Make a man wait 6 months brehettes
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Youhadasparkwhenustarted
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6 months and you'll push away guys who actually like you too. I understand getting to know someone before sex(of course), but I just don't get treating sex like a prize instead of a mutual activity both parties enjoy. The guy probably checked out a while back and strung her along just in case.
If a man only wants sex and to bounce, he's going to only want sex and to bounce. Doesn't matter if you make him wait six months or six hours.
I understand the rationale but it's a short sighted and lazy way of gauging whether or not a man seriously views you as a mate.
What's more, a lot of men who may have been genuine will be immediately turned off by arbitrary waiting periods and move on, especially if they have options.
Sex should happen spontaneously and naturally.
It's insincere to put a time line on it.
It's perfectly normal to get to know someone personally before having sex.
Two different things that a lot of women conflate.
I understand the rationale but it's a short sighted and lazy way of gauging whether or not a man seriously views you as a mate.
What's more, a lot of men who may have been genuine will be immediately turned off by arbitrary waiting periods and move on, especially if they have options.
Sex should happen spontaneously and naturally.
It's insincere to put a time line on it.
It's perfectly normal to get to know someone personally before having sex.
Two different things that a lot of women conflate.
I've done something similar and the reason being the chick was an absolute annoying bird brain who talked too much. Only waited 3 months tho.
After I cut, I stopped talking to her.
After I cut, I stopped talking to her.
Any relationship I'm serious about doesn't hinge on sex, if its 6 months or 6 hours it doesn't really matter too me.
I'd be more put off by the fact that a chick had some arbitrary number set before she should have sex. Either wait till marriage or when you feel the time is "right" dont stick some date to it.
I'd be more put off by the fact that a chick had some arbitrary number set before she should have sex. Either wait till marriage or when you feel the time is "right" dont stick some date to it.
Elle Driver
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If a man only wants sex and to bounce, he's going to only want sex and to bounce. Doesn't matter if you make him wait six months or six hours.
I understand the rationale but it's a short sighted and lazy way of gauging whether or not a man seriously views you as a mate.
What's more, a lot of men who may have been genuine will be immediately turned off by arbitrary waiting periods and move on, especially if they have options.
Sex should happen spontaneously and naturally.
It's insincere to put a time line on it.
It's perfectly normal to get to know someone personally before having sex.
Two different things that a lot of women conflate.
All about reputation.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Eh to each it's own
, I do not see anything wrong with a person waiting to have sex(religious reasons, personal reasons, and etc), BUT I think that it becomes a problem when the whole waiting is centered around sex and the body instead of getting to know the person. The woman in OP's description comes off as crazy and probably equated a man waiting to have sex with her on the same level as a man wanting to respect her and know her outside of sex.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
yea cuz any real man would cuff a chick wit her bare ass all over the interwebs
at this 3rd string ig thot
At first I thought she was some reformed hoe tooting her horn, but oh well
beenz
Rap Guerilla
has this ever worked out
at the first comment. and why do hoes think that after making a guy wait, if you give them the p*ssy, it's a contract that ya'll gon be together???
its a bad mentality to have IMO let say you're having that moment when it's about to happen but you put a stop to it because of a 6 months rule that you are imposing its only a matter of time until the guy bounces6 months is nothing when it comes to sex
people need to chill
you meet someone new and you're just clocking how long it takes you to fukk them?
the minute you got it after all that time, you run off?
you knew other people before them, you're probably already sexually active, fukk one of them
At first I thought she was some reformed hoe tooting her horn, but oh well
nope just another naked hoe claiming feminism
Eh to each it's own
I see...
So is it acceptable to fukk by the 3rd-4th date? I'd imagine after like 4 weeks you'd know whether or not he/she is a keeper? What do yall do with all that sexual anticipation during that time?