LSA Sistas- 'The Only Thing You Need to Capture a Black man is'...

[Incogno]

I've literally seen dudes make the screw face when they talking about a chick and one ask how she looks and the other says she's dark skin these dudes be like
Some of these guys literally act like being darkskin is a disease.

These men are dealing with severe self-hatred issues...

Brought on by the internalization of white supremacy...because you want to know who also think like that.....white supremacists

It always look silly when people go on about these men as if their well adjusted people who happen to have a difference of opinion...

Umm...no these men are dealing with some issues...

This is always swept under the rug...or sugar coated....because of the obvious reason.....

 

[Canon]

ahh the guilt trips on black men to force them into liking you

 

[Biscayne]

This is what I don't like about some black women.

Light skin blackish woman gets with cac: This is a victory for black women everywhere,#blackgirlmagic #black royalty #iloveyoupaulapatton

Light skin blackish woman gets with dark skin man: All these nikkas want is light skin bytches. #colorism #selfhate

Me:

See how dumb that is? Not only is it not consistent, it doesn't even do anything good for dark skin black women..

Yep!!! Remember when they made Amber Rose a surrogate black woman, when Kanye and her broke up and he 1st got with Kim. They made Amber Black to make it seem like "Yet another black man is leaving us for a White girl"

A white man can literally get the lightest black woman on the planet and he gets a pass just because he's white, a black man can't get with a woman who's half a shade lighter than he is without getting hit with criticisms from other black women.

Truth!!

 

[Biscayne]

Isn't there a light skinned black male appreciation thread in the salon?



I'm Dark-Skinned, but I don't care..

 

[Max Power]

All this lightskin/darkskin shyt is only prevalent with dusty, low achieving people.

Haven't heard that shyt since high school where I happened to be surrounded by such people's children.

 

[Insun Park]

@Incogno @MoonGoddess @NoChill Jones

I go out in public and see short men in happy relationships, darkskinned women in happy relationships, ugly nikkas in happy relationships

Don't let the coli influence your world view. On the coli you have to be 6'4 and look like Denzel or a lightskinned dime with an onion booty

In real life as long as you have confidence in yourself and become the best version of yourself possible there will always be room for you to

Sure some haters will hate but fuk em

 

[NoChillJones]

@Incogno @MoonGoddess @NoChill Jones

I go out in public and see short men in happy relationships, darkskinned women in happy relationships, ugly nikkas in happy relationships

Don't let the coli influence your world view. On the coli you have to be 6'4 and look like Denzel or a lightskinned dime with an onion booty

In real life as long as you have confidence in yourself and become the best version of yourself possible there will always be room for you to

Sure some haters will hate but fuk em

 

[Insun Park]

Anybody can eat in the dating world b

One of my boys from HS, he's a golden complexioned dude with green eyes from Afghanistan. He's dating a darkskinned black women now

Wanna know why? I've met this girl, it's because she has confidence in herself and carries herself with swagger. She doesn't sit around moping on LSA or the coli all day nor does she let haters opinions ruin her own self esteem

 

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A lot of those chicks hate light skinned chicks anyway so I stay in the sports section. F*ck em ....and then they have the nerve to get mad when light skinned/mixed chicks prefer someone their skin tone or lighter/whiter, but get happy when a lighter skinned man/white man likes them....Really.......

 

[philmonroe]

If a chick got a fat ass it don't really matter what her skin color is. Half of these chicks these dudes beast over are dark skinned.

Being physically attractive does give you an advantage. That's life. A girl with a pretty face and great body is going to get tons of play no matter what. If she's absolutely crazy or disrespectful then men will dog her out. But if she's halfway sane and at least moderately nice, she will get wifed.

Same goes for men. A 6'7 swole up handsome dude is going to get plenty of girls throwing themselves at him.

That thread makes me think the majority of LSA are ugly chicks that haven't truly accepted where they are on the totem pole. Once you are with peace with that, the opposite's sex criteria doesn't mean as much. You just work with what you got and make the best of it.

I agree with all,of,this esp bold. These two sites are similar in bold to me. Its a lot of ugly people that don't want to accept they are not attractive to alot of the opposite sex. When they can't accept it it's the same tired skin complexion, thugs/nerds, good guys/girls, or whatever other excuse that can get them the most sympathy from others in the ugliness brother/sisterhood.

 

[philmonroe]

I hope people aren't in here pretending that a lot of BP aren't on that light skin tip.

Don't worry the ugly brother/sisterhood will agree with you. Who,the fukk cares? Are we harassing people that like only darkskin women the same way? If not why the fukk y'all feel soo insecure. That shyt ain't cute fam.

 

[philmonroe]

Yeah, it's hard to explain. I guess in the back of our minds we feel that if the guy had a choice between us and the other, that we might not be the first choice. I asked my dude yesterday after reading this thread if he ever went through a phase where he didn't like darkskin girls. And he basically said the same thing that you guys are saying, it was just something he didn't see growing up. He says all the good looking darkskin girls were always being chased. I mean I think I'm average look wise and tho I always got approached the few times that a dude said some slick shyt about my skin color had me doubting myself despite the fact that literally 2 mins before another guy gave me play. Also that being cute for a darskin girl compliment, I can't count how many times I heard that or how many times a guy would try to talk to my lighter friend first and would go for me after she denied them. I always laughed it off but it's not good feeling like ur second best. Lol but hey maybe I'm just ugly because that's what it seems to boil down to for some. I guess all the short guys that get no okay are all just ugly too. I mean it's just so hard to believe that people can be so superficial that they will reduce you down to a color or a height, no way in the world people can be that shallow....

Why is it soo hard to believe because in this instance it doesn't benefit you? I'm pretty sure you don't say yes to any ole body when your single for various reasons so why is it any different for others? When you tell a guy no he could be saying the same thing about you but you are probably (rightfully so I might add) thinking we all got things we like/dislike and unfortunately you don't make the cut. Some people act as if they've never rejected someone themselves before. No matter who you are not everybody going to like you. It doesn't have to turn into some bogus referendum on that person because you(general) are butthurt you got dissed. Hell if anything that person saved you time and you can move on to someone who likes what you have to offer instead of worrying about the ones who no matter what you say like

 

[Dwolf]

Don't worry the ugly brother/sisterhood will agree with you. Who,the fukk cares? Are we harassing people that like only darkskin women the same way? If not why the fukk y'all feel soo insecure. That shyt ain't cute fam.

Why is it soo hard to believe because in this instance it doesn't benefit you? I'm pretty sure you don't say yes to any ole body when your single for various reasons so why is it any different for others? When you tell a guy no he could be saying the same thing about you but you are probably (rightfully so I might add) thinking we all got things we like/dislike and unfortunately you don't make the cut. Some people act as if they've never rejected someone themselves before. No matter who you are not everybody going to like you. It doesn't have to turn into some bogus referendum on that person because you(general) are butthurt you got dissed. Hell if anything that person saved you time and you can move on to someone who likes what you have to offer instead of worrying about the ones who no matter what you say like

 

[philmonroe]

You agree/disagree gotta give more fam

 

[Ms. Elaine]

Don't forget FAT. He's 5'6/180 pounds. Lord...

You can't be serious?!



@Frank Lucas you fat ass toad.