Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[Field Marshall Bradley]

but one shouldn't get the impression that everyone else is fukking with abandon.

Well.. that's the point... we're out here fukking wrecklessly....... all day every day...... What you know about a person on day 3 after meeting them is the same thing you know about that person a month after meeting them, which is absolutely nothing.....

men and women need to be more serious about when and who they lay.... everybody has fallen for the okie doke that its ok for sex to be casual, when its anything but....

 

[squiddyB]

If the only thing you can bring to a relationship is sex, then of course you're going to milk that shyt and make him go through hoops to get access.
From her point of view, she's not supplying what little she has of appeal.

No financial stability, no interesting personality, no cooking skills, etc, etc.

 

[The Mad Titan]

@Fonsworth

I also said it should happen naturally, and I for sure haven't bushed any woman I was interested in because it didn't happen at a certain time. Its really not the end all be all. Its really only a means to show intimacy and passion for the women I'm with.

 

[Vice Queen]

I dont understand the dating world...

How long are you REALLY supposed to make a man wait? 6 months seems like overkill....

I used to get tired of dudes in three months, and that was after I screwed them, what the hell I look like waiting six months....with the attitude I used to have dude would've got the bushes before we even bumped uglies.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Well.. that's the point... we're out here fukking wrecklessly....... all day every day...... What you know about a person on day 3 after meeting them is the same thing you know about that person a month after meeting them, which is absolutely nothing.....

men and women need to be more serious about when and who they lay.... everybody has fallen for the okie doke that its ok for sex to be casual, when its anything but....

I agree with just about everything you've posted, if people took sex more seriously and stop trying to make it like Fast food. Everyone would be much better off....imo

 

[Aceofspades404]

Since I specifically said that it should be natural, find where I said the bold. Don't be a coli poster by drawing blanket generalizations I know you've mentioned your frustrations in threads of yours about maintaining your chastity despite it being a bane on your dating life but your experiences aren't the case for EVERY black women out here who respects themselves as much as you do.

Sounding like one of those "its hard being a nice guy out here" brehs

Then again its hard for people to be objective when they gotta deal with shyt IRL so I'm probably talking to a wall.

and why did you draw this blanket generalization on my dating life by assuming I was referring to you?:lbjyikes:
*hint-hint* I wasn't. You weren't the only one that said it.

 

[CACarot]

Don't understand these arbitrary time limits placed by women. You can't put a time frame on these kind of things , if it feels right you do it if it don't then don't. But six months is just a silly number you place cause you think it will weed out n1ggas that just wanna fukk. When it actually back fires cause n1ggas be too invested that they stick around just to get the pay off of hitting but you think you could have forced a genuine romantic spark with said limits. When I was a young and dumb dude I thought girls that did that was noble, but as an adult I don't have time for that. We both want to fukk so why we waiting, I respect you more if you give it to me sooner than later as long as I feel it was earned versus given freely.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

If a woman puts out too early then she's seen as easy.

by who though?
I've slept with every girlfriend I've had pretty quickly I've never seen any of them as hoes

 

[PeridotPuss]

@PeridotPuss elaborate on the bolded a little more, please.

Saying "I love you"
Meeting each others families
Went to church together
Going on a vacation

Stuff like that "romantic milestone" type shyt

 

[iBrowse]

Well.. that's the point... we're out here fukking wrecklessly....... all day every day...... What you know about a person on day 3 after meeting them is the same thing you know about that person a month after meeting them, which is absolutely nothing.....

men and women need to be more serious about when and who they lay.... everybody has fallen for the okie doke that its ok for sex to be casual, when its anything but....

The problem is you are giving me the impression that waiting 6 months or any set time is the way to avoid falling for this okie doke you're referring to. If a dude wants to fukk and run he will do if after 6 months, after marriage or after kids.

Saying that "men and women need to be more serious about when and who they lay" really isn't saying much even though I agree.

Again going back to my question you didn't answer, what is the barometer/time frame for the vetting process around taking sex seriously?

 

[Soundbwoy]

I find it ironic that the brehs in here keep saying sex should happen naturally but if the woman doesn't feel comfortable until after their supposed "time they would wait for the p", then it's bushes.

we're talking about having a 6 months rule off jump

 

[iBrowse]

At the end of the day do what works for you...if you want to make a guy wait a year or more then I hope the best.

If you want to think everyone who doesn't live in accordance to your standards is irresponsible then grow up.

 

[iBrowse]

If she's constantly beating that 6 months over his head that's lame as hell and at that point dude just wanted to fukk because she made him wait.

That's my point...if the basis of the relationship going to that next step is predicated off of this 6 month rule then its foundation is bullshyt.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

The problem is you are giving me the impression that waiting 6 months or any set time is the way to avoid falling for this okie doke you're referring to. If a dude wants to fukk and run he will do if after 6 months, after marriage or after kids.

Saying that "men and women need to be more serious about when and who they lay" really isn't saying much even though I agree.

Again going back to my question you didn't answer, what is the barometer/time frame for the vetting process around taking sex seriously?

Its actually the type of vetting process that matters..... if you're serious about a relationship...... good communication and meeting fam and friends is vital... knowing what that persons belief system and values are is key as well.....

Young people don't know how to communicate, so its a helluva lot easier to get gamed now..... My body count is triple digits easily, and 95% of the time, I've never had to sale a fantasy to a chick cause I made it known what it was/wasn't right out the gate....

See, you pretending that its not women out there who don't mind fukking with no strings attached..... if you just looking for that nut, just deal with them as opposed to fukking off on a chick whose expecting more than just sex from you...... creating lil demons in the broad during the process....... cause she's getting low key lied to and led astray

 

[iBrowse]

and why did you draw this blanket generalization on my dating life by assuming I was referring to you?:lbjyikes:
*hint-hint* I wasn't. You weren't the only one that said it.

:daheart:Because it partially applied to me...I said that and you didn't specify who you were talking to so instead of just speaking in general I ddressed the fallacy to your point. If you were specific to who you were addressing then I wouldn't have even quoted you.
"hint hint" lmao.

Like I said in my post I only said it because its what you have actually typed here..it wasn't a generalization about your dating life..at least at the time you made the thread/post.


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