Man Shocks Ex-Girlfriend by Paying off Her Mortgage To Thank Her for Being a Good Mom

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It would probably be best if the OP added this:

Essentially, he did it for his son. It's dope to see that even if two people can't be together, they're still willing to do what's best for their child. There's too many stories out there to the contrary, and the party who gets hurt/affected the most is typically the child.

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Is it really nécessary to add it. Coli cats are just weirdo.

If you pay for the mortgage of the house your kids live in, it benefits them also.

Cats will have their kids living a payment away from being homeless just to pretend to be the pimp they idolized because of movies and rap :francis:
 

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IF he did this for the right reasons, that is very kind
You never know though.
Men love to throw stuff they did for you “out the kindness of their heart” in your face when you make them angry.

Watch, let them pay your tuition or get a major car repair done, the minute you complain about something else entirely , they’re bringing it up. As if paying some bills makes you above reproach:francis:
On the flipside this is exactly why I wouldn't do it.

One day the woman will say "so what if you did that for me."

Yes he shouldn't hang it over her head... but same time she will disrespect him easily at some point and disregard this huge thing he has done for her which he didn't have to.
 

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On the flipside this is exactly why I wouldn't do it.

One day the woman will say "so what if you did that for me."

Yes he shouldn't hang it over her head... but same time she will disrespect him easily at some point and disregard this huge thing he has done for her which he didn't have to.
If you did it out the kindness of your heart, it shouldn’t matter
You can’t “buy” people Breh and a lot of men lowkey think they can
If you’re buying someone’s love,then you’re attempting to control them :hubie:
 

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If you did it out the kindness of your heart, it shouldn’t matter
You can’t “buy” people Breh and a lot of men lowkey think they can
If you’re buying someone’s love,then you’re attempting to control them :hubie:
I hear you :ehh:
 
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You have kids? And just cause they ex’s don’t mean they hate each other. Maybe they was 2 grown adults who decades to part ways. Either way that’s his kids mom.

he seems to be rich off tic tok, if he got it like that why now? shyt will be for his kid one day
Word. If I had money like that I'd do the same.
 

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Folks overlooking narcissism right in front of them. Did he really do it to help them or did he do it for his ego? He let the whole world know his "good deed". Why? Couldnt just keep it between them. Hes doing it for the clout.
 

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So let's presumed it's something he can afford to do it, more power to him and he should be applauded for it. He was with her to have had a kid so he knows why he chose to do it.

I have done many nice gestures for my ex-wife eg. paid off her car w/2 years left on the loan, pay her insurance annually etc ...
This is usually when I get a decent annual work bonus or shafted uncle Sam and get a nicer return etc ...

Why I do it? It's simple, I was the one who asked for the divorce and walked away from the marriage for a variety of my own reasons. I wasnt happy. She isn't/was never a bad person. All that being said, she could have seriously fleeced me in the divorce with child support, mortgage assistance for like 2 years and she didn't. We had an agreement of what I could afford to pay reasonably and she stuck to it. The judge on the other hand was beta mudafuka who tried everything to throw into the po'house. He kept trying to force her hands to fleece me for more. He had all these calculations telling her what she was 'entitled and she's choosing to take far less' and all that sh8t. He was basically nearly threatening her with comments like you cant come back to my Courtroom asking for more later on and expect retroactive compensation and blah blah blah. That MF had me so heated! He even postponed the hearing to give 'time to think' ... Bish ass negro mudafocka!!! lol
 
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