"lower your standards" is not good advice to the the non-eating brehs

[Solo ✧✦✧]

When you nikkas get grown you will understand. Looks on a woman is only about 30% of what matters. You have to be physically attracted, but after 30, you tend to start wanting a partner, and you will let all these images of "bad bytches" go for a more realistic relationship, as you tend to realize reality from fakeness.

Also you come to realization that you not exactly a model yourself. If you got a beer gut, don't wash regularly, don't have a job, don't have a car, ride the bus, and you talking about all you date is "bad bytches" have your retarded ass a seat.

I didn't say anything about only wanting "bad bytches". All that other stuff doesn't apply to me. There was no need for you to respond if you were going to talk about stuff that has almost nothing to do with my post.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Idk breh, if you're truly at her level or especially above all the simp attention doesn't matter, and If you have to put in all that extra effort and she's playing games with you, you're not at the level you think you are. At best you're a 3rd stringer, getting "the honor" of taking her out when the starter and backup are busy.

Take it from a nikka who knows, ain't nothing like fukking a girl fresh off 250+ likes and all you had to do is free up a lil time. Then they start showing you all the thirst buckets, creeps, and weirdos in her comments and inbox. Its like a drug lol have you feeling like

You're right on the above her level, but being at her level means nothing.

And that's a major problem, when the majority of women are willing to bust it open for a man above her level, but completely ignores men at her level.

Women are biologically programmed to sleep with the highest value male possible, but up until 50 years ago, she would be punished for acting on those impulses (risking pregnancy, absentee father, no child support, and limited income potential).So you had the courting process for a man to show that he was truly in for the long haul, and women looked for a man on their level that willing to wife them

Now society has changed and she can only sleep with men above her level with little to no repercussion (at least in the short term). It's still considered a better situation for a woman to find a permanent mate, but a large portion of women can now play the game of only dating the highest value men that show minimal interest and hope that one is so enamored by the p**sy that, he locks her down. Then they play the victim role when they get pumped and dumped.

In today's dating world it's easier than ever for a man to sleep with a woman beneath him. Easy pu**y is obtainable within hours by swiping left or right on your phone. But finding an equivalent partner is becoming increasingly difficult. I'd argue that if we continue to head in this direction, the entire institution of marriage will eventually become extinct.

 

[NoChillJones]

I didn't say anything about only wanting "bad bytches". All that other stuff doesn't apply to me. There was no need for you to respond if you were going to talk about stuff that has almost nothing to do with my post.

whatever breh. Be young, dumb, and shallow brehs.

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

Its either lower your standards or step your game up, and a lot of dudes act like they're allergic to self improvement. Some even get defensive when the topic is mentioned.

But I guess you can hold out for that one in a million girl who's everything you dreamed of and will accept you as you are.

Too many dudes think getting a woman will solve all their problems when it reality it's just gonna create more..If you worry about getting yourself together and make sure everything is tight then the women will start coming automatically

Truth. No more need to be said

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[International Playa]

Lowering your standards is for people that are desperate and the myth about average guys or nerds only going after dimes is a lame defense mechanism from women and simps. That's not suppose to be taken seriously by anybody with sense.

Some dudes struggling DO need to lower their standards. Kent is very average dude, not the most charasmatic dude, isnt highly confident with women,short, doesnt dress well but dude expects a beautiful virgin. His not even a top teir dude and he wants a beautiful virgin

Dude should acknowledge his not a top teir dude, and date women on his level or below. He could bag a fat woman, gain confidence in being around a woman, that same woman could get him to dress better, stop the hats, which will improve his looks,then he can move on to better women

I rather have dudes fukking ugly/fat women than sitting at home fapping to porn

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

whatever breh. Be young, dumb, and shallow brehs.

You're an idiot, there's nothing shallow about caring about appearance. Learn how to read and understand a post instead of getting in your feelings.

You're nearly 1k in the red though so I shouldn't expect much

 

[MikelArteta]

I've never changed for a woman. I mean if yourself is not being groomed and wearing baggy clothes thsts different.


But being some chameleon for a chick to like you?

I disagree.

The worst advice is "just be yourself" because this is what women say to weed out weirdos. I think the main problem for alot of dudes on here is that they dont hide their power level and it probably shows.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

there's a difference between lowering your standards and going for ogres

 

[NoChillJones]

You're an idiot, there's nothing shallow about caring about appearance. Learn how to read and understand a post instead of getting in your feelings.

You're nearly 1k in the red though so I shouldn't expect much

Stop talking and getting emotional nikka. Just cause someone pulled your hoe card........

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Some dudes struggling DO need to lower their standards. Kent is very average dude, not the most charasmatic dude, isnt highly confident with women,short, doesnt dress well but dude expects a beautiful virgin. His not even a top teir dude and he wants a beautiful virgin

Dude should acknowledge his not a top teir dude, and date women on his level or below. He could bag a fat woman, gain confidence in being around a woman, that same woman could get him to dress better, stop the hats, which will improve his looks,then he can move on to better women

I rather have dudes fukking ugly/fat women than sitting at home fapping to porn

That's not the point genius. I'm talking about average dudes or dudes that get tagged as nerds, not some clown like Kent. Even for Kent I think he should only go after women he's attracted to and not settle for some chick that he sees as average or ugly.

Dudes that settle for ugly/fat women are desperate and too lazy to improve.

 

[MikelArteta]

A man or woman should never expect anything you can't force anyone to like you.

Sometimes you dint get what you want because you can't handle it.

Some dudes struggling DO need to lower their standards. Kent is very average dude, not the most charasmatic dude, isnt highly confident with women,short, doesnt dress well but dude expects a beautiful virgin. His not even a top teir dude and he wants a beautiful virgin

Dude should acknowledge his not a top teir dude, and date women on his level or below. He could bag a fat woman, gain confidence in being around a woman, that same woman could get him to dress better, stop the hats, which will improve his looks,then he can move on to better women

I rather have dudes fukking ugly/fat women than sitting at home fapping to porn

 

[HellRell804]

You're right on the above her level, but being at her level means nothing.

And that's a major problem, when the majority of women are willing to bust it open for a man above her level, but completely ignores men at her level.

Women are biologically programmed to sleep with the highest value male possible, but up until 50 years ago, she would be punished for acting on those impulses (risking pregnancy, absentee father, no child support, and limited income potential).So you had the courting process for a man to show that he was truly in for the long haul, and women looked for a man on their level that willing to wife them

Now society has changed and she can only sleep with men above her level with little to no repercussion (at least in the short term). It's still considered a better situation for a woman to find a permanent mate, but a large portion of women can now play the game of only dating the highest value men that show minimal interest and hope that one is so enamored by the p**sy that, he locks her down. Then they play the victim role when they get pumped and dumped.

In today's dating world it's easier than ever for a man to sleep with a woman beneath him. Easy pu**y is obtainable within hours by swiping left or right on your phone. But finding an equivalent partner is becoming increasingly difficult. I'd argue that if we continue to head in this direction, the entire institution of marriage will eventually become extinct.

I totally agree. I made a thread about that the other day Sex before marriage. But Like PAC said "I was given this world, I didn't make it".

Just gotta play the game how it go and take what's on the table. If you have kids throw the TV out and block snap chat, fb, IG, and tumblr,and try to work on the next generation. Still ain't looking good tho...

 

[International Playa]

get ur money up n chase empowerment...

you do that the top notch women gonna be choosing u...

unless u a straight up novice with no game then u gotta pick up one of tariqs books

dont ever lower ur standards in anything, what u gotta do is better yourself....

But when you bettering yourself you need to be fukking something, thats why its ok to be fukking the fat/ugly/single mothers women till u can pull the dymes

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Stop talking and getting emotional nikka. Just cause someone pulled your hoe card........

stay mad fakkit

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Most people in general know or have an idea from observing others as to what they should get looks-wise. Believing struggling brehs are only approaching dimes is something someone who is either naive or daft would think. Actual dimes are even noted to cause nervousness in average, eating brehs. People think because they see thirsty comments by guys on IG thot pages that this is reality but it isn't; people are bolder behind a screen and will shoot their shot at anything. In real life, this is not the case.

When it comes to "lowering your standards" it's generally meant for something beyond feasible. "lower your standards" is often codewords for pressuring guys to going for overweight women. I could see telling struggling brehs to chill on other harder-to-fill requirements (such as needing to do some niche hobby) but don't let people pressure you into playing yourself.

Here's better advice: If you aren't eating and you believe your standards are regular, it's probably something else; my guess would be tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

Agree/Disagree?

Are you one of those Roosh V PUA accolytes?

A lot of the dudes not eating have never eaten. They have no control over their energy and no experience with women period. Their standards are warped by years of porn addiction. Telling them to go for dimes will only further cement the cycle of failure they are trapped in.