Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

[Cat piss martini]

Dont make eye contact with It.

 

[Golden.Frame]

OP are you a woman? I only really see women having legitimate problems with trans ppl

 

[the artist known az]

He has no problem referring to them as she and her.
"Uncomfortable" with a male barber
Afraid to be in meetings

Your surpressing a lot

 

[Sankofa Alwayz]

It's not transphobia, it's not because it's not phobia or hate, it's just discomfort.
And she ain't impeding my work, but I know my body language will scream my discomfort.

There's no insecurities, it's discomfort and whatever I feel everyone will know it.

You can't call everything phobic, that word won't mean anything anymore.
I once told a group of co-workers I cna't have a male cut my hair or do a massage on me, they called me homophobic.
But there's no phobia or hatred, again it's just discomfort.
Using these words anywhere will remove any meaning from it

Now this I actually agree with.

 

[Sankofa Alwayz]

OP: I have been in a similar situation as you. Just call her by the pronouns and name that she prefers and you will be ok. At the end of the day your only goal should be working towards a higher salary whether that be with your current company or somewhere else. Act accordingly.

This.

 

[Yaboysix]

Just do your work,attend these puss ass meetings, aknowladge that you understand the terms and conditions,mind ya business and go home Bro.

It ain't worth the energy.

Something else new will be coming in soon that'll take ya mind right after this...

Folks gonna start coming to work with Anime pillows or something.

 

[Peak]

He has no problem referring to them as she and her.
"Uncomfortable" with a male barber
Afraid to be in meetings

Your surpressing a lot

 

[tuckgod]

You're a transphobic p*ssy dude.

Only took them 3 years to normalize this bullshyt with these new nikkas.

And a 100 of you weird nikkas dapped this

By the time these nikkas kids come of age, they’ll be primed to embrace beastiality and pedophilia.

Things are right on schedule.

 

[Hungerpain]

 

[BlazedWun]

'transphobia' and 'homophobia' are just terms that are weaponized to force normal people into accepting homosexuality and transgenders.

these things are not normal and never will be.

 

[Goat poster]

I think OP meant Bruce Jenner instead of Kylie

whole post is mad sus regardless

 

[BK The Great]

This is gonna be the norm living in America, better get used to it Don’t let it stop you from getting that bread though.

 

[winb83]

So it's a man that decided to be a woman.
But now she's like Kylie Jenner, a manly face and a manly voice but trynna look like a woman.
I don't know if she was into bodybuilding when she was a man, but I heard she was taking roids when she was a man.
Now she a woman with broad shoulders and veiny forearms.

She started 2 months ago, and this week the company started to have a registration page for meetings.

So instead of sending an outlook invite with a webex link, now we go to a page and register for the meeting and there's a code of conduct agreement that we have to check.
So we have to agree that we don't discriminate on looks or say comments about anyone's appearance.
Then before clicking register, there's a checkbox saying you read and agree to the code of conduct.

Meetings are now mad uncomfortable, and in the new year we will be having an in in person social distanced meeting, man I knowwwww I will be giving of negative vibes of discomfort.
I can't hide that shyt, whatever I feel my body language will scream it, I have no control over it.

I don't know what to do man, but this is a company that the execs and leaders always on linkedIn talking about woman successes, and how 2021 is the year of the woman etc....

So whatever happens, I know i'll be looked at as the bad guy.
Funny thing is, i'm 100% positive that if I was a female with discomfort with this they would be mad understanding.

How do I get over that discomfort?

Why are you uncomfortable around this person? If they wanna be trans that's their deal not yours. Part of being an adult is learning how to interact with people in the world and part of that is learning how to be around people you disagree with and be ok with it. Unless this person is harassing you them being trans has nothing to do with you at all. You interact with then to the extent the job requires and keep it moving.

 

[Chrome2279]

OP are you a CAC? You sound sus to me..

this whole post sound like what CACs be talking about at home..

Here is an example of how cacs sound in their homes to me:

“I’m uncomfortable at work now, they started allowing “insert ANY race here” on the premises and I gotta stand/sit next to them all day. Their clothes, food, Scent/smell, and vocabulary gets under my skin. I’m scared for my life now, if it ain’t white it ain’t right!!

OP if it don’t concern you... then leave it alone. Just cause it don’t meet YOUR standards... leave it alone... it’s their life, not yours...

Oh and one more thing......

 

[winb83]

'transphobia' and 'homophobia' are just terms that are weaponized to force normal people into accepting homosexuality and transgenders.

these things are not normal and never will be.

You don't have to accept anything to acknowledge that people have the right to live their lives the way they see fit. If consenting adults aren't hurting anyone and do that stuff then that's their business. They don't need your approval to do any of it just like you don't need their approval to do what you do.

What you're doing is typical for bigots. All most all of them seek to root their bigotry in something they feel is undeniable so it can be justifiable to the masses. It's still bigotry. 'Transphobia' and 'homophobia' are just terms used to call out bigots. You just call them weaponized terms because you don't seem to like the negative stigma of terms calling out that sort of bigotry.

Funny thing is if we took your same logic and redirected it at another target instead of sexuality, like race, suddenly you'd have issue with it. You might even say something like "well people can't help their race" as if that justifies the use of such logic simply because the target has changed. That's what I mean when I say rooting bigotry in something bigots feel is undeniable to justify it.