Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[Elle Driver]

If that's the case then yes........ but what if the young lady takes sex seriously(as she should) and wants to be cautious who she gives herself to?

That's fine, but 90 days or putting a number on it is stupid.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Nope. Not at all.... There is no way you can get to know a person in a year, let alone 6 months..... so if people need time to decide that the person they wanna share a sexual experience with is worth it or not, then let them cook....

I find it ironic that the brehs in here keep saying sex should happen naturally but if the woman doesn't feel comfortable until after their supposed "time they would wait for the p", then it's bushes.

 

[BlackBall]

women make the decision about sleeping with a man within the first 30 seconds

 

[↓R↑LYB]

But if she let him hit sooner, you would have called her a THOT.

Naw, Wed call her a thot for this



Stop caping breh

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

That's fine, but 90 days or putting a number on it is stupid.

So is sharing yourself with a stranger for the most part.....

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Why y'all following these birds? Boosting they self esteem making them think they are worth something because of their follower count.


She's a Bird. And broadcasts her business for the attention.

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[Field Marshall Bradley]

I find it ironic that the brehs in here keep saying sex should happen naturally but if the woman doesn't feel comfortable until after their supposed "time they would wait for the p", then it's bushes.

I know right... I think cats on this forum have their opinions on women formed by forums like these, and other PUA type online publications as opposed to real world experiences and common sense...

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

women make the decision about sleeping with a man within the first 30 seconds

They decide they wanna give you some in the first 30 seconds..... women who end up getting chose for life use heavy discernment when it comes to choosing sex partners

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Those are her rules yeah it may be stupid and doesn't in anyway prevent a guy from smashing and dashing but at the same time he didn't have to give the impression he was ok with it. He could have easily kept it moving.

 

[pon]

Check her twitter handle. She's claims to be a "certified sex therapist"

 

[iBrowse]

If that's the case then yes........ but what if the young lady takes sex seriously(as she should) and wants to be cautious who she gives herself to?

See that's the arbitrary issue at hand...what is the barometer for determining whether or not a person is taking sex seriously...does that only apply to people who want to be married first...thereby saying everyone else who has sex outside of marriage as being immature and irresponsible?

Is there a threshold?

No one is saying to fukk on Day 1, but how each person treats it is specific on an individual basis and shouldn't be relegated to a set time period or post-marriage as the basis for how everything should be in a relationship. More power to those that want to wait ( @TeflonTrill ) but one shouldn't get the impression that everyone else is fukking with abandon.

 

[Bigen King]

She look like one of them Thicc ass brawds that can't take no dicc.

 

[satireprod]

How long women wait USUALLY = HOW valuable she feels the man will be to her future and how traditional of a dude she perceives him to be. ...

If she knows a dude not shyt she might fukk him quickly bc she wants some dikk...

If she thinks dude is "marriage material" she may wait as long as she can OR until he does so "gesture" that indicates she "got em" and can feel safe to fukk without said fukking, interfering with her relationship goals for them

In the case of the OP more than likely her sex was "bad" or not compatible with her partners....if they made it 6 months they never had any chemistry

I personally say fukk when you wanna and let the chips fall where they may ....life is short

@PeridotPuss elaborate on the bolded a little more, please.

 

[Aceofspades404]

I know right... I think cats on this forum have their opinions on women formed by forums like these, and other PUA type online publications as opposed to real world experiences and common sense...

I just think it's very disingenuous and low-key trying to be subconsciously conniving. When brehs say things like "oh sex should just happen naturally" but know they wouldn't wait more than 2 weeks for sex just shows that they only care what they can get out of the situation with no regards about the woman's feelings.

 

[iBrowse]

I find it ironic that the brehs in here keep saying sex should happen naturally but if the woman doesn't feel comfortable until after their supposed "time they would wait for the p", then it's bushes.

Since I specifically said that it should be natural, find where I said the bold. Don't be a coli poster by drawing blanket generalizations I know you've mentioned your frustrations in threads of yours about maintaining your chastity despite it being a bane on your dating life but your experiences aren't the case for EVERY black women out here who respects themselves as much as you do.

Sounding like one of those "its hard being a nice guy out here" brehs

Then again its hard for people to be objective when they gotta deal with shyt IRL so I'm probably talking to a wall.