First off, I wonder about the demographics of this group. If they are younger then ya'll have no clue. A lot of young blk dudes they encounter are on some "I don't date blk chicks, fukk no dark butts" mess. I've seen it myself and I'm not even talking about just in the media. And having a preferences isn't a crime but some nikkas are straight loud, obnoxious and ignorant with it. I remember a seeing blk dudes in VIP in the club inviting groups of chicks in and telling darker ones they couldn't come.I honestly think some of ya'll living under a rock or not being honest about the extent of this shyt. Like I've literally overheard conversations by blk dudes talking about being able to treat a dark skinned chick anyway cuz nobody else wants hers and shyt. And sure there are some blk women who don't want dark-skinned brothas too. But I've never met a blk women who went out of her way to call a brotha some of the shyt I've heard blk men talking recklessly about.
So yeah I saw this shyt growing up but younger generations are REALLY reckless about it.
So I'm not going to sit here and twiddle my thumbs pretending like this shyt doesn't happen. (Hell u should see the fascination on WHITE people's faces when they get a c00n ass nikka in their ranks. But that's another story.)
But beyond that, these women still have to carry on and they have to stop caring about what a fraction of blk men think because these men aren't the entire blk community. You also can't allow the ignorance of a few to deter you and affect ur own sense of self-worth. And lastly, even if these sorry dudes exist, fukk em. Keep it movin to somebody else. But if u can't find anyone...that ain't about ur skintone, (or ur height, or the fact that ur a nice guy/girl, or ect)
That's about u.
What black breh in the VIP room would turn down dark skinned black women that are attractive?
