Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

[concise]

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I once told a group of co-workers I cna't have a male cut my hair or do a massage on me, they called me homophobic.
But there's no phobia or hatred, again it's just discomfort.

I said they are a danger to society as they take their masks off at the grocery store as if the walk from the car to the grocery store got them out of breath

I once had a debate with a gay guy.
I was like yo, being gay is a choice, if you choose to be with another man that's your choice.
His response to me was "do you remember your first crush, did you decide to like her or did it just happened? What about the girls after her, was it a decision to like them?"

I was like fukk, he's right. I lost that argument.

You sound like someone who talks way too much and just has to let everyone know what you think at all times. You are bound to get in trouble at work sooner or later, whether with this person or some other situation soon to come.

 

[FaTaL]

So it's a man that decided to be a woman.
But now she's like Kylie Jenner, a manly face and a manly voice but trynna look like a woman.
I don't know if she was into bodybuilding when she was a man, but I heard she was taking roids when she was a man.
Now she a woman with broad shoulders and veiny forearms.

She started 2 months ago, and this week the company started to have a registration page for meetings.

So instead of sending an outlook invite with a webex link, now we go to a page and register for the meeting and there's a code of conduct agreement that we have to check.
So we have to agree that we don't discriminate on looks or say comments about anyone's appearance.
Then before clicking register, there's a checkbox saying you read and agree to the code of conduct.

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I don't know what to do man, but this is a company that the execs and leaders always on linkedIn talking about woman successes, and how 2021 is the year of the woman etc....

So whatever happens, I know i'll be looked at as the bad guy.
Funny thing is, i'm 100% positive that if I was a female with discomfort with this they would be mad understanding.

How do I get over that discomfort?

Stop acting like a child, grow up, don’t fuk up your paper

 

[ISO]

I know this is cap too

 

[Caribbean lover]

Id personally be trying my hardest not to laugh if i was in ops shoes.

 

[Tug life]

I worked with a tranny once it was a dude one turned into a girl with full body surgery and shyt.

The crazy thing was almost none of the women suspected it was a tranny but all the guys knew off rip. nikka had one of those annoying voices like if you hold you nostrils and talk. He/she was cool for the most part we had a couple conversations about the stock market. But the nikka still said weird sexual shyt that most men would say but no women would say

 

[Pseudonym]

Do your job and make your paper.

If it comes after you, go to HR and file suit

 

[Mʀ2ᴋDᴇᴇᴢ]

Dude going be in the company photo looking like this

@ this pic being in back to back comments

 

[Koba St]

“I don’t know what to do”. You can try quitting.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

So it's a man that decided to be a woman.
But now she's like Kylie Jenner, a manly face and a manly voice but trynna look like a woman.
I don't know if she was into bodybuilding when she was a man, but I heard she was taking roids when she was a man.
Now she a woman with broad shoulders and veiny forearms.

She started 2 months ago, and this week the company started to have a registration page for meetings.

So instead of sending an outlook invite with a webex link, now we go to a page and register for the meeting and there's a code of conduct agreement that we have to check.
So we have to agree that we don't discriminate on looks or say comments about anyone's appearance.
Then before clicking register, there's a checkbox saying you read and agree to the code of conduct.

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I don't know what to do man, but this is a company that the execs and leaders always on linkedIn talking about woman successes, and how 2021 is the year of the woman etc....

So whatever happens, I know i'll be looked at as the bad guy.
Funny thing is, i'm 100% positive that if I was a female with discomfort with this they would be mad understanding.

How do I get over that discomfort?

Meetings bout to be like this in 2021...

 

[Monsanto]

Wait you're a man and don't go to a male barber?


As for the uncomfortable feeling I agree with you on that. A pig in a dress is still a pig in a dress. Your discomfort might set off a walking order to HR for a hostile environment. Remembering that you are black we have to respond to things in an open way.

I'm uncomfortable working with gays and lesbians because they lack boundaries and like to feel everyone up, excusing their behavior with their self-diagnosis.

 

[Killer Instinct]

 

[Loose]

that tranny really mentally bothering you that bad ? Unless she trying to hit on you do your work and keep pushing .

 

[husto]

Nah OP feelings are normal. some of y'all probably never worked with a trans person before and just talkin out your ass.

I've had it happen at my work as well though it was worse because she worked in a desk near me and was in all the same meetings etc.
It is weird and uncomfortable at first but then you get used to seeing them and it's not really a big deal. It stops being uncomfortable but never really stops being and feeling weird. I mean it's a dude wearing lipstick and coming to work in skirts and boots...


That being said just mind your own business and do your work.

Sidenote: When did thecoli become so supportive of trans people and throwing around terms like "transphobic"? @BmoreGorilla this seems kinda fishy

right like ?

 

[⠀X ⠀]

This gonna be y’all in the cafeteria one day

 

[King P]

I know the feeling. I have a tranny at my job, but it's a female turned male and she been had the surgery years ago.

When I met this person, I didn't know but then others told me and she/he told me. We were cordial, then all of the sudden she/he don't like me for whatever reason. I don't care either way. Problem is she/he makes everyone uncomfortable because everybody feels they gotta walk around eggshells because this tranny is a downright rotten person and has weaponized their transgenderness. She/Is is always going to HR to complain and they listen to this person because she/he has lawyers on the outside and threatens to sue HR if they don't listen. It's ridiculous. All because this tranny is lawsuit happy and trying to get a big payday

Thankfully I'm in a different location for the time being, so I don't have to interact with them. But Good Lord, the bullshyt that we had to put up with