Man I think I wanna be single forever...

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I been thinking...
If I meet a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN there is a 50% chance this chick got an Instagram with a fan club...

I just want a regular life...
Career, chill, take a nice vacation, have a nice birthday...

I'm not even trying to be flashy enough to be exciting to these new type of women...

To make a long story short it's getting harder and harder to really find a good woman these days...

I think it's a waste of time looking for the one...

I think I just need to forget about that...
 

El Coupeacabra

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Advice:
Find an average girl who's cute in the face...hit up retail stores, restaurants, banks etc.

Be genuine with her. Let her know you want to build.

Spoil her. This is important for later.

Now here's the key part, you gotta pull a smooth ass okey-doke and finesse her into losing weight/getting fit like you want.

THEN, you'll forever have the "I was down for you the whole time, always treated you like a queen, always wanted to build with you" card to pull when (not if) she tries to flex.

You gotta keep your shyt a1 though. She's going to catch a lot of eyes and a lot of attention and if she's new to that she won't know how to handle it.

So you gotta be a BIT controlling because dudes will try to undermine you by saying "oh he said you can't have guy friends? Is he insecure?" If she ain't never had game spit at her she might fall for it.

Communication is key. Y'all have to be an open book two ways.

I've been in two long term relationships for the last 8 years. This may or may not work for you. She might run off the first chance she gets once she catches that glow up. But thats the chance you take.

Godspeed.
 

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Got me a nerd who look like a stripper chick, and she stays educating me on some shyt. Def look for someone that hasn't been in the same walk of life, and it makes dating a way more meaningful. Cause its like ya learning something cool about the other person mad often, keeps em interesting too
 

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Advice:
Find an average girl who's cute in the face...hit up retail stores, restaurants, banks etc.

Settle for average ..


Be genuine with her. Let her know you want to build.

Expose yourself and kill your aloofness


Spoil her. This is important for later.

Justify her entitlement and show how little you value yourself

Now here's the key part, you gotta pull a smooth ass okey-doke and finesse her into losing weight/getting fit like you want.

When you spoiled her you justified her lack of discipline/eating habits

why should she change now when you chose up on her chubby ass ?

THEN, you'll forever have the "I was down for you the whole time, always treated you like a queen, always wanted to build with you" card to pull when (not if) she tries to flex.

This is vindictive and petty...worst of all women don't give a f*ck and will downplay ya effort and feelings

Prepare for a monster sized L when she blames you for falling for her in the first place

You gotta keep your shyt a1 though. She's going to catch a lot of eyes and a lot of attention and if she's new to that she won't know how to handle it.

if you were a1..you'd get a girl that had the body type you really want.

So you gotta be a BIT controlling because dudes will try to undermine you by saying "oh he said you can't have guy friends? Is he insecure?" If she ain't never had game spit at her she might fall for it.

You can only apply this outside of the western world.... do it here and you risk counselling for being "abusive"

I've been in two long term relationships for the last 8 years. This may or may not work for you. She might run off the first chance she gets once she catches that glow up. But thats the chance you take.

Godspeed.

Then why bother ? You just confirmed his thoughts on why he should stay single :wow:
 

El Coupeacabra

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Settle for average ..
Nope. You're making an investment. Your time and effort and emotions, which in a perfect situation will reward you with a long term bond with a wonderful woman.
Expose yourself and kill your aloofness
Nope. Communication is what makes all this work. If she doesn't think you're committed why the hell would she put in work for you?
Justify her entitlement and show how little you value yourself
Nah. You need to be valuable to her. If you have low value (in reality this is if you have EQUAL value) to her she will run off the first chance she gets.

You need her to have to make a choice between your KNOWN high value and another male that MAY be higher value. Now it's a gamble for her. Make yourself the safe bet.
When you spoiled her you justified her lack of discipline/eating habits
Nope. You proved yourself to be a high value male as well as formed and emotional and chemical bond. This makes her less likely to leave.
why should she change now when you chose up on her chubby ass ?
Because she will fear losing you to a higher value female. She has to match what you bring to the table.

We're not dropping this on her all of a sudden either. Its a gradual process. If she were to resist this step outright we would cut our losses and move on a long time ago.
This is vindictive and petty...worst of all women don't give a f*ck and will downplay ya effort and feelings

Prepare for a monster sized L when she blames you for falling for her in the first place
Nope. This is us asking for a return on our invested time, money, and emotions. Relationships are a business at the core. Females understand this. If the female you picked demonstrates that she doesn't understand this, cut your losses.
if you were a1..you'd get a girl that had the body type you really want.
Why chase a unicorn when you can breed a stallion?
You can only apply this outside of the western world.... do it here and you risk counselling for being "abusive"
Lies. Not wanting your woman to be out and about alone with other men is not abuse.

If the woman you chose does not understand that...cut your losses.
Then why bother ? You just confirmed his thoughts on why he should stay single :wow:
We are all going to die. Does that mean everyone should commit that right now?
 
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