I was gonna type up an even longer list of shyt, but forget that mess.
Bottom line, sex is important to a relationship, and its only a piece of the pie. Bottom line: is the 6 months supposed to scare of those who wont/cant wait, or embolden those who have now seen that your most valuable asset is the vagina?
As a man, my most valuable asset is time. Any time i give to someone is special, sex notwithstanding. If she explicitly said 6 months to dude, she basically said that as long as he can hold out, hes got it. Its put the p*ssy as a literal goal to achieve simply be keeping in touch with her every now and then.
In the end, what did she know about dude? Even when you "think" you know someone, they can surprise you. Putting the p*ssy in a "break in case of 6 months" box kinda implies that its her final "gift".
that's you. if a girl doesn't get that then she's not right for you
and that is fine, you will find a girl willing to fukk you when the moment happens for you two
the only conflict here is that he actually waited to smash but then he dipped
it's morally fukked up
no one should do that
if she's withholding and the dude thinks that withholding sex is a trash practice, they need to stop dealing with each other or try to communicate about the person withholdings' reservations, and if they're iron clad and won't change for anyone, it's done
what I don't get is the people who still push for it, or wait for it, when they have no intentions of letting their feelings grow, people who don't believe in waiting sitting back in that unfufilling situation and don't talk about why they're even waiting, or they resent that they are told to wait while waiting
you cannot force people to be on the same page as you in a relationship, this debating stuff is cool for friends but in a relationship, people need to feel fulfilled. Them not wanting to have sex may have meant as much to them as you having sex means to you
and if your ideological beliefs for when sex happens (or just your need to have sex or affirmation) overrides their feelings of wanting to wait, or if their belief in waiting completely overrides the needs that you NEED fulfilled in a relationship, why are y'all even talking anymore? It's not going to work
them being like ok fine lets just do it and yall ending up fukking is not going to work
they just folded on something important in their eyes and you took it just because you wanted it
you sitting back and waiting like a sucker when you don't want to because they decided to wait isn't going to work either
you just were passive in something that means a lot to you
either way there is gonna be a big THING in between the two people because neither is willing to reassess themselves and what they want and shyt