about changing your personality for female attention is not in my DNA at all. I'd rather be weird

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Lowering your standards is for people that are desperate and the myth about average guys or nerds only going after dimes is a lame defense mechanism from women and simps. That's not suppose to be taken seriously by anybody with sense.

I believe in self improvement also and that's why I think a lot of dudes that are average looking should focus on self improvement while blocking out a lot of these bitter females and lame ass dudes that don't want them to do any better than average or below average. A lot of these clowns don't want these dudes to succeed. That's why it's common to see people trying to convince average men or nerdy men to settle for average or even ugly nerd women.

 

[International Playa]

"Lower your standards" doesnt mean you stay with that same woman, its just you got a woman you can fukk on the regular while you approaching the women you desire & then trade up once you got her.

Its easier to approach and bag new women while your already got a woman you fukking already. When you got a woman you fukking already, you are more confident, less nervous than a dude out here fapping with no options.

I rather have a obese women Im fukking on the regular than fapping to perfect women on pornos

 

[Youseenmywork]

Worst advice EVER. Never settle for just be anything, but be realistic as well .

 

[Youseenmywork]

Lowering your standards is for people that are desperate and the myth about average guys or nerds only going after dimes is a lame defense mechanism from women and simps. That's not suppose to be taken seriously by anybody with sense.

I believe in self improvement also and that's why I think a lot of dudes that are average looking should focus on self improvement while blocking out a lot of these bitter females and lame ass dudes that don't want them to do any better than average or below average. A lot of these clowns don't want these dudes to succeed. That's why it's common to see people trying to convince average men or nerdy men to settle for average or even ugly nerd women.

Underrated comment

 

[NoChillJones]

Lowering your standards is for people that are desperate and the myth about average guys or nerds only going after dimes is a lame defense mechanism from women and simps. That's not suppose to be taken seriously by anybody with sense.

I believe in self improvement also and that's why I think a lot of dudes that are average looking should focus on self improvement while blocking out a lot of these bitter females and lame ass dudes that don't want them to do any better than average or below average. A lot of these clowns don't want these dudes to succeed. That's why it's common to see people trying to convince average men or nerdy men to settle for average or even ugly nerd women.

When you nikkas get grown you will understand. Looks on a woman is only about 30% of what matters. You have to be physically attracted, but after 30, you tend to start wanting a partner, and you will let all these images of "bad bytches" go for a more realistic relationship, as you tend to realize reality from fakeness.

Also you come to realization that you not exactly a model yourself. If you got a beer gut, don't wash regularly, don't have a job, don't have a car, ride the bus, and you talking about all you date is "bad bytches" have your retarded ass a seat.

 

[RandomDudeOnColi]

If you got game/a good mouth piece, you can generally pull any woman you want if your confidence is high. Most men don't have high confidence when it comes to approaching women, even the most secure man gets nervous when approaching a woman he is interested in, even if he never shows it. Yall talking about essentially having trinkets to attract a woman, but that means nothing if you have no game. Its not about lowering your standards. Some dudes just don't have game to pull any woman they want. Some women like men who are not sauve, its all about the woman and chemistry.

How do you get game/mouth piece?

 

[ahdsend]

get ur money up n chase empowerment...

you do that the top notch women gonna be choosing u...

unless u a straight up novice with no game then u gotta pick up one of tariqs books

dont ever lower ur standards in anything, what u gotta do is better yourself....

 

[NoChillJones]

How do you get game/mouth piece?

It can be learned how to talk to women, people in general. Most people are just naturally born with it though..