Married and Divorced twice before 30.

[General Mills]

@General Mills your writing and story telling skills are impeccable. I still remember the thread when Earthquake clowned you, I find myself sitting in the audience when reading your stuff. You should consider shopping your life into a short novel or script.

I am bout to re write Earthquake part 1. Every time I see that dude on TV I flinch.

 

[General Mills]

@General Mills One more question.

This other girl I dated the past her. She's in the Army. I was in contractor in her building in DC. I dated her girl first, years ago. I actually went at her girl bcuz I thought she was just too beautiful. Her girl with pretty too and nice and from the crib. We kicked it for a while, ended up not work. Years pass and I run in Vicky at a club. I get her number and invite to my party. We ended up clicking like no other. Asked her about her ex friend that I use to date she responds "her loss."
Chemisty is great, we're drinking / fukk / Netflix / best friends, but she has a kid. And she's kind of loud at times (Baltimore semi-hood). We kicked it hard for about a year before she got stationed in Germany. So I have 2 ex's in Germany. I thought someone would scoop her by now, hasn't happened. Her tour is almost up. She'll be back in May. She told me she thinks we're met to be together. And would love to be my wife. She's probably the prettiest girl I've ever dated, she's very cool. I'm 34 now, no kids. I'm thinking about taking a chance. Problem is, we have never gotten into it. I know she has a temper, but I haven't seen it yet. And we're not FB friends or on Instagram . I haven't met her family and she hasn't met mine. She married early in the military and has been divorced for like 7 years.

What would you do?

Got to know how she is going to react when things are not ideal. . You said you know she has a temper but has not had a reason to flash it on you. . yet. .

 

[General Mills]

im not good at writing these long drawn out posts but i gotta say that second story really got to me @General Mills

just sat here for the past 3 hours reading through this whole thread

great great stuff my nikka, people been saying it but you really should look into turning these into a book or tv series

even if not these stories, you have a REAL knack for writing

i was @ the first story

i have the same outlook on life as you and appreciate your happy go lucky nature

even though i've had some fukked up shyt happen to me, i see everything as a lesson

all my past and present relationships, whether they work out or not is just another experience in this roller coaster we call life

keep doing you my brother, maybe one day we'll have a drink

I have always had the ability to accept the bad things that happen and roll with it. I know too many homies who face adversity and get so heated they lose track. . Or they can not let go of past hurt an anguish and it eats them up. I believe that if you let things continue to bother you it will affect you internally. . . and externally. We all know people who look older than their years. By letting shyt out of my control go I have ensured that I will continue to have a healthy hairline for years to come.

 

[General Mills]

We are looking for writers for our podcast...

www.fteswl.com is the website check it, it's about sports, entertainment and social topics.

I am checking it out right now.

 

[General Mills]

Quick update from Janet's fam.

Her dad died years ago which I already knew. He was a funny dude. He was older and retired of course. He was not with the church stuff at all. . Now the rest of her fam was but not him. He liked me and when I would visit with my ex he would show out. He would cuss her mother OUT! Over dumb stuff. I would be sitting there My ex would be like DAD!!!

One day we came over and his hobby was collecting cans. He had money. . I think he just really liked to do it. He comes in the house and it was hot as hell that day. Me and him chop it up about as he calls calls them. " Dem Sorry Ass Jaguars " and he goes into the fridge to get some lemonade. . As soon as I saw the pitcher had like 10 drops in it I was already

He starts bellowing. . . GLORIA!!! GET YOUR MONKEY ASS IN HERE! YOU REALLY GOING TO LEAVE ME A HALF OF SKWALLOW ?????? And yall read that right. . Skwallow not swallow. My ex was all like dad come on I will make you some more.


Dad - NAH NAH! HER HIGH YELLOW ASS SIT UP IN HERE WATCHING DEM FAKE PREACHERS ALL DAY ON TV THEN WATCH THEM WHITE PEOPLE ON THE SOAPS fukkING BUT CANT MAKE A COTDAM PITCHER OF LEMONADE! GLORIA GET YOUR BIG ARMED SELF IN HERE AND MAKE MY DRANK!



I was



But I must say they held each other down. She would take his tirades and they would pass. Then he would be asking her what she need etc. Well he passed. . . .I called her parents house and got no answer. I did not have her brothers numbers or either sister. . But I am friends with the one sister on FB. ( not the bad one ) I am on a anti facebook kick right now. Have not been on in 6 or so months. But my page is still active. So I log in and shoot her a message asking about everyone. My ex's mom died last year. She was such nice lady. Saw a pic of her back in the day and she was bad! My ex is now living with her one brother and his fam and she is doing good. She has a job cleaning at the airport. Her brother is a TSA agent so he keeps an eye on her. She works a few hours in the early morning cleaning up before it gets too busy.

She said she is healthy and fine. The other sister they had to threaten to give up the power of attorney cause she was robbing her blind. And she was not taking care of her. . . How can fam do that??

 

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@General Mills I am glad you followed up. That must make you feel good that she's safe, able to work and being looked after with her brother now.

 

[LinusCaldwell]

I am checking it out right now.

Appreciate that breh and listen to our podcasts any and every support is needed. But yeah we are looking for writers.

 

[ZEB WALTON]

how you doing now mills

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Later that night I sat there and thought about it. . . Even this trip to PA. . She refused to come. She did not want me to go really. . But I was going to see my people. I really truly sat there and looked at the whole situation and realized I was miserable. .and I was going to let her know. I was not angry or upset. . I was looking forward to it. . I figured she would meet me halfway.

I get home and I tell her straight up I am unhappy. We need to make some changes. . She was shocked but eager to help. . This I FULLY ADMIT. She never changed who she was when we got married. She was not a going out person when we were dating. We normally hung out at each others house. She did not pump fake me or anything like that. I was attracted to the fact that she was not in the streets every weekend. .

So she did not switch up the game. . I did. Everything that I was cool with I was not longer cool with when it became apparent that this is how it is going to be till one of us dies. No more traveling. No seeing shows. . etc. . Not even road trips. But I was sure when I explained to her what I wanted. . Just us to get out the house. TOGETHER. I had no wish to do trips solo when I am married. Seemed weird.

I told her what I wanted. . She looked me dead in my face and said no. She is not comfortable going anywhere at all.

I have the same problem.
The exact same problem.
Finding it hard to leave because we have a kid together.
She's happy doing nothing all the time.
I can't live like that.
How do you find the balls to go?
I don't want another female...just my freedom.

 

[General Mills]

how you doing now mills

I actually feel pretty good. I always kind of wondered what she was up too. . . I know she is now safe and happy. Her sis said she got a lot of her memory back. So she remembers she was a teacher. . remembers u being married then divorced but friends throughout. She remembers the guy who beat her up.

 

[General Mills]

@General Mills I am glad you followed up. That must make you feel good that she's safe, able to work and being looked after with her brother now.

Oh for sure! I am very happy she is doing good. Sad about her moms though.

When I THINK about it her moms reminded me of her. She was nice and quiet, did not like to go anywhere and just mainly went to church.

 

[General Mills]

I have the same problem.
The exact same problem.
Finding it hard to leave because we have a kid together.
She's happy doing nothing all the time.
I can't live like that.
How do you find the balls to go?
I don't want another female...just my freedom.

Oh no.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Oh no.

Yes, I messed up.
I did the church girl thing.
I'm in the exact same situation with a dud good-girl with no life, hobbies or interests.
Just wants to stay at home all the time.
Honestly yo, she threatened to leave me last night because I go out on trips with my co-workers on my lunch break.
Inside, I was hoping she was serious...I had it all planned out.
I was gonna go get a PO box, take her off all the accounts, get my direct deposit on a new account with just me on it, take her name off the credit card and my car, change the locks...everything.
Then she called to make up this afternoon...

I halfway want to go through with just packing up her shyt and giving her the key to the storage it's kept at and saying "See ya"...

 

[YeLovesBoston]

When I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is.

Mills you was the only good man she ever knew

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I remember I went into the Den. . Fired up Madden on my PS2. . And was playing and thinking. . Is she the one? I tried to list the pros and cons. . I had nothing much really in the con section. Ass could stand to be a lil plumper I guess. . She was conservative in bed but she was trying new things. . . I had no real cons. ( Later I figured out I was not asking myself the right questions. )

So I rolled with it.

Same stupid crap I did...
Wrong questions...wrong damn questions...