Man, I Don't Know What To Do. A Trans Started Working At My Company & It's All Uncomfortable Now.

[Prince.Skeletor]

OP are you a CAC? You sound sus to me..

this whole post sound like what CACs be talking about at home..

Here is an example of how cacs sound in their homes to me:

“I’m uncomfortable at work now, they started allowing “insert ANY race here” on the premises and I gotta stand/sit next to them all day. Their clothes, food, Scent/smell, and vocabulary gets under my skin. I’m scared for my life now, if it ain’t white it ain’t right!!

OP of it don’t concern you... then leave it alone. Just cause it don’t meet YOUR standards... leave it alone... it’s their life, not yours...

Oh and one more thing......

What happened to the Coli???

 

[Neuromancer]

male cut my hair

 

[Neuromancer]

Love each other, never jump to hatred OP

Ouch.

 

[Neuromancer]

Op what exactly makes you uncomfortable? I can understand not agreeing with something or someone but discomfort is a very different affair. So what makes you uncomfortable? Is it an uncanny valley feeling?

 

[MF budz]

Let a tranny fukk yo your money breh

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Op what exactly makes you uncomfortable? I can understand not agreeing with something or someone but discomfort is a very different affair. So what makes you uncomfortable? Is it an uncanny valley feeling?

Just for the record, there was another trans at one of my offices, this was before covid.
It was a girl who decided to be a guy, she was a girl when she started and became a guy after being in the in one of the same offices as me. So I used to see her once or twice a week.(my offices are my accounts).
after the surgery there was a vertical surgery cut in the middle of her chest that you could see as after transitioning he wore open top button shirts.
I was ok with this person, we interacted, I even took him out to lunch one day(I got a $500 monthly budget to take people out).
But in that situation there was no massive transition physically.

This on the other hand, it's a broad swole looking dude who transitioned into a woman whom i guess perhaps paid extra to look more like a woman, but it's a face with 5 o"clock shadow in long blonde hair and a manly voice.

It's totally not the same thing, this is a case where dude looks like he power ranged into a masculine female Megazord.

Being comfortable with Trans people really depends on the trans.
Some are you know just trans, others are TRANS, like way above and beyond trans.
Like trying to be more feminine than women.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If you get fired you probably deserve it

If you can't just sit back and stfu in your seat you're a dumbass

 

[Neuromancer]

But in that situation there was no massive transition physically.

Were his breasts removed before they transitioned to a male because that is a physical change.

Being comfortable with Trans people really depends on the trans.
Some are you know just trans, others are TRANS, like way above and beyond trans.
Like trying to be more feminine than women

Still not sure why this bothers you. Are you drawn to looking at her? Are you forced to? Is it like an uncanny valley situation?

Can you ignore this person or do you want them gone? Are you forced to interact with them regularly?

 

[paperbag]

Wow this thread is a mess. Op can literally be called into HR at anytime for saying he, the correct term, about a burly ass man in a dress and lipliner. Of course he's uncomfortable.

Y'all keep accusing him of wanting to fukk.
So in these situations are you saying the issue is the other women and girls want to fukk?




How can you not understand that having to tiptoe around someone exhibiting severe mental illness, that is being supported by your employer, might be a bit stressful

 

[Detroit Wave]

 

[husto]

 

[Uchiha God]

Mind your business. Get your money. Stay out the way

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

 

[Son Goku]

You don't have to accept anything to acknowledge that people have the right to live their lives the way they see fit. If consenting adults aren't hurting anyone and do that stuff then that's their business. They don't need your approval to do any of it just like you don't need their approval to do what you do.

What you're doing is typical for bigots. All most all of them seek to root their bigotry in something they feel is undeniable so it can be justifiable to the masses. It's still bigotry. 'Transphobia' and 'homophobia' are just terms used to call out bigots. You just call them weaponized terms because you don't seem to like the negative stigma of terms calling out that sort of bigotry.

Funny thing is if we took your same logic and redirected it at another target instead of sexuality, like race, suddenly you'd have issue with it. You might even say something like "well people can't help their race" as if that justifies the use of such logic simply because the target has changed. That's what I mean when I say rooting bigotry in something bigots feel is undeniable to justify it.

^This. The same nikkas on the coli hating on gays and trans folk be the first ones to complain when some non-blacks take that same "anti" energy and redirect it towards us.


"Bu bu but the white supremacy!"-ass nikkas. Hold that same energy you have for people different from you when cacs don't fukk with people that look like you.


Imagine doing something to fukk up your job (getting fired/quitting) in a recession/pandemic cause Bob is now Nancy and is brolic as fukk. So? Unless Nancy is tryna fukk, or you had feelings for Bob, why the fukk does that matter? Do your work, go to your meetings, be respectful, and get paid and go home.


Or, you know, let your lack of "comfortability" fukk you up, quit/get fired, get labeled a trans-phobe so it makes it harder to get a job in the future, and get the fukk on.

 

[BiggWebb79]

If I worked with a trans, its dikk would always be on my mind

Like, I know you want to be a woman, but the weaponry you have dangling between your legs say otherwise