Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[African Peasant]

Not indulging in every last one of your desire = living in 'a lie'.

Post modernism and its twitter application have been a disaster for humanity.

Learn principle and discipline. There are a lot of things you might desire but you better no try to obtain.

 

[maxamusa]

OP needs his name changed to The Dumbest Perspective

 

[qwasi]

Is there anything else you talk about beyond the shortcomings men and women or failures in personal relationships. Goddamn, aren't you exhausted!!

 

[Carl Tethers]

Not indulging in every last one of your desire = living in 'a lie'.

Post modernism and its twitter application have been a disaster for humanity.

Learn principle and discipline. There are a lot of things you might desire but you better no try to obtain.

OP is a decadent fakkit

 

[maxamusa]

Hell, im in my first real relationship after hoeing like crazy. Never been in a ltr, figured id try it out, fukked alot, and im in my prime still. my girl is kinda great actually...which scares me. Because I definately think about fukking other chicks.

And now that im doing the LTR thing....despite me reallly caring about my girl, and not wanting that to end....I cant help byt think this may be a trap, another outdated concept of self deception imposed by humans that NEED this shyt for some reason.

Because not many dudes are..gifted enough to truly TRULY have options. To TRULY have a satisfying social life, and women that still pursue YOU. 95% of men dont have that kinda juice. So they NEED the relationship dynamic. Its their ticket to mating consistently .

I have a home boy who talks a good game. But jumped from one relationship to an ugly chick, to another ugly chick. And now he proposed. He always kinda acted like maintaining a relationship was a skill that perhaps I couldnt do, but he could. So I may fukk more bishes, but they wanna BE with him type of thing.

Now, that im in one, i realize this dude was being a damn simp, and didnt have options like that nor a social life. Most of these dudes utlize their SO as their source of companionship too...as in they lose or dont have many friends.

Long story short, my girl is awesome. Dont want her to go anywhere, but...there was definately perks to the single life also IF you have juice and a good social life. So now you're in a place where its like...well shyt Im not gonna cheat (but I can see why some dudes do tbh) and im not gonna break up with her because I wanna fukk around either...that seems...not right.

I still kinda think this shyt is designed for dudes that lack some shyt. So wheb a dude is MARRYING, im like...okay bro lol you trapped bad, or clueless.

Marriage is designed for people lacking? You got 2 be joking

this is the only platform you could ever get that off and people would actually co-sign.

Everywhere else in every single culture worldwide it is ALWAYS assumed the exact Opposite if you're NOT married at a certain point.

trust me dawg; nobody is looking at you like you're hue Hefner in these streets

 

[badboys11]

From my experience sex gets better with the same woman over time as you get to know her and she learns you.

Sadly too many women are horrible with making relationship decisions and make horrible choices on who to be with, leading to a society of people who really don't belong with each other, but they stay together because it's familiar, a good look on social media, or financial reasons.


These are the relationships that lead to dry sex.


These dry sex relationships lead to 20+ yr old me being thrown some fire p*ssy cause the husband wants something different and the wife wants hot sex.


One of the greatest lies women tell themselves, sex isn't everything in a relationship. It's not everything by definition, but if the sex game ain't right and it goes stale you might as well toss it in the bushes because that need will be rectified. So sex needs to be at the top of the list

And how many married men out there actually check up on their wives, like telling her u going out of town on a business trip to a convention on the west coast, but Friday/saturday evening 3am u walking through the door? Trust me, kids know how to keep a secret, just buy them the video game they wanted and now you the greatest.

All that constructive talk sounds good but I've seen the tears from a grown man's face when reality hits, that's your wife legally but she's this guy side piece. U just a paycheck/daddy to the kids, may not even be your kids u need a paternity test and u scared to get one cause of what the results may be.

A lot of marriages need to be called out for what they are, rentals like blockbuster video. Remember how they had daily, weekly and monthly rentals? Same thing with one night stands, relationships and a lot of marriages.

At the end of the day she going back to the store.

 

[Contrefaire]

why are you obsessed with married men?

I'm probably gonna get a lot of shyt for this but I have a theory that unhappily SINGLE men self-soothe by telling themselves that (seemingly) happily married men are just "lying to themselves". And if that doesn't work they'll even push or create content engineered to make more men feel lonely and insecure.

Hence why simple shyt like buying flowers for your girl and treating her nice gets called "simping" and the "she's not your girl, it's just your turn" manta is so often repeated.

 

[UpNext]

It's way more to life than sex with strangers OP. If all I had going for myself was sex with strangers then yeah I'd feel less than as a man, but I don't sooooooo

 

[The ADD]

This should be fun

 

[BigE214]

I was the most playa nikka you ever met. I ran through all hoes, like Marshall Faulk. But you approach 20 off doing the same shyt and after a while you want different.

You don hit all da hoes.
Pregnancy scares ain't cool.
Paying for multiple dates for chicks youuuuuu ain't into/don't deserve it gets stale.
Keeping ya dikk hard for a bih you don't even really like gets old.
Then you'll just want different.

I mean I still keep 2/3 baddies myself but I got one that could take me it the game and I wouldn't mind it one bit

 

[Contrefaire]

It's way more to life than sex with strangers OP. If all I had going for myself was sex with strangers then yeah I'd feel less than as a man, but I don't sooooooo

Constant new p*ssy and sex with strangers is all some nikkas think/care about apparently because they don't know how to form bonds with women and never experienced what it's like to actually LIKE them. They'll move heaven and earth for their homeboys but act like women who just want a piece of their time have cooties. shyt's weird af.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

It's like teaching middle school sometimes with some of you Brehs.

Buying food from a store is not natural. Working a job for money instead of hunting is not natural.

Being married is about deciding to commit to another person because you have common goals. It's not a state of nature, it is an act of higher intelligence. It's actually the children that would benefit the most from having married parents that work together well.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

look but don’t touch.

Basically this

 

[The BasedFather]

In a LTR of five years. Every once in awhile I think about what it’d be like being with a different woman. There’s different body shapes and variety and I miss the feeling of trying something new. Main thing is discipline. Having the will power to say NO and realize what you have. Sex with that same woman over and over can be boring only if you let it be that way. It can also be exciting going to the couch, trying lingerie, sending nudes while you’re apart.

 

[The BasedFather]

My marriage ended when my wife died 3 years ago.

You can take your foot out of your mouth now.​

Sorry for your loss brother.