Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

[Devilinurear]

If I worked with a trans, its dikk would always be on my mind

Like, I know you want to be a woman, but the weaponry you have dangling between your legs say otherwise

 

[Barlow]

I cna't have a male cut my hair

i dont even say this but you're definitely homophobic

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Why would I be uncomfortable? You’re at work, get your shyt done and go home. Imagine my day being weird or ruined because a nikka came to work in a dress

It's not that simple, maybe in your job it's like that.
But for me, we will be in the same meetings, I will have to work with her.
Thank god for Covid, I can refuse to shake hands.

Imagine shaking hands with a swole former male now woman with weightlifting hands full of calices

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Tranny about to turn you out OP

 

[Joe Budden]

I’m sitting this one out

 

[KingTut]

If I worked with a trans, its dikk would always be on my mind

OP: I have been in a similar situation as you. Just call her by the pronouns and name that she prefers and you will be ok. At the end of the day your only goal should be working towards a higher salary whether that be with your current company or somewhere else. Act accordingly.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

And you said fat people bothered you too... meanwhile they ain't even worried about you and you weren't even on their mind.


You're a terribly insecure bytchmade poster.

I never said fat people bother me
I said they are a danger to society as they take their masks off at the grocery store as if the walk from the car to the grocery store got them out of breath.

We are in a pandemic, first people to go are the one's with existing conditions.

 

[Brolic]

If I worked with a trans, its dikk would always be on my mind

 

[RARI_Godwind]

Be highly insecure with the presence of a coworker minding their own business who you allegedly have no sexual interest in brehs

 

[Afro]

So it's a man that decided to be a woman.
But now she's like Kylie Jenner, a manly face and a manly voice but trynna look like a woman.
I don't know if she was into bodybuilding when she was a man, but I heard she was taking roids when she was a man.
Now she a woman with broad shoulders and veiny forearms.

She started 2 months ago, and this week the company started to have a registration page for meetings.

So instead of sending an outlook invite with a webex link, now we go to a page and register for the meeting and there's a code of conduct agreement that we have to check.
So we have to agree that we don't discriminate on looks or say comments about anyone's appearance.
Then before clicking register, there's a checkbox saying you read and agree to the code of conduct.

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I don't know what to do man, but this is a company that the execs and leaders always on linkedIn talking about woman successes, and how 2021 is the year of the woman etc....

So whatever happens, I know i'll be looked at as the bad guy.
Funny thing is, i'm 100% positive that if I was a female with discomfort with this they would be mad understanding.

How do I get over that discomfort?

I don't do knee jerk reactions OP, if it truly makes you uncomfortable to be around this person, you are thinking way too hard about this.

This person is now in your mind, taking up space. You really can't run because eventually, you will run into this kind of scenario again.

Best thing to do is to work with a counselor outside of work to get through these hang ups. You still need employment.

Choose wisely.

 

[paperbag]

Just avoid him as much as possibe, it's not like you're going to run into him in the men's room.You're actually lucky unlike the females that have to share bathrooms with a male bodybuilder.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

For those people calling me a transphobic or homophobic let me tell you a story.

I once had a debate with a gay guy.
I was like yo, being gay is a choice, if you choose to be with another man that's your choice.
His response to me was "do you remember your first crush, did you decide to like her or did it just happened? What about the girls after her, was it a decision to like them?"

I was like fukk, he's right. I lost that argument.

So for ya'll to say i'm phobic, remember I did not choose to be in a state of discomfort. It just happens.
Maybe ya'll manphobic.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This is some weak shyt, breh.

A tranny on the other end of a Webex meeting makes you uncomfortable?

Foreal?

 

[Paper Boi]

i'm trying to think of the person who i interact with the most at work where it's not really my choice to interact with them.


we maybe have a 1 on 1 meeting once a week, sometimes it's not even every week, they usually last around an hour.

all my other meetings are generally more than two people and it's usually not too much interaction since you're either running the meeting or listening to whoever is running the meeting. even then it's talking business, not socially, so who gives a fukk who it is.

most my other interactions with co-workers especially since we working form home is just a few messages and emails a week. people who i don't want to talk to socially from work, i just keep it short and strictly business on the IMs.

i couldn't imagine them making me feel that uncomfortable to the point that it'd really make me question my job unless they was blatantly racist/maga or some shyt.

what you're describing is one meeting... social distanced, they'll probably have you wearing a mask....

who gives a fukk. stop thinking about her dikk

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Just avoid him as much as possibe, it's not like you're going to run into him in the men's room.You're actually lucky unlike the females that have to share bathrooms with a male bodybuilder.

Oh shyt, bathrooms!!
Didn't even think about that....

True say man, so true