Male Goldiggers

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I already know its focused solely on their physical appearance.... :snooze:

Actually, it's their personality -- in particular their sense of humor that catches my attention.

Isn't that a good thing? That certain men are willing to put their career and ego on the side to care for the children and you?

IMO this new age ambitious independent women movement kind of fukked up the family structure. Don't get me wrong: I have no problem with women working jobs that were previously exclusive to men, and a lot of them are actually better than men at it, but IMO it wasn't meant for both parents to be out of the household consistently. Kids were not meant to be raised by a nanny or something. I'm also an ambitious dude so the kind of future wife I'm looking for is one that is willing to be a stay-at-home mom.

And besides the children, if you both work a lot of hours, it also affects yall relationship. Its harder to make time for each other and when u both come home from work tired and shyt yall dont rly wanna hear each others shyt, whereas if one stayed home thered be a meal ready for you, an ear ready to listen, and hands ready to massage.

Once children come along, of course, there needs to be a new structure set in place & sacrifices have to be made for both partners to live happily. Personally, I'd never wish to be a stay-at home permanently, but if I can operate from home or work on a part-time basis to ensure the household is run smoothly, I don't have a problem with that. All of that is up for discussion anyway. My issue is having a partner insisting that the bills should only be taken care of by the woman, even when she's 9months pregnant. That's quite inconsiderate if you ask me.
 
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