Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

Prince.Skeletor

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So it's a man that decided to be a woman.
But now she's like Kylie Jenner, a manly face and a manly voice but trynna look like a woman.
I don't know if she was into bodybuilding when she was a man, but I heard she was taking roids when she was a man.
Now she a woman with broad shoulders and veiny forearms.

She started 2 months ago, and this week the company started to have a registration page for meetings.

So instead of sending an outlook invite with a webex link, now we go to a page and register for the meeting and there's a code of conduct agreement that we have to check.
So we have to agree that we don't discriminate on looks or say comments about anyone's appearance.
Then before clicking register, there's a checkbox saying you read and agree to the code of conduct.

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I don't know what to do man, but this is a company that the execs and leaders always on linkedIn talking about woman successes, and how 2021 is the year of the woman etc....

So whatever happens, I know i'll be looked at as the bad guy.
Funny thing is, i'm 100% positive that if I was a female with discomfort with this they would be mad understanding.

How do I get over that discomfort?
 

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You're a transphobic p*ssy dude.

How are they impeding your ability to work?
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That's your own insecurities at play and no one elses.

It's not transphobia, it's not because it's not phobia or hate, it's just discomfort.
And she ain't impeding my work, but I know my body language will scream my discomfort.

There's no insecurities, it's discomfort and whatever I feel everyone will know it.

You can't call everything phobic, that word won't mean anything anymore.
I once told a group of co-workers I cna't have a male cut my hair or do a massage on me, they called me homophobic.
But there's no phobia or hatred, again it's just discomfort.
Using these words anywhere will remove any meaning from it
 
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